Why did you refuse to choose an older leftover girl?

First of all, you have to think like this, there must be a reason behind the leftover girls of the older age, I saw some funny blind date scenes in the movie, which gave people a kind of revelation, there are some older leftover girls who don't seem to have any problems, but when you really communicate with her in front of you, you will find that the problem is very big, and the reason why they are left behind is for unique reasons, for example, some people may be because of psychological reasons, and some people may be because of various unspeakable reasons, When a woman doesn't marry herself off for many years, I have reason to suspect that she has some unspeakable secrets that she doesn't want to be talked about.

This topic reminds me of buying vegetables in the supermarket, maybe this example is not appropriate here, first of all, I want to show that I don't mean to be enemies of all women, just make a simple analogy, when buying vegetables in the supermarket, everyone will pick those that are fresher, the quality is better to buy first, and after the purchase, the rest may be sold at a discount in the supermarket, because these vegetables may not be as fresh or as good as the previous ones, Therefore, I can understand that these dishes often have some flaws and are picked on by others. Speaking of which, it is already very vivid, and it seems that there is a certain truth in using this principle in the case of older leftover women.

I did encounter such a problem when I went on a blind date, those older leftover girls have a very high vision, even very harsh, I once met a girl who looks okay, she can work in her 30s, but she always feels that she is particularly good, thinking that she can be matched with a better man, her eyes are on the top of her head, and she uses all kinds of eggs to pick bones to demand each other harshly, this is the terrible thing about older leftover women, If she hadn't had such harsh demands, she might not have survived to this day, so the poor must have something to hate.

To sum up, there must be a reason why the older leftover girl was left behind, and I may not be willing to accept the reasons why she was left behind.

The phenomenon of a large number of older leftover women is abnormal, and the essence is that the supply and demand situation in some areas has changed.

Because older leftover women have no experience of marriage, they regard themselves as high, arrogant and unsociable, and their ideas and practices are a little extreme, which is different from ordinary people, so they refuse to choose older leftover women.

1. The temper of older leftover women is strange and difficult to get along with. A few older leftover women that I came into contact with around me. They are not ugly, and they all have certain abilities at work, but they have a very common characteristic, that is, they have an eccentric temper, always unsociable, and like to go their own way, and they feel that it is particularly difficult to get along with her.

Often many older leftover women are more self-righteous, often thinking that what they say is right, only insisting on their own opinions, and not liking to listen to other people's opinions. Therefore, because of the eccentric temper of older leftover women, men basically will not marry older leftover women unless they are forced to do so.

Second, older leftover women are demanding, picky, and difficult to meet.

The reason why many women become leftover women is because they have higher requirements, and they don't look down on ordinary men. So the more picky they are, the higher their vision, even if they are very good men, they can't look down on them, so in the end, it becomes more and more difficult for men to meet her requirements, and this will form a vicious circle, resulting in the older the woman, the more she can't get married.

In fact, many women who can't find a partner are ruined by the requirements for men. In this world, there are not many men who are too good, and if women want to pursue perfection, they will be easily left behind. And this has become another big reason why men don't like older leftover women.

3. Older leftover women often don't understand feelings and have low emotional intelligence.

Many women are not chased after them when they reach a certain age, often not because they are not good enough, but because women's emotional intelligence is too low and they don't know how to fall in love. Maybe in the process of interacting with a man, the man has already given her a certain hint, but she can't see through it at all, and she rejects the man vigorously, so it is difficult for such a woman to get a boyfriend, and it is easy to be left because of this weakness. Therefore, older leftover women are easy to be disliked by men, most likely because the emotional intelligence of older leftover women is too low and they are unable to communicate their feelings at all.

Therefore, if a woman wants to avoid becoming an older leftover woman, she must get rid of her own bad habits.

Because older leftover women will make people feel very oppressed, they will feel as if they have experienced a lot, too mature, and I am very uncomfortable.

Because older leftover women tend to be very high-minded, very picky, and too mature, not the type I like.

According to the teachings of the elders in the family, they feel that older girls may have more difficulties in giving birth in the future. There are also older girls, who may be more emotionally rich and more deeply involved in the world.

I reject older leftover women because age affects fertility, and women who are too old to have children are not good for women and children.

I refused to choose older leftover women because they couldn't find the partner they wanted, so they just came to us, and they had a high-minded mentality, which made me very uncomfortable.

Because I think older leftover women have more or less psychological problems, so they will be left.

I think it's mainly because there are many older leftover women who are very demanding, so when you get along with them, it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen.

The requirements for these older leftover women are very high, and these older leftover women are also very good, and there will definitely be a lot of requirements when looking for the other half, so many people will say not to look for older leftover women.

Because such a girl is very demanding, such a girl is not high or low, and it will be dangerous to have a child.

I worship money by myself, and the parents of older leftover girls worship money even more!

The older leftover women all have Sister Feng's disease and princess disease.

Do what you like.

Men pursue older leftover women to do what they like, older leftover women like honest men, even if you are not honest to disguise the appearance of an honest man, at least not like three points, if you can be meticulous to her, even if you lack in material aspects, the older leftover women will be ignored, the focus of the older leftover women is the direction of your efforts, the focus of the older leftover women is to find an honest man or a good man to marry themselves.

You have to know what the older leftover girl likes, preferably what she dreams of, and wait until the important day for her, similar to a birthday or Valentine's Day, you can create a surprise and a romantic scene to give her, and the older leftover girl will be overwhelmed or impressed by your sudden and unexpected behavior.

No, because the reason why older leftover women have stayed until now is because they have not met a suitable one, if you are very suitable for her, it must be very easy to handle, and at this age, the criteria for choosing a mate have also been lowered.

The reason may be that they don't believe in love, or they meet someone they like, or they want to prioritize their careers, etc.

Nowadays, there are many women in their thirties or forties, and they don't want to get married yet, and there are many reasons why they don't get married. The reasons for this are probably as follows:

Fear of marriage.

Some people are unhappy in their original families, and their parents have a bad relationship. For example, their parents quarrel or fight all year round, and they grow up in such a bad family atmosphere, and they don't feel the happiness that marriage brings them. They are afraid that they will live the same life as their parents when they get married, and they don't want their children to suffer the same sin as they have suffered, so they prefer not to marry.

There are also some people who have seen too many examples of other people's bad feelings, such as their friends or relatives are not very happy after marriage, and this situation makes them not believe in marriage, they feel that marriage is a burden. For example, the popular life drama "Dear Child", many people said that they didn't dare to get married after watching this work. They are worried that after getting married, they will live a hard life like Fang Yinuo, giving birth to a child and taking care of it by themselves, encountering betrayal by their husband, and the child being sick.

Didn't meet true love.

It's not that some girls don't want to get married, but they haven't met the person they want to marry, they just want to marry their true love. However, some people are busy with work or have a narrow social circle, and they have not met such a person so far, so they are single.

I want to put my energy into my career.

Some girls are very rational, they know that the relationship is not solid, the person you like may leave you, and the career will not betray you, they want to have a stable career. If they have a stable career, they can also improve their quality of life. So they want to focus all their attention on their careers, and they don't want their family and married life to bother them.

The reason why many older leftover women do not choose to get married is because their concept of marriage and childbearing has undergone a series of changes, and they also yearn for freedom, and the current economic pressure is relatively large.

Older leftover women have jobs and financial strength, and have high vision, not everyone can look at them, so don't be a full-time wife at home.