My parents don t like my girlfriend, should I give up or continue living without my parents blessin

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter, as long as you have the heart, they will understand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your own way, go your own way, there is no best of both worlds in the world, you are not Liang Shanbo, and you can't be the second Romeo, take it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents have the truth of their parents, but not all right, you are a college student, you should have this ability to judge, if it is secular or superstitious, of course, you should be abandoned, after all, you are looking for the object, not the parents looking for the object, a happy life, personality and so on are suitable for you, and the emotional fit is on the line.

    Of course, the work of parents has to be done, and the correct opinions must also be listened to, I think your mother's words are reasonable, you can refer to them, the key is that you have to be assertive, sometimes the love that goes through the ordeal will be sweeter!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you and your girlfriend really have that much affection, I hope you can convince it, if this can't be done, I can only sigh for you, what will happen in the future?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This kind of thing is common in society. First of all, if you don't want to get married and your wife and your parents don't get along all day, it's best to convince your father and mother first, and it's best not to force you to get married before you are convinced, of course, this matter is more difficult than breaking up I believe, but for the happiness of the two of you, you have to do it (if you really love her), or simply come hard, as the saying goes: after a long time, there will be feelings.

    You take it first, and then do it slowly, but I'm afraid that your parents won't attend, in short, it's best to persuade you, if you can't do it, you can divide it, and if you can't do it, you can come hard, ask your little daughter-in-law to do something beautiful to make your parents happy, I wish you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, the most important thing you should refer to at this time is your girlfriend's opinion. Yes, you are the parties, since your parents have made it so clear, and you are at a loss, then you have to ask your girlfriend.

    After all, this is a matter between the four of you in two generations, and whatever others say doesn't count, and it doesn't fit your feelings and reality, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A marriage without the blessing of parents will not be happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    We need to pay attention to the fact that if the woman's parents look down on you, and often embarrass you, and do not accept you, there is no need for us to persist at this time, because since the other party has done this part, then it proves that they look down on you from the bottom of their hearts. Therefore, at this time, we should be more ambitious and strive to prove ourselves to others, instead of begging each other to be with ourselves. It's better to give up, because your girlfriend will probably listen to her parents later.

    We always say that the more your mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes it, if your mother-in-law doesn't like you very much, and looks down on you, then it proves that your mother-in-law doesn't like you very much from the bottom of her heart, and it is difficult to accept it later. Although your girlfriend may be on your side, your girlfriend is here, and she will be influenced by her own parents later. So at this time, you should also think about whether you still want to be with your girlfriend, after all, we want to change others, and it is very difficult for us to think of it.

    If your girlfriend likes you very much, and the two of you really love each other, and you can prove that you will have strength in the future, then I think it's okay to be together, but if your girlfriend listens to her parents very much, and is also moved, and wants to separate from you. Then at this time, it is recommended that there is no need for everyone to stick to it anymore.

    One person looks down on another person from the bottom of his heart. At this time, even if we become very good later, the other party may still look down on us, so at this time, we should also leave a dignity for ourselves. If we beg each other, it may make the other party feel that we are even more useless.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you encounter such a situation, you should choose to give up, it can be seen that the other party's parents do not accept you and do not accept the feelings of the two of you, so there is no need to waste time and feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the relationship between you and your girlfriend is very determined, and your girlfriend is more oriented towards you, then you should stick to this relationship and work hard to make others agree with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the girlfriend is particularly persistent in this relationship, and the relationship with the girlfriend is very good, she should continue to insist.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the girlfriend is particularly confrontational about this relationship, the relationship with the girlfriend is very yes, and it should be the confrontation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, I think if your girlfriend really loves you, she won't listen to her parents, for parents we should listen to opinions but parents can't ask us anything. Maybe it's something about you that causes her parents to disapprove of you being together, so talk to her parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really love her, you have to work hard to win the approval of her parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Her parents said it wasn't suitable, wasn't it? You're not in a relationship with his parents... I don't understand!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't complain about a relationship that your parents oppose. Sometimes it is necessary to understand the feelings of parents, after all, their original intention is also for the good of their children. You can learn to communicate any problem, and if you can achieve zero distance with your parents, they will agree to such a relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    OK. If you feel that the relationship really can't last, you can choose to give up for the sake of you and your girlfriend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your parents don't support you in dating your girlfriend, and you have a bit of a plan to give up, in fact, you ask your parents why they don't support it, see if their idea makes sense, and then give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, since you like each other, you have to be brave enough to speak out and fight, and don't give in.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you and your girlfriend love each other enough, you should continue.

    Some people say that unblessed feelings can't last long in the end, and emotional experts often say: Feelings that are not approved by parents will not be happy in the end even if they get married.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Keep insisting, his parents don't like you very much, but if he loves you very much, you just need to work together to overcome his parents' opinions about you, and you will live with your boyfriend in the future, not with his parents.

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