How to deal with the troubles of a third party

I really don't know what you have to worry about.

You yourself said that your girlfriend will not give up on you at all, and in the face of a boring harasser, let him be bored by himself, boring enough, he himself will find it boring. There are two ways to try:

Either talk to him heart-to-heart, saying that you have a deep affection for your girlfriend, it is impossible to give up, and ask him to find another one, there are many good girls; Then bless him. Let him feel difficult, feel hopeless, have a sense of distance. After a long time, he gave up on his own.

I've had enough of it.

Either become friends with him, if everyone used to be classmates or colleagues, he should understand the truth that friends' wives can't be bullied, right? Hehe.

Bless true love!

It's important to give her enough trust, and if you really love your girlfriend, let her know that you can give her the happiness you can't give her 、、、

The three of them might as well talk frankly, it's not good for anyone to drag on if the problem is not solved, and in the end, respect her choice, and make a choice.

It's your happiness that can't run, bless you ......

Let's go over and talk about it! And your girlfriend shouldn't pick up that ** again, it's good if you can't pick it up every time! If a woman doesn't like that man, she will definitely let her husband or boyfriend pick it up!

There's nothing to do After all, it's his right to like someone.

Personally, I think this should be your girlfriend's problem, just refuse it and ignore it, as long as your girlfriend can ignore it, I don't believe that the other party can really be stubborn.

The time has come to show your ability, let the third party know that only you can give her happiness, let him see that the girl is very happy now, he can't give these things, and absolutely believe that the girl and the girl will not choose him.

Hehe, you call your girlfriend and tell him that you have been in love for a long time and have lived together, and then the next thing is to ignore him (the kind that is stranger than strangers), so that he should give up and wish you happiness.

Ignore her, you'll get tired after a long time

Ignore him, the two of them will do whatever they want.

It's a big fuss

If you find that your lover has a "third party", losing your temper and making a lot of noise is not the best way to solve the problem, and it may not necessarily work, but it may cause your him (her) to break the jar and fall, and things will become more and more out of control. If you can't accept his (her) betrayal of you at all and decide to part ways, then why not fight with him, what should you do, if you want to save your marriage with him, it is wise to restrain your emotions first, and then calm down and carefully analyze the reasons, and understand the investigation from multiple sides without showing a look, to find out if there is a problem between you and your husband and wife, whether it is your own problem or the other party's problem. Next, you have to do the work in a targeted manner, you can first knock on your other (her) side, explain the harm of the third party to a family, and reminisce with him (her) your hard-won union process, know it with affection, move it with reason, let him (she) wake up to the development with a third party may break up the family, and let him take the initiative to solve the trouble he caused.

Engage with a third party head-on

Use the information you already know to talk to a third party, the attitude of the conversation should be sincere, or you must insist on knowing it with affection and reasoning, and let the third party understand both of you and your husband and wife. The love process, let him (her) know the depth of your relationship. In the course of the conversation, a third party should also be warned of the legal consequences of interfering in the interests of another person's family.

Seek help from a third party's relatives

If the problem is not completely resolved by direct contact with a third person, you can seek help from her relatives (note that the relatives here refer to the parents of the third party, and if she is already married, do not go to the husband and his family, as this may cut off her and make the matter more and more irreparable). First inform the other party of the truth, seek the support of the other party's relatives, and let them do the ideological education work of the third party, so that the third party has a deeper understanding of their immoral behavior, generally speaking, as the relatives of the third party are more taboo for their children to make this kind of mistake, and they can be more harmful to both parties, and their education of the third party will be greater and the effect will be better.

Recourse to administrative constraints

If it comes to the point where there is no more power between individuals, it is necessary to resort to the executive branch. **Regulations, social morality do not support the existence of the third party, there are specific relevant policies to give the third party strict party discipline, regimental discipline and political discipline, at the same time, the third party's immoral behavior will also be condemned and spurned by the whole society.

The last killer feature

When many efforts fail to work, it means that it is no longer possible to reconcile with him, and the relationship between the two parties has broken down, and the value of marriage has been lost. You should make a decision immediately, choose an agreement or litigation divorce, end this sad marriage, start over, and find the happiness that truly belongs to you.