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I suggest first of all, in fact, you can't be blamed for this, because your family has raised you until now, and it is not easy for them to do so. But I want to tell you that the upbringing and interference in your family is only on the day when you have the ability to work, and now you need your own sky, and what you have in your family can only be opinions, because you need to have your own way to go, and secondly, why do you say that the elders are more realistic than us? Because the elders will think more than us, there are objective factors such as family, education, personality, appearance, work, etc., but what they don't understand is your heart.
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My family is against me being with my girlfriend, I will choose to be silent first, and then have enough time to prove that the two of us are truly in love, and then also to prove to my parents that I am very happy to be with my girlfriend.
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My family is against me being with my girlfriend, so I will explain something to my family, and at the same time tell them about the benefits of my girlfriend, and then let them slowly accept my girlfriend.
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If it were me, I would definitely not agree, because the girlfriend is hard to find, it is impossible to divide it, if it must be divided, it must be because I think we are not suitable, if the family objected, I might hide it from them, but still date her.
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My family objected to me being with my girlfriend, so naturally they had their own opinions and conflicted with me, so I thought it was time to sit down with my parents and convince them.
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At this time, I will communicate with my family, and I can't help but listen to my family, if my family really thinks that this woman is not suitable for me, I think there is still a certain reason, after all, the family will not harm you.
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I was once with my boyfriend and was opposed by her mother, I wanted to give up at one point, but my boyfriend's persistence has brought us to where we are now, and I want to thank us for our persistence.
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My family used to object to me being with my girlfriend because my girlfriend was better than me, but I showed that I was happiest with my girlfriend and eventually my family agreed to be together.
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In fact, when I brought my girlfriend home for the New Year a year ago, I objected to me being with my girlfriend, so I also said a lot of her benefits in front of my parents, and then slowly my parents accepted it.
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If it were me, my girlfriend and I would love each other very much, I liked her very much, and I wouldn't have survived without her, and at this time I would fight against my family with my girlfriend.
The best solution is to let your family agree with your boyfriend, what is it that your family does not agree with, you can also consider it, you don't just cover your eyes with your love, since you choose to be with him, you also have to see the other side of him, if he is really good, then you and your boyfriend have problems, your problem is that you have not fully introduced the advantages of your boyfriend to your family, and the man's problem is that he will not come to trouble! >>>More
If you don't like your boyfriend enough, break up, otherwise you obviously haven't had an opinion yet, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to get along after marriage. People get along with each other, you can understand your feelings, for the first time the normal family will be warmly received, but there are also some families may not be very good at dealing with this aspect of things, and it may not be really good to you, in short, if you love your boyfriend very much, and can tolerate these contradictions that may occur in the future, then you will persevere, but, obviously, there is still a gap between you and your boyfriend's values, so there may be more contradictions after marriage.
Why do you have to listen to your family You are not a child now, do what you like Do what you like If you like people, you like it, don't listen to your family and give up your most beloved girlfriend You must know that if you are looking for a girlfriend, it will not be the original girlfriend, at that time everything has changed, don't give up, give up and become your lifelong regret.
First of all, confirm the importance of this love to yourself, and then calmly reflect on how deep her love for herself is, of course, people in love will be hot-headed, at this time you can recall ten to twenty small things that have happened since the two of them got along, it can't be a conversation, the words are not necessarily reliable, and it shouldn't be a big thing, the big thing may be covered up, and you want the small details of life, half of the pleasant and half of the unpleasant, and then write it down on a letterhead, so that the result may be objective. If you believe that love is sincere and reliable, you should do three things next: one is to analyze the advantages and disadvantages of both parties' personalities, list them one by one to see if they are compatible, and ask others for advice after listing them, the second is to calmly and objectively plan the future with the other party, including career, life, and emotional development, and the third is to comfort the other party and stabilize his or her emotions. >>>More
Hold on. I'm sticking with you. Have time to take him to meet your parents. >>>More