Online dating, regret, sadness, loss, what is love, turning, fate

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello landlord.

    After reading the whole article, I only saw your demands and panic. You say that he doesn't believe in his words, but in fact, you have never really believed in him, the Internet is originally illusory, and it is forced to actualize, it is bound to face a lot of problems, and you don't have much security about your feelings, which reduces its stability even more.

    Even you wonder if he's emotional**. It's been a year since you realized it on the Internet and turned to reality, haven't you really known him for so long?

    Let's think about whether you really like him or if you just find a relationship to rely on when you are lonely.

    Good luck!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Follow your feelings.

    Don't regret it, don't do it if you're afraid of regretting.

    No one can help you bear the consequences, you are happy and you fight for it, and you regret it is your own choice. Isn't it?

    So people are like this, every step is a thought, a choice.

    May you take every step of the way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are some things you have to wait.

    There is a fable about a small river, the banks of which are covered with weeds and thorns, but the other side is full of flowers and birds. There are a few caterpillars on this shore that yearn for life on the other side, and they complain about why their mother gave birth to them in such a ghostly place.

    Mother Butterfly said, "You know what? It's safer to be born here than there.

    If you want to think of the other side, you must wait until you grow up, now is not the time. ”

    One day, a boy was swimming in a small river and, out of curiosity, swam to this bank. A few caterpillars couldn't wait to land on the boy's head, wanting to take the opportunity to the other side. Unexpectedly, the boy found something strange on his head at the moment he entered the water, and killed the insects in just three or two clicks.

    Soon, a flock of ducks swam on the other side. A few more caterpillars were ready to move to the other side with the help of ducks, although the attempt was extremely dangerous. But they saw the opportunity and landed on a few ducks.

    The ducks didn't know it at first, but just when the caterpillars were secretly proud, the ducks discovered the delicacy in each other, and then, they feasted on it. Still, the remaining caterpillars' yearning for the other side has not disappeared. They are still looking for their moments.

    The opportunity has finally arrived. One day, a strong wind arose in the river, and the wind blew from one shore to the other. Caterpillars climb up the leaves.

    The fallen leaves are blown into the river by the wind after a while, and this is exactly what they want: to use the leaves as a boat and cross the river. But unfortunately, the wind was so strong that it tore over all the leaves, and the caterpillars drowned.

    The end of the fable is quite optimistic: the only caterpillar that listens to his mother slowly grows up, turns into a butterfly, flies across the river, and reaches the beautiful other side.

    To eat delicious fruit, you have to wait until the fruit is ripe; If you want to drink a good wine, you also have to be patient to wait for a long cellar. We have to wait for many things, and it is not advisable to be in a hurry, and it is even more undesirable to pull out the seedlings to help them grow. You know, maybe it's just when you're sleeping soundly during the long night, the buds outside the house are blooming, and there is a surprise for you at dawn!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It seems that you don't want to break off with him, can you try to contact him? And go to his house to see.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no right or wrong in feelings, this requires both parties to pay, and true love is to find a way to understand him and strive to grasp his own happiness. I bless you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are all hard to serve the Lord! One is afraid of deception, the other is afraid of betrayal! If you don't adjust it, even if you are together, if you go alone in the future, he will not be at ease and will want to monitor you.

    You're right to be afraid of deception, after all, the Internet is not the same as in reality, you need more time to understand his real life, including his friends, his family, etc., the so-called road knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people over time, if he really loves you, or likes you, he will understand and give you enough time, If he can't do this, what is he in a hurry, then you are willing to believe *** words: All love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Big sister, it's too long, you should understand him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, you should choose to believe. But you have to have your own bottom line. You choose to believe in Him first.

    Only then can we get to know him. Not all of you are on the defensive. Preparedness.

    Then he will feel the same way. It feels like you're lying to him. It's not easy for two people to be together.

    But if both people are on the defensive. At the end of the day, can you still believe it? Even you won't believe it anymore.

    Subconsciously, you're saying he's a **. Got it? At the beginning, it is necessary to establish a bond of mutual trust, and then the relationship can continue.

    It's not that you're still like this in the end.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Alas, everything depends on fate, if you love, be brave, if you don't love, give up, let everything take its course, and wish you good luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The Buddha said: ...Ay. Never mind. It's hard to say.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Fate is not for everyone, sometimes there is fate but no fate, sometimes there is a fate but no fate, why do people say fate. What about fate? It is the word fate that must not be separated.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm also dating online, and it's continuing now. We only met the other day!

    Indeed, online dating also has real feelings, just like us, and now it feels like it's really about to be separated.

    There is no right or wrong in love, you are not wrong, and she is not wrong. You don't have to feel guilty, even if you don't have it, after a long time, she will still break up with that person, after all, it's not love. So don't feel bad, it's fate!

    Others won't look down on you, as long as you are someone who understands love, they will understand you!

    Also, you said that you were not her first love, so what are you! Is first love so important? Is first love important? You're thinking too much! The relationship is really good!

    Don't know Zhao Benshan's lines? First love doesn't understand love at all! Oh In short, I think it's a big network, and it's a kind of fate to let you meet and fall in love! It's true!

    What you should do is to cherish this fate and love her well! Not self-blame! It's not that you doubt 1 believe in your feelings! You're not wrong!

    We're all dating online! Hehe, let's work together!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I just want to know what would happen to her if one day a man who was better and more pathetic than you appeared.

    I don't think feelings are pity, nor are they buying persimmons, pinching this and picking that, what to do if you encounter difficulties after being so firm, people can't have smooth sailing.

    You should take care of this weight yourself, online dating is dangerous, and it is recommended that you talk to your parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm about the same age as you.

    You can feel the contradictions in your heart.

    I've also had netizens who can talk to each other.

    Maybe over time.

    You will find out. That's not realistic.

    Your feelings are real.

    But ...Some things are still complicated.

    Maybe you'll be together, maybe that's right.

    No matter what.

    If the love between you is true then consider the reality.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She has changed a lot for you, proving that she has a lot of feelings for you! I think you should let it go!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After all, online dating is a love affair in a virtual world, which is unreal Even if both parties have promised something, it is only a promise in an unreal world and is not representative. A world that is too dreamy will make people fall into a realm from which they cannot escape. I stand in the perspective of a teenager, I think, especially teenagers, should not believe in online dating, virtual reality can not correctly solve the fundamental problem of love, can only satisfy the temporary happiness, does not mean forever; Adults should be more aware than teenagers, and adults with self-control should remind teenagers not to get involved in online dating when you ask them not to get involved in online dating.

    Here, I sincerely hope that if you meet the edge of online dating, please take the initiative to stretch out your hand as soon as possible and get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, so as not to taste the bitterness yourself!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To develop the feeling of the Internet into reality, that is love, is reliable, understand each other, take the Internet as a way to start getting acquainted, just like a marriage agency, you have to face the reality sooner or later, instead of relying on the marriage agency to help you pass on the news for a lifetime, it is not practical to live a lifetime in this way, try to meet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In the world, only the two of you meet and know each other, and you are interested in each other's mystery, and it is precisely because you don't know each other that you will tell each other everything in your heart... It's no surprise that you'll see each other as confidants

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not all the things in the network are fake, on the contrary, many of them are a person's own voice, and they usually don't talk to others much about words and things. poured out his feelings in the network.

    That's your fate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    On the Internet, online dating has its authenticity, but not all online dating exists authenticity, after all, the Internet is a virtual world, so we must be cautious to believe.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After all, the web is nothing. Fall in love online. It's just on paper.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    As long as you believe it, then it is the real fate!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because I haven't met anything in my life that makes you think so, it means that you are a romantic and fantasy person

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Admittedly, yes.

    You both love each other, and at the same time there are too many helplessness in your world, I think a lot of helplessness appears, you can't just blame and the reality is like this, it's all a matter of two people, I believe that as long as two people are convinced, these problems are not a big problem to solve, and at the same time you also ask yourself, have you done your best to fight for the results you want?

    I don't think you have it, and you haven't fought for it because of the distance, because some of the questions around you give the answer a freeze frame.

    When you each return to your own world, it seems that both of you feel so helpless, she loves you with him who doesn't love, and you love "her" with her who doesn't love, is these things really so difficult to abandon?

    If you still feel that reality is still reality, what is too much helplessness, I can only say that your love is really limited to everyone, many of you are fantasizing about the love of the other party as the best partner, in fact, there is no depth of the most patience of both parties (because I have always felt that the love that needs to be contacted in reality is the most thorough love to understand, but not absolutely).

    If you still feel that reality is still reality, what is too much helplessness, I think it's all an excuse, really love so deeply, the problem of this is not a problem, two people who have the courage to face difficulties, two people who solve difficulties, will make each other more profound.

    It doesn't matter if you're wrong or whose fault it is.

    If everyone has always used helplessness as an excuse, don't complain.

    Don't complain about fate.

    I only complained that I didn't do my best to fight for it.

    In my outlook on life, there is nothing that compares to my love and happiness.

    Only when you have a precious love and happiness will you feel no regrets.

    Otherwise, no matter how accomplished, it is only superficial.

    You can never fill the missing piece of your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Calm down and think about what you really want, and then, trust your feelings, and make a choice calmly, after all, fate is predestined.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I believe that if you can love, the society will not give up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not easy to meet a safe and suitable person. Don't let go of it casually when you hold hands.,It's best not to think about online dating when it's bumpy=、The credibility is very low.。 have all had the experience of online dating only.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I've been busy with my final exams lately, so I'm waiting for the masters to come.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's a hard question.

    The man went to the Shaolin Temple.

    And the women went to the nunnery.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Uh-huh, yes, I wish I could help you!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't be sad friends! First of all, online dating is not worth believing, you two don't even know each other, not even friends, just go straight to dating! Such feelings are unreliable!

    Online dating is all about loneliness or exploitation, and to put it bluntly, it is a place to vent! Because the other person doesn't know you, and you don't know her, you can say anything! He has no relationship with you at all, I advise you not to get back together, long pain is better than short pain!

    After a long time, you will be even more sad! Slowly you will forget about him!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Virtual things are always fake, don't take it too seriously, everything depends on fate.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Heartbeat or heartbroken, even if it. There was one time, and I remembered it in my heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    With the current tense pace of life, online dating will also be an indelible way of love in the future. For example, children think that there is no way to achieve fun without money, and the Internet solves their problems, and I can't count the platforms. But it's just one way, and the other ways of lotus love are still there.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I think I had it when I was in kindergarten, haha.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There have been 2 times, and the second time I got married.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There's nothing to regret It's been experienced when I'm young, and looking back in the future, at least that time wasn't empty, it's the process of growing up.

    It's okay to reflect but don't regret your decision ...

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    At least it was a good experience.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No matter what way you fall in love, you will meet someone unladylike, it depends on how your fate came through, and you can grasp it yourself.

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