If you have a boyfriend who is not responsible, should you continue to walk?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Categorically, no!

    Because first, a man who is not responsible will never consider your feelings. People who are not responsible will habitually put their feelings first, and as long as they feel that they are okay, they will not consider others. Even if you tell him again and again that I'm not happy that you're doing this, he hasn't changed in the slightest.

    Second, a man who has no responsibility will only escape when he encounters problems, and the relationship between two people is to constantly solve problems and seek common ground while reserving differences. When you find a problem, he will always hide by himself, do not communicate, do not solve, and you will face these problems alone.

    Third, a man who has no responsibility always wants to retreat when he encounters something. In line with the principle that more is better than less, he always cringes when he encounters things, even if it is about you, it can't make him stand up, on the contrary, he will choose to hide behind you, persuading you to get by like him, if you insist on going your own way, he can only help in the end, just wait for you to explain his last resort to you afterwards.

    Fourth, a man who has no responsibility refuses to give you any promises about the future. At first glance, you will think that this man is pragmatic and unwilling to give you promises about the future, because he wants to love you well now. But if you look closely at this man, you may find that his lack of responsibility may be just because he doesn't love you.

    Refuse to give you any thoughts, so that you can take the initiative to leave him, from the beginning, he may not take the relationship between you seriously, and leave his responsibility to others, of course, not a little for you.

    Why is this kind of person scary, because when you get along with him, the negative energy is bursting, and you will even be out of breath, or have nowhere to use your strength, because he is like a ball of cotton, a dou who can't be supported.

    Do not eat soft and hard. He will always be absent from what he should undertake, he will always avoid the problems he should admit, and he will always be the first to let go when it is time to face them together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That shouldn't go on because it's going to be tiring, for us. If you don't have a responsible lover, it will be very troublesome to live together in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you have a boyfriend who is not responsible, if you still can't change his character, you can't continue to go on, because you will only hurt yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think he should continue to walk, because he is a man who has no responsibility, and he will not make himself feel secure together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's okay to consider breaking up, and those who don't take responsibility are destined to not be able to take on the responsibility of marriage.

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