If a colleague matches you with a friend of the opposite sex and says that you are a good fit, whate

Updated on workplace 2024-04-14
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How do you feel about yourself, and you are not interested in this friend of the opposite sex?

    Judging from your description above, he refused before maybe he really wanted to start a business while he was young and then start a family, but then he asked you just because he was curious about you as a person who likes him, as for him asked you if you want to marry in a foreign country, your family will agree to it, have you ever thought about getting married or something, maybe it should be because he is also a little interesting to you, but he will not come to you until his career is successful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If a colleague matches you with a friend of the opposite sex and you don't feel like the two are a good fit, here's how you can respond:

    1.Stay calm: Don't be embarrassed or upset by a colleague's opinion.

    2.Express your thoughts: You can tell a colleague that you don't have any special feelings for the friend of the opposite sex, or that you don't think the two are a good fit.

    3.Emphasize personal strengths: You can talk about your own strengths, such as you like your job very much, your hobby is fitness, etc., which can indirectly let people know that you are an independent person with your own life, not an accessory of others.

    The most important thing is to be clear about your thoughts and values, and not to change yourself because of other people's opinions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's just to find out the news, I'm afraid that I will not agree to you directly and I won't be able to get off the stage, I can see that he has a lot of eyes, and he is more tactful, and he is in love with such a person, and he is not afraid that one day he will be played in or out.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are two possibilities:1Either he likes you but doesn't want others to know 2Either it's to introduce you to someone, and it's also out of town.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Congratulations! It's that girl who's interesting to you! Just drag your friends to pull the red line! Remember!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She has intentions, and it depends on whether you have any affection.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's definitely not good.,I didn't pay much attention to you before.,I didn't say I agreed or anything.,Later, I talked about a girlfriend.,I guess it's showing off in front of his girlfriend.,Someone once liked him or something.。 Some people are the same when they are working, and they are the same in life. Actually, human nature is all the same!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let it be natural, matching it doesn't mean that you can be together, look at your own feelings after getting along, if you have feelings, you can do it if you don't feel it, and you can't force it if you don't feel it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's all a hi joke, it can only show that you are excited, and someone else's demagogic words make you overwhelmed, and you ask yourself about your psychology, whether it is appropriate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This kind of coaxing is normal, and when it is put together, it depends on whether it is a concubine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The key is to look at the character, and the character is more important than the things outside!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether you love him or not needs to feel it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you like it, you're together

    Don't force it if you don't like it

    After all, people are just joking

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's good, you just take love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First see if that handsome guy is interesting to you, and then think about whether you are interested in him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't care what others say, go with your whims.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Only you know if the shoes fit or not

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's the default. Otherwise.

    It should be disgusting.

    You have to observe more details about the girls.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's better to explain this in advance, you first let the colleague who likes you know that you are not suitable, and then you are tactful in front of everyone when you are matching.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You tell your colleagues that you don't like him, and tell them to stop talking.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to refuse, you should also refuse politely, don't say hurtful things to others, and find an appropriate opportunity to explain things clearly with him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't talk about it, because since she released such news.

    It means that she doesn't want to be with you.

    Why confess?

    It will be even more awkward to meet later.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Find a chance to say it, after that, there will be nothing, if she likes you too, it will be better, if she doesn't like you in the first place, it will make you die, start a new love, start a new love without worry.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Having a boyfriend is not married, you can pursue it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't talk about it, after all, everyone has a boyfriend, and if she is interesting to you, she won't find a boyfriend right away, let it go, and you'll meet a better one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you like it, say it, or you'll regret it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then you just like a new one.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you like her, tell her out loud.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Don't say it, people have other loves, so why bother 1 forcing it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What is such a woman to do.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello, I personally think that it should show that she wants to be friends with you, as for whether it is in love or friends, I don't know very well, because I don't know the specific situation, you can judge for yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As soon as you look at the way and words of the girl said by the landlord, you can imagine that two immature boys and girls are right. We have a good relationship...I guess what happened to her, you should find out, maybe she doesn't really like it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You said that you don't really want to go back with your ex-boyfriend, but since you're not so resolute, you still have the idea of reconciling, right? In this matter, whether you come here with your subordinates or not, I personally think it's better not to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend.

    As for the person he met later, he was happy when he met, and he felt that ** was suitable, so why did he break up with his ex-girlfriend? Will you encounter the same problem in the future, if this person is not a very, very suitable person who you want to be together very much, I think it is better to wait and see, after all, you also said that the circle is so big, you two together, you will be very stressed. Whether they get along well or not will make others gossip, and people are terrible.

    But if you feel that you will regret missing him, then it is better to be brave, but if it is not someone like that, think about it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's just one more copy.

    The moon confessed, and it was definitely not serious.

    If it is really for the purpose of pursuing you, you are married.

    I must have known each other for a long time before confessing.

    Because everyone has a process of knowing and understanding.

    If he really loves you very much.

    There will definitely be a fear that you will refuse.

    Definitely wouldn't have made such a hasty confession.

    If you have a choice before you start a new relationship.

    Try not to choose a boyfriend who you know from your ex-boyfriend.

    As a personal opinion of a person who has come before.

    Hope it helps.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you like it, you'll be together and be in charge of what your ex-man has.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Observe first!

    Give yourself a time to accept him and don't reject him!

    Time will tell, and slowly you will feel more and more intense, or something!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I don't think it's a matter of urgency now, you have to think carefully about whether the first thing is to observe, to see if it comes from the heart, and whether your heart should be on him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If it's me, I don't want both, I've let go of this kind of mistake before, people are terrible, there are so many men in the world, and people love them dead and alive can break up, not to mention that you don't love him yet. Think it out for yourself

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you like it, you'll be together, and you'll say it's an ex-boyfriend, so why do you want to do so much.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think, don't be too deliberate to pursue any answers, love is originally to go with the flow and follow the feeling of things.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    As long as you feel good together, don't think about anything else.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Take your time, don't rush, and observe more. Feelings are selfish, and if you like it, don't care about your ex.

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