It s a very difficult problem to deal with the world, talented people, how to save me from being con

In a nutshell, people with strength can live a life without strength, and if something happens without strength, they will really regret it

Without money, nothing can be done.

You guys are simply not suitable.

He doesn't love you. No matter how much you try to be in him, it won't help.

He will not be moved, nor will he be moved.

He doesn't want to tell you because he didn't.

No matter how much you ask.

He will only say that he can't give you anything, let it go, he doesn't deserve your love, if he wants to love you, he won't say anything that can't be given to you, it's not that he is ambitious, it's that his heart is not in you at all, don't let yourself hurt deeper, the person who loves you hasn't appeared yet, don't worry about coming to you sooner or later.

Hey, the meaning is really obvious that you want to break up, but you just want to hear the word breakup before you are willing, but he just doesn't say it, you are hoping for it again, and you are constantly fantasizing in your heart that this is not the result.

In fact, you can also give the two of you a holiday, go to school, recharge, and be really good yourself.

Why bother, knowing what the result is, it's nothing more than that he doesn't like you anymore, it's nothing more than that he has another woman, why bother to make yourself so miserable. It's not better to get together and disperse so that he regrets it.

1.He doesn't love you anymore.

2.He is not capable of loving you.

3.He has a new love. It's just an excuse.

In short, when he said this, your relationship was in crisis. As for whether to resolve the crisis or get rid of each other, it's up to you to think.

I wish you the happiness you hoped for...

In fact, this problem of yours is encountered by girls in love, I think it can be summarized for two reasons: first, maybe he has low self-esteem in his heart (as he said, he is a man), and others can't give you happiness for him, because in today's society, a happy life must be built on a material basis, let alone in a big city!! Therefore, this is because he loves you very much and can't give you happiness, so he can only use the stupidest way to snub you like this, alienate you, and make you feel that he doesn't love you anymore and make you die.

In fact, he is also very entangled in his heart, although there is a saying: If you love a girl, instead of giving up her for her happiness, it is better to keep her and keep working hard for her happiness! This sentence is very touching on the surface, and it is the kind of love that every girl expects, but the reality is always cruel, and sometimes you can't give her happiness after all.

Moreover, we all live in this objective, realistic society that cannot be in reality ... Second, (I hope you don't feel bad when you see this second one) he really doesn't care and doesn't love you anymore, but it's not that you're not good enough, but maybe he doesn't feel like it's right ...

If it really comes to the point of breaking up, I hope you don't feel too upset, and we should only accept it in the face of the facts. As a girl, I can especially understand your feelings, and I have received this sentence before, and I don't understand it, I am also depressed, and I even doubt that he has really loved me since he was with me......I'm the same as you, I also said that I want to be very simple, I said I don't want to live in a mansion, and I don't want to drive a good car, as long as I can be with you, no matter how hard and tired I am, but he said that it was just idealization, and later I also found that we continue to compromise with reality, can we get the love we want? The answer is no, more and more compromise in love is afraid that in the end, it will only be each other's walking corpse-like life, and there is no joy and happiness at all.

In fact, the reason why we expect the two to be happy is because love is love and love, and dispersion is dissolved, and it does not make a little love come back if you compromise with each other. I'm sure you'll understand it slowly, and I hope you open your heart early and be happy.

I just signed up for this last night, and I'm not very good at playing, and last night I actually asked a question which school are you? Actually, I wanted to ask a netizen who said that his school went to the recruiting unit, but whatever, everyone else answered, and some were speechless, hehe. I hope you can see it and help you!!

First of all, a guy says to the girl he likes, I can't give you what you want, which is divided into two situations:

First: When a boy says such a thing to a girl, he may already have someone else, but that is just a good excuse, and it is not good to refuse directly, in fact, this is the best way to say, in my opinion, a boy really doesn't like this girl, just say it directly, I have a girl I like, let's break up, don't use that kind of words I can't give you what you want, this can only make this girl feel ununderstood, and will continue to love, if you directly refuse to explain the problem, two people will get together and disperse, It's good to let that girl find hope again, don't you need to be so tactful if you don't like it anymore, you just think about yourself, but how does the girl who likes you feel, this boy should really empathize, when the girl you like says this to you, what do you feel, what do you think, what kind of result you think of, you don't understand what he means.

Second: When a boy says such a thing to a girl, it is true that the boy wants to focus on his career, he may really like you but in his opinion he wants to give you something that he can't give, but you yourself think it's enough, what you want is enough, but a boy with lofty ideals he thinks, what kind of life he wants to give you, but this kind of thing is different, I think two people have something to say directly, don't say a word to make the other party think about the next sentence, this is very bad, In the end, you have to decide for yourself what the specific situation is, because after all, you know each other, and you should observe him more.

Is he a Capricorn?

All I can say is. This kind of love has nothing but helplessness.

You love him, but you can't be sure if he loves you the same.

You're confused, you want him to give you a clear future, and he's always running away from ambiguity......So there are worries, there are worries.

And those uneasiness expands ......

In fact, he may really know what you want.

It's just that he doesn't have the confidence to do it, maybe he doesn't love you enough.

So he didn't make any promises.

He's leaving himself a way out ......

You've only been together for a little over a month ......Think it through.

Can he really do what you want?

Don't get bogged down in .........

Because such a thing can't hurt ......

I don't want you to end up repeating the same ......

You are too dependent on him, think for yourself.

1. Care more about him and encourage him, instead of asking him to coax you every day. A girlfriend must be considerate and gentle.

2. Don't pester him all the time, give him more space, for example, don't contact him every day, you can have fun with him on weekends. I miss him so much that I miss, "I miss you." You're busy" and something like that.

3. If you feel lonely after a period of time, leave him, he really can't give you the most basic things, that is, he doesn't want to fall in love yet, and he must devote all his energy to his career. If he doesn't like you, he'll tell you directly, don't think about it. Now pay more attention to him, give him more freedom, and the answer will come out after a while.

Typical is making excuses If a man is busy, he won't put his beloved aside all the time, from a psychological point of view, he knows that you don't want much, just warm and ordinary, it's really not much, and he knows that he can't give it, obviously, he is not a down-to-earth person, he doesn't want to live a stable life with you, so he will say many times his excuse "can't give you...

Think about it.

Think about whether he is a responsible person when you are together, think about it, don't mix emotions, I think he must not be a good man.

I don't think such a man is worth 200 gold I wish you happiness.

Hehe, first of all, don't listen to those people's nonsense.

You can try what it's like to listen to just one song for a few days in a row (even if you think that song is very good) and you'll know how he's feeling right now.

Try not to ask for it.

Try to change a pattern every time you meet (not just clothes).

Don't bother him too much and give him free space.

Find more opportunities to accompany him to play in the wilderness, this kind of freedom-loving person has little resistance to this.

After reading it, I think it's still quite difficult for you to maintain this relationship, maybe you are the right person but at the wrong time. It feels like he's full of desire to do business now, and he doesn't seem to be enthusiastic about things between the two of you, and maybe his feelings for you have faded. At least I don't think that's a good fit for you.

What every woman wants in the end is actually her boyfriend's concern, as long as he is sincere to you and is for your future everywhere, nothing else matters. If you really think so, then you should find someone who puts all your thoughts on you, don't hang from a tree, there is not only one person in this world, and this person is not good to you. You can definitely meet people who are good to you.

Life can't go on forever. Besides, even if you are materialistic, then he is not your ideal object. So he's not for you.

Life is like that, no one is perfect, no matter how much you love each other. But there are always all kinds of inappropriateness for you to separate, those who can be together will be together no matter what, and those who can't be together will be separated in the end. And it will also be unhappy.

Or you can talk to him well, you can't let him avoid the problem, the man who avoids shows that he can't take on all kinds of responsibilities. It's a fact! He constantly needs the other person to give him encouragement, give him confidence, and give him support. He can't take the initiative to give everything he has.

Don't let yourself be trapped in this kind of entanglement and contradiction all the time, it should not be you who suffers. He's in ** when you're sad.

Be kind to yourself. Hopefully you can come out soon. Hope you find happiness.

Hehe: Looks like me.

I don't have a good career, I don't have a good attitude, I'm immature and not stable enough. is not qualified to be responsible for a person!

He's working on it now. Be able to be responsible for this person in the future (this person is you or someone else) to judge one thing based on just a few words. I don't have that ability yet).

You may be around him and affect his career! In your question, you mentioned that "first we chatted and said that he was very busy this week and we can't see each other again" What is the difference between this and a long-distance relationship? He's busy with his career, so he can't take care of you. Take care of you, and life will be difficult later.

Final sentence: People who ride my bike to work with me now will be able to travel in my BMW in the future!

Those who misinterpret my words, or do not understand the meaning of these words, please give way! Tell those who understand the meaning of this sentence.

It's okay to scold me, but don't insult your own intelligence.

Sometimes falling in love is a fan of the authorities, and when you love someone too much, you will feel that it doesn't matter if he does anything, including ignoring you.

Your boyfriend seems to have been shirking you, he said that he didn't have much time to spend with you, you said that you don't need too much and a little bit is enough, he said short-term for a while, said for a while, and then said that it would take 1-2 years, but you still said that you supported him, and he euphemistically said that he couldn't give what he wanted, but what you wanted was not too much, which means that he may think that you are not suitable, this is just a personal opinion. I think women can find the person who can hold us in the palm of their hands, but they still meet, you try to separate and calm down first, I believe you will find the answer. Hehe!

Didn't you say that his career came first and his feelings came second? Business has just started, and work and business are relatively busy! He may be a little tired and in a bad mood!

Saying that he knows what you want in life shows that he loves you. He understands better: reality is based on materials; A man's duty and obligation is to support a family....He wants you to have a better life in the future.

Don't think too much about it, he shouldn't be interested in you, and he wants to get rid of you by all means, but he doesn't want to break up from his mouth, so he forces you to break up! Believe it or not, as long as you say break up, he won't have extra retention, just pretended pity and hypocritical comfort! Such as:

We'll be good friends in the future......Wait a minute! Yikes

The more a woman cares about a person, the more.

Caring about a lot of small details In fact, if you open your heart a little more Many problems are not as serious as you think I am a person from the past Can I tell you about my own feelings In 10 years, I went back to my hometown and separated from my husband for a year because of family matters It stands to reason that I also think that two people are separated It is more important to cherish every moment and every second to always worry about each other So I always analyze his every move and judge whether he is always worried about me As a result, it is to find trouble for myself After all, men are different from women It's hard for them to care about the little details that we care about, but they don't do what we think we think -- they don't love themselves anymore, they don't care about themselves. I had a falling out with him, and I had a fight, and as a result, I finally figured it out, let go of myself, and don't make myself unhappy. If you believe him, you can be as chic as he is, and you can make yourself happy, and you will feel different about what you see.

There are expectations and disappointments. You say you don't ask for a lot, but you actually expect a lot from him, right? Because I figured it out, so I live my day and don't let myself revolve around him!

And then when he cares about you, just treat it as enjoyment. We're together again now, and the relationship is still good, and it's not what I thought it was, right? So remember:

Men are not as attentive people as women; You have to live a wonderful life to be attractive; Even if this man has changed, then be decisive, don't be secretly sad, maybe better is waiting for you later!