What do you think is the difference between you a year ago and who you are now?

People have reached middle age, year by year is really fast, a year a feeling, when I was a child, a year is so long, every day in class and class, the holiday is always far away, as well as winter and summer vacations, compared to the present, I feel that a year has passed in a swish, and there are a lot of things that have not come to the end of the year, just think about a year's plan half a year has passed, the older I am more and more obtuse in the perception of things, but more and more sensitive to time, people to middle age I look back on last year's self, I think the biggest change is from the body, the body is not as good as a year, a change a year, last year was 120 pounds, this year it has become 140 pounds, the years are a pig-killing knife, knives urge people to get old.

People are getting older year by year unconsciously, in fact, the photo comparison changes between this year and last year are not very obvious, but the overall feeling is different, if you take 30 years old as a peak of life, stand on the peak and then look down, all the way is downhill, this is like a car that is running downhill, even if I have stepped on the brakes, but there is still no way to stop the car from speeding down due to inertia under the effect of acceleration. I have to admit that we are getting farther and farther away from the starting point and closer and closer to the end.

Compared with last year, I feel that my physical fitness is declining again, I remember that there was no problem with running for five or six kilometers last year, but a few days ago I felt obvious discomfort in my knees after running a few laps in the morning, which shows that the human body is aging, it is an irreversible way of aging, I want to use what way to fight against time, but everything is in vain, I can only convince my mentality to slowly accept the fact of aging.

I saw a sentence in the book that was particularly interesting, saying that after people reach middle age, it is like a Journey to the West, under the pressure of Sun Wukong, as well as the hairstyle of Sha Seng and the body of Zhu Bajie, nagging like Tang Seng, the most frightening thing is that it is getting closer and closer to the west. Time and time, you can slow down.

I feel like I'm more decadent now than I used to be. Like before, I will plan my life for myself, and now I choose to be at peace with what happens.

There is a big difference between me a year ago and me now, I was a little fat at that time, and then after a year of hard work, I have lost 40 pounds, and now I am very beautiful.

There is still a big difference between me a year ago and me now, because I am a mother this year, and this role also makes me feel very stressed, and I also feel that my responsibility is very important.

I'm much more mature now than I was a year ago, I feel more sophisticated in dealing with things, and I'm much happier with my colleagues.

The difference is that as I get older, I become more psychologically mature.

An American writer said that if you spend four 15 minutes a day doing four small things, you will be completely different in a year. The specific recommendations he made were:

Spend 15 minutes a day learning a foreign language;

Spend 15 minutes a day in a journal;

Spend 15 minutes reading 5 pages a day;

Spend 15 minutes a day tending to the garden, raising flowers and grass;

Spend 15 minutes a day chatting with your child;

Spend 15 minutes a day meditating or practicing yoga.

The above trivial things seem to be very common, but it is impossible to verify them at this time. But the words of this writer give people a little inspiration for the sedan chair:

The first is to have dreams. Life is less than a hundred years. No matter what stage of life you are in, you have to have dreams.

Take 100 years as 100 steps, one step at a time, and climb up one step at a time. In this way, when you are about to complete your life's journey, you will not be ashamed of doing nothing.

The second is to plan more. Repeating yourself every day is the norm for most people, but it would be very shameful and sad to be stuck in the same place next year. A year is 1% of life, which is not a short period of time.

Strive to have a big change in yourself during the year. This year, it's time to imagine how next year's self will be different from this year.

The third is to believe and persevere. 15 minutes a day seems to be short, but it is not easy to stick to the sail, it is a habit. Take keeping a diary as an example, it is not easy to keep a diary every day, 365 days a day.

Dripping water through stones is not the power of water, but the power of perseverance. As long as you persevere, it is entirely possible to overcome rigidity with softness.

If you can do that, you will be a year from now and you will be completely different from now.

3. I may want to embrace the blue sky five years ago, and I may be smaller after 5 years and live an ordinary life. In fact, most people in life are ordinary, because of this, when we were young, we dreamed of embracing the blue sky, but when we grew up, we understood that the reality is not easy, 5 years ago I may be in the student days full of vitality and dreams of the future, to 5 years later, we have experienced the baptism of society, only to understand that the reality is not easy, maybe just want to be an ordinary self.

In fact, for us, 5 years of growth is not only a change in appearance, but also a change in our inner growth and awakening, and when we are young, it may be because we are more looking forward to the future and want to change ourselves, and we want to be a perfect appearance in our imagination, but life tells us that we have grown up and told us ah, more realistic, because of this, we are more looking forward to being an ordinary self and accepting reality.

Five years ago, I was still single, not very good at housework and can't cook girls, now I am the mother of two babies, not only in the work of active and hard work, in life I am also a master of housework, change tricks to supplement the child's nutrition, but also the driver of the whole family, or the two babies of the life enlightenment teacher, play with them and read picture books with them. That's the difference between me five years ago and who I am now.

The difference should be that the appearance has changed, becoming more and more vicissitudes, and the thinking is more mature.

Five years ago, I didn't like the discipline of my parents, I thought it was enough to have friends, but five years later, I found that all you have had is your parents, and your friends will be separated, and you will eventually be lonely.

The biggest difference is that I have become more mature, and I will not be too one-sided when thinking about problems, but more comprehensive.

5 years ago, I was still single, living a carefree and free life, and now I am a mother, constantly working hard for my children.

What is the difference between you five years ago and who you are now? Five years ago, I wasn't in good shape, I couldn't wear makeup, I couldn't dress up, and I didn't have that much work experience. After five years, I have been working out regularly, I am in good shape, I have experienced a lot, I have learned to manage money, and I have worked hard to become excellent!

The biggest difference should be to become more responsible, more mature and steady, and no longer as frizzy as before.

The biggest difference is that I have become more mature and stable, I am no longer as impulsive as before, and I am more responsible than before.

Five years ago, I was full of young eyes and very immature thinking, but now my eyes are full of confidence and determination, and I think things more comprehensively.

I have a clearer life plan now than I did a few years ago. A few years ago, I was an ignorant student, living in an ivory tower with too little contact and understanding of the outside world. Every day I think about things related to learning, but I haven't thought about my future life plan, and I can't figure it out.

Now that I have entered the society, I have seen more and broadened my horizons, and I have gradually found my hobbies, and I have gradually recognized what I am good at, and I have a clearer idea of my life plan.

Now I am more focused on improving my inner self. A few years ago, when I was an ignorant girl, especially when I first entered college, I began to learn to put on makeup and dress up like other girls around me. After all, girls love beauty.

At that time, it was very important to look and look at yourself. <>

Now I gradually realize that the charm of girls should not only come from their appearance, but more importantly, from their inner cultivation. External beauty is also important, but it is only temporary and cannot be preserved permanently. Inner beauty, on the other hand, can stay with us for a lifetime, and it will grow as we grow older and eventually become our most valuable treasure.

Now I know how to cherish my relatives and honor my parents more than I did a few years ago. When I was young, I was not sensible, and I was a little rebellious, so I always made my parents angry from time to time and did something to make them sad. Moreover, when I was young, I didn't like to be controlled by my parents, and I always wanted to escape from my parents as soon as possible, and the farther away from them, the better.

Now I have seen all the joys and sorrows of the world, and after experiencing all kinds of human feelings, I gradually realize that my parents are the people who love us the most in the world, and their love for us is truly selfless love. So we should know how to be grateful. And parents are aging rapidly, and the best gift we can give them is to spend as much time with them as possible.

I am now and myself a few years ago, except for some living habits, other aspects have changed, such as personality, conversation, and dressing style have changed dramatically, but I believe that my change is a good change, and I love my current self more.

First, be more self-disciplined, a few years ago you may care more about the happiness and desires of the moment, buy what you want, feel happy when you want to play, now you will consider your financial situation, have a plan to save money, and care more about work; second, began to develop the habit of running and maintained the habit of exercise; Third, we care more about a healthy and comprehensive diet. Fourth, be more decisive in dealing with feelings.

I am very different from who I was a few years ago.

First, I used to be very fat, with more than 150 pounds, and after my healthy diet and exercise, I am now 110 pounds.

Second, I used to have low self-esteem and didn't like to talk, but now I am good at communicating with people, open-minded, enthusiastic and cheerful!

In the past, I was more immature and ignorant, and I liked those flashy things, but now after the rendering of the outside world, I have gradually become realistic, and everything has begun to care about returns, and I am no longer so innocent.

Mentally, the pressure is greater, because there is old and young; Materially, it is getting better and better, because society is progressing, and people are also working hard.

I don't like to be enthusiastic about people so much. In the past, I tried to find a topic for everyone, and I had to talk about awkward conversations, but now I gave up without falling in love at the beginning.

The former me vs the current me.

Ten years ago, I was ten years old, and ten years later, when I am 20 years old, it is best to be between 20 years old, and my biggest change is that I have matured. There is also a little change, that is, the appearance has also changed, and the figure has also been out of shape.

Ten years ago, I thought I would have a prince. Ten years later, I learned that the prince's fall in love with Cinderella was just a fairy tale, and that there are no fairy tales in the society we live in. Ten years ago, I didn't think it would be difficult to make money.

Ten years later, I learned that I might not be able to earn a fraction of what some people earn in a month after a lifetime.

Ten years ago, I was very simple and naïve, maybe I was innocent and cute at that time, and I thought about everything very simply, but now I am full of expectations for life, contribute to the development of society, have higher requirements for myself, and hope that I can become better.

Ten years ago, I was just a child, I didn't know anything at that time, and I didn't have the ability to make money, but now I am in college, I have a certain degree of employability, and now I understand a lot of people, and I have a lot of good friends, and I have learned a lot of skills in school.

Ten years ago, I was only 11 years old now, I was still in elementary school, and I was about to enter junior high school, at that time I didn't have a lot of pressure, and I didn't think about a lot of things. What should I do about the exam, I will take into account my future problems.

The biggest difference should be that the things you pursue are different, I remember that what I pursued ten years ago was to study hard, and then I hope that there are a lot of snacks to eat, so that ten years later, I hope that I have a good job and then try to eat less snacks, eat some healthy food, and eat more fruits.

Ten years ago and ten years later, I was quite different, ten years ago I could have no worries, every day except for eating and sleeping, occasionally studying, but now it is different, now I am 20 years old and have a lot of pressure, such as employment pressure, I can't breathe.

Ten years ago I was deaf and clear-sighted, now I am short-sighted, ten years ago I wanted to go out of my hometown with my own hard work, and now I am starting to think about how to establish myself in my hometown. Ten years ago, I thought that what parents said was nonsense, but now I have to ask my parents about everything. Ten years ago, I liked to chase stars and buy stickers, but now I pay little attention.

When I was in my twenties, I was lazy, too lazy to make money, too lazy to live seriously. After having children, they began to have a sense of responsibility and work hard, and now people are middle-aged, everything is very stable, the quality of life has been greatly improved, and they are still struggling, people can't stop, people are great because of their dreams, and it is a kind of happiness to do the work they like every day.

There is also a big change, that is, we know how to be tolerant. I used to be very entangled and tired, but now I see everything very lightly, I have learned to listen, I have learned to love myself, and I have learned to stop and examine myself when I am very busy.

I think that life needs to change, everyone is a child who needs to develop, how to grow up if you don't change, I hope you never forget your original intention, insist on being yourself.