Did your girlfriend give up like this? Help, thanks

I didn't see your actions, the girls are like this for you, and you're still there. First of all, living with a girl without ignoring the opposition of the woman's family is disrespectful to the girl's parents, and the parents should be very disgusted with the kind of man who has no responsibility. Again, the girl's father took the girl away, and you didn't come forward to say anything, just stood there and watched, as if you didn't care about the girl, and in the end, the girl's things were in you, and you could have a chance to send the things back to explain to the other party's parents, and you could also care about the girl.

But you instructed to wait until someone else's family came to pick up the things, and you didn't explain it properly. I don't see any sincerity or action on your part in your description, only complaints and scoundrels. Your family background may be a disadvantage, but your character, low self-esteem, dare not take responsibility, complain, and do not use your brains are your Achilles' heel.

I'm a girl, and my parents don't worry about handing over their daughter to you. Girls who can't see your sincerity and actions will feel that their efforts are not worth it.

Where is there no grass at the end of the world, why are big men so childlike?? I used to seem to be like you.,Let the Buddha see yourself.。。 But I tell you, time can dilute everything, even if you are in pain now, you will get better in the future, what you have to do now is to work hard to strengthen yourself, marry a beautiful woman in the future, and make them envious and jealous.

Remember, always think more about yourself at all times. Let it go now, her family will never accept you, trust me, it's a fact. In the future, when you have money and status, no matter what their family is, you will laugh at you now, and you will look down on her now.

She's under a lot of pressure, so give her some time to think about it.

Be brave, girls are fine.

You must know the reason why her family disagrees, prescribe the right medicine, face them sincerely, and make up for your shortcomings with your practical actions, so that the stalemate will not benefit anyone, and if you can't do it, there are only two ways, divide, or elopement, and be ruthless not to let any acquaintances find you, and naturally no one will bother you anymore.

Try harder, lad.

Brother, whether you should give up or not, the final decision is yourself. I only express my opinion, just for reference:

I think there is a kind of truth about the choice between persistence and abandonment, if you do something good and you are excited to do it yourself, then it is worth failing and persevering; If what you're doing isn't necessarily good and you're tired of doing it yourself, then it's a mistake and you need to stop.

Coming back to your problem, if you think that you love your girlfriend very much, and you are willing to work hard and have the ability to communicate with her to solve the current problem, then even if you are a little tired, you must persevere, because the joy of happiness after perseverance and final success is great. Of course, on the other hand, if you think that the process of dating your girlfriend has made you exhausted, unhappy, or even more lonely, then you are tired, which means that the current relationship is not what you really want, and you have no way to change it, then you can only stop, even if your girlfriend is perfect in the eyes of others.

I also went through many relationships before I found my other half, which is normal, whether it is suitable or I know best.

Hope it helps.