What should my little brother do? Urgently, my brother is like this, what should I do?

There are many possibilities as to how this situation has been achieved.

Solution: The substantive problem is that he does not have a correct concept of spending money in his mind. When people are kind, they naturally know how to repay their parents and make their parents feel at ease.

Therefore, he should be allowed to have more contact with successful people of good character, preferably successful adults. all talk about the good history of this adult, so that he envy and admire.

And at the same time, we have to create some events for him to wait and see the tragic end of the disobedient child when he grows up. For example, watch a certain program on the ** channel.

The main thing is to let him establish a correct outlook on life.

Of course, you must give him a lot of encouragement during this time. Give him confidence. He can be more successful than a successful person ...

To add: it's best if the family can find something that he can do and can give him a sense of accomplishment. Then let him do it.

Even if he doesn't want to do it, force him to do it. He did it or not. and they all boasted of him.

Let him know that he is actually very powerful. Very good. He can do a lot of things.

Then he was given a chance, and he gradually succeeded in wanting to make himself. This method must have an effect when used together with the above method...

The main thing is that he messed up with his friends outside His friends brought him badly In a case that may be caused by his family's lack of care about him There is no effective way This is also an experience After a loss, you will understand that children are not sensible Beat up Don't be too ruthless (for boys).

It's mostly a lack of love, right? No matter how meaningless the beating and scolding is, I'm afraid it won't have any effect.

Maybe he felt lonely and felt that his family couldn't understand him. You should try to get to know your brother. Talk to your brother more often, the main thing is to understand and trust him. Tell him something positive and inspirational that will make him feel hopeful in life. He'll be sensible slowly.

Maybe it's a matter of character and education?

Give him a self-reliant environment, let him know the difficulties of life, and he will grow up quickly.

Maybe let him try to exchange his labor for money.

Is it because he doesn't usually have pocket money?

First of all, it's better to put the money out of his reach.

Then give him a small amount of pocket money on a regular basis.

Then, on the basis of giving him pocket money, you can give him some material rewards by asking him to help the family with housework, excellent test results, etc.

When a child is not short of money to spend, he will not steal the family's money.

This is a process of urging him, and it is also conducive to his study and the correctness of his thinking.

But the number of rewards also needs to be controlled.

Your dad can take care of it

Oops, I've been used to it since I was a child, I can't help it, since he wants to spend it, then open the safe and take it yourself, and see how much he can take?

How can he get used to it, he is still young now, if he is taking the family's money, he will fight, and beating is the best way!

Take care of the family's money and tell him to spend his time and energy on studying! It still has an effect after hitting it a few times! But you can't go too far, you want him to know that it hurts, that he knows that he's done wrong

Because it's easy to get, it's easy to spend.

It would be better if he couldn't get it.

Idol heart? I'm going to vomit ...

Simple! Make him happy! Happy learning.