My troubles! Come in and enlighten and enlighten! Big brothers and sisters

Of course, you can't have this attitude now, everyone will not be happy, even the two of you will not be happy. You will be happy when you get the affirmation of your parents.

First of all, don't complain that your parents don't support you being together, because your parents are people who have come over and have their own ideas, and you, as a son, should listen to their views first, don't oppose them strongly, accept them first, what I mean by acceptance is to let your parents say their thoughts calmly, don't let them finish speaking, you have already begun to fight back, this is not right.

After they finish speaking, you need to think carefully about the so-called reasons for opposition that your parents said, whether you have considered it, whether you really don't care, and don't make rash decisions in order to go against your parents.

Once you've thought about it, calmly tell your parents what you think.

But they definitely can't accept it for the time being, because they are thinking about the problem from their point of view, so it takes time, you and your girlfriend don't be impatient, you have to influence them, let them move for you.

First of all, flam tongue does not equal talking.

The heart must follow itself, since it is the concubine's will, you can go as far as you can according to each other's plans. Originally, no one can say for sure about this kind of thing, and it is not a lifetime decision all at once.

In fact, most parents are more cautious about their children's love, and they don't want their children to fall on this matter. So don't blame your parents for the occasional disapproval, they just want you to be happier. If there is a disagreement that cannot be resolved, time will solve the problem.

Take your time, step by step.

Hehe... You're in this situation.

It's the parents who are against it!

1. You won't live with your parents for the rest of your life in the future, so your parents can only give you advice!

2. If possible! You will live with this girl for the rest of your life, not your parents, and the final decision is up to you!

3. It's not that each other plans to go as far as they can, but to correct their mentality and have the mentality of going on. In this way, you can go further!

In fact, the most important thing is your own feelings, but you must look at the major events of your life, and you can't be sloppy.

Your parents' advice should be taken seriously, they are people who have come and have experience, and you should communicate with your parents more.

With a little more relevance, maybe there will be the best of both worlds.

Don't rush to get married, feel each other again, be rational, and be considerate of parents, but not obedient. Wishing you happiness!