How to make friends, how to make yourself less despised by yourself.

In real life, it is obviously different from virtual life.

1.In reality, you need to be optimistic and cheerful, the key is to laugh often (not a bitter smile or a sneer or something), even if you understand that your heart is not an optimistic and cheerful person, you must pretend to be optimistic and cheerful, and then take the initiative to chat with the people around you (take the initiative to find a topic, you can't be cold, many times you can laugh at yourself to make the other party think you have a sense of humor, if you really have no topic, you can play with those people to pass the time).

The landlord will feel very tired at the beginning of doing what he said above, and he feels like he is not himself, but there is a price to be paid for making friends, otherwise you think that those people with a solid mass foundation are very relaxed?

2.The first point is that the middle building is mainly sunny and cheerful, because many people will be unconsciously attracted by sunny and cheerful people. Immediately after that, the landlord read more books to deepen the depth of his thoughts, which is a long time, and the landlord has always insisted (in the process of reading books, you must have the ability to think independently, and you can't empty the ideas on the book).

3.This point is for the landlord to continue to practice in the experience of life, that is, to be broad-minded. At first you will be cautious and cautious when you go through certain things, but the next time or after a while you will see them (these are things to be built up slowly) so that you can accommodate all kinds of friends.

said that the netizen upstairs said too generally. This is my personal experience, and I've been practicing it all the time.

First of all, you can't look down on yourself, and you can't be too arrogant and proud. Making friends is about smiling (including walking on the road) so that you don't feel distanced and don't miss out on the right friends for you. (also looking for a stable job)

Take the initiative to talk to others and smile confidently. Whatever you do, try to cooperate with others. Believe in a saying: as long as you are good to others, others will also be good to you.

What should I do if I am always looked down upon by my colleagues and is helpless? Keep these 3 points in mind and let the people who look down on you completely convince you!

First of all, you have to know what he looks down on you!

But no matter what, you have to respect him on the surface, and if he doesn't offend you, don't offend him. If he sins against you, don't let him go.

Generally, this kind of person who looks down on others is the kind of snob who climbs high and steps low, and does not know how to respect people who are lower than him, and he himself is not a high-quality breed.

You have to know that.

Really good people, they are often approachable, compassionate and tolerant people.

On the contrary, inferior products, low-level self-righteous people are easy to look down on some others. He thinks he's better than everyone else, but in fact he's just self-righteous.

Therefore, for such people, if you have to get along with them, work with, or live with them.

Keep as far away as possible from your heart, or keep a proper distance.

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Summary. Hello dear, it's an honor to answer for you. Get along with a person who you look down on, and indeed who sees something very difficult to do, and people may have to get along for practical reasons, so put some principles:

1. Pay attention to the proportions of each other's dealings.

2. With each other, regardless of their hearts? Don't like it, but maintain the harmony on the surface.

Third, it is fate to be able to meet, since we need to get along, then we can resolve the conflict at the right time and make everyone's relationship more harmonious.

How to get along with people you look down on.

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Hello dear, it's an honor to answer for you. Get along with a person who you look down on, and indeed who sees something that is difficult to do, and people may have to get along for practical reasons, so put some principles: 1. Pay attention to each other's proportions.

2. With each other, regardless of their hearts? Don't like it, but maintain the harmony on the surface.

Third, it is fate to be able to meet, since we need to get along, then we can resolve the conflict at the right time and make everyone's relationship more harmonious.

Be docile, be generous to others, be generous to others, don't be too careful, too serious, you will get praise from others and have good popularity.

Remember, you can't take things too seriously in China, you have to learn to be tactful, otherwise you will become the target of public criticism.

Hello, landlord, communicate with open people, let go of yourself first, even if you force yourself, you have to let go first, and there is to do sales work, learn their lifestyle and speaking skills.

If your friend is always showing superiority and belittles you, you must take action at this time, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable for you to belittle you like this for a long time, and you will also indulge in his bad habits.

Say it clearly.

First of all, you should make it clear to him that you are very unhappy with his behavior. I think everyone is very unhappy when they start to be belittled, if you don't say it to him in the first place, he still thinks that you are silently accepting all this and admitting what he has done, so when you start to belittle you, you should say it to him face to face and stop him from doing so, so that even if he is good, he will be embarrassed to belittle you again.

Keep your distance. Secondly, you can keep a certain distance from this friend. After all, if she always thinks that she is very good, but he thinks it himself, maybe he is not so good, and he doesn't regard you as a friend at all, but just treats you as an object of ridicule, such a person is not worthy of long-term relationship with him, it is better to stay away from him.

Make yourself excellent too.

Third, maybe your friend is really good, if that's the case, you have to work harder, because as a friend, he can be excellent, why can't you? Even if you are not as good as him, you have to make yourself harder and more progressive, so that even if there is a gap with others, you will have a clear conscience for yourself, because you have worked hard and struggled.

In fact, there are many people in this society who are not necessarily completely equal, some people are excellent, some people work hard, and some people are successful, so naturally there will be people who are lower, but if you are always belittled by them, it must be uncomfortable, so you must take corresponding measures yourself.