Experienced big brother, friend, teaching brother, I m 23 years old, worried about love

Updated on society 2024-04-13
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, it is not unfounded for the other party's parents to agree to your relationship, at least it proves that her parents have considered you before they can rest assured that they entrust their daughter to you, and they should be happy. Don't report so much psychological pressure, relax your mood appropriately! For future fathers-in-law, mothers-in-law and relatives to visit your home are good.

    Because her parents didn't just stop at the level of agreeing to your relationship, the two old men were more thinking about whether it was worth handing over everything to you in the future? It can also be said to be a test, I think your girlfriend's uncle should be a final character, I believe he loves this niece very much! So the landlord now has to think about how to entertain his future in-laws!

    First of all, greet the family, prepare some daily necessities, see how these elders are more suitable, and ask her family what they like to eat? What is taboo? These are all equally important landlords, hospitality is a point, hehe, that's all I can tell you, good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, you should be happy, her parents brought relatives to your house, indicating that they care about this family business, want to take a good look at your family, you must entertain them well, let them come happily, and return satisfied, and not every day together, you don't think so much, I don't think too much, say to your girlfriend, welcome them to come to the house often, you are good to her family, she will be very moved, you must seize this opportunity, good performance. I wish you all happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parents want their children to live well.

    If you want to make your girlfriend's family unreasonable.

    You have to treat her family better than you would your own.

    After all, something like this doesn't happen a few times.

    It might be a test for you.

    If there is such a thing, it is not enough to be ambitious.

    It's only five days, so why not warm up to her family?!

    Let them feel relieved to hand over their daughter to you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many aspects to consider when getting married now. It's about character, it's about family...

    Since her parents are going together, it means that you have passed the test. Going to your house is to check your family's situation.

    As for calling a group of relatives, it means that you love your girlfriend very much, and you are afraid that she will suffer. Many people can see clearly.

    On our side, we have this habit: the first time I bring my boyfriend or girlfriend home, I will come to a group of relatives to check on me. The intentions are all the same.

    If you blindly block her relatives, I think not only her parents will be unhappy, but your girlfriend will also be unhappy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This may be a test for you, 1He wants to see how you can bear it, whether you are a person who can endure hardships 2He wants to see if you are sincere to her, and from then on, he can also see the third 3Whether to leave or not to abandon 4Whether or not to be responsible for him.

    I hope it will be helpful to you.

    There may be unexpected things in these days, but you should say hello to your parents in advance and be prepared, after all, it is a test.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love her, these can be solved, and if you think about it in a different way, if you do well, you will successfully end the test.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are afraid of losing because of the old way, then don't go the old way: don't confess first!

    If you want to hold tighter, do this:

    1. Enrich the knowledge of animation and enhance its attractiveness.

    2. Step by step, do some purposeful actions, such as retail, flowers, and travel with your sister and her.

    3. Enhance self-confidence and increase personality charm.

    4. Find a good career and work hard to achieve something or lay a good foundation for success.

    5. Take a bigger step, including giving her a gift, and if you still have a shadow from before, then give your sister a copy at the same time (it can be quite, depending on the situation).

    7. Try to heat up first and then cool down (deliberately reduce communication with her for a period of time), maybe she will miss you more, maybe take the initiative to ask you out. Don't get too cold!

    8. When she wants to taste romance, give it to her shyly and generously.

    My answer, not only is it hard, but I still have a task to complete! Hehe. Good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like it, you have to take the initiative.,Waiting will only never be fruitless.,How do you know you can't do it if you haven't tried.,Go ahead.。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then go after it and go with your own feelings. If he likes you too, he will definitely notice you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're the typical stuffy one. Actually, you're very attentive. But your heart is limited by your Burma. So it's been just going for a crush. There's nothing wrong with having a crush. Confession requires seizing opportunities. Occupy the advantages of heaven, earth, and people before confessing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pay attention to the skills of communication, are you too bored, or do you feel insecure? Sometimes gentleness makes people feel cowardly, gentleness can't be very often, occasional gentleness makes people feel that this is a unique tenderness to themselves, and if you are always gentle, you will feel bad, good people, cowardly, unassertive, and flowery

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you love someone, you should be bold to chase it. One day she will be touched by your sincerity ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you meet something you like, you must get it, or you will regret it later.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Feelings can't come reluctantly, but as long as you like it, you always have to work hard.

    The so-called nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts.

    Show your truest side and believe in yourself.

    In addition, we must continue to learn from the shortcomings of the past.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really think she's good and want to chase her, you should first ask your sister about her habits, what kind of boys she likes, how she feels about you, you and she can go to watch movies about anime, etc. (bring your sister, if she feels good about you, you don't have to). If you like it, chase it, don't take it to heart, when she finds out, she will think that you are cowardly and reject you, girls are the most insecure, and your cowardice will not be able to give her a sense of security and leave you. If you like it, you will chase it, I also missed someone, he has a girlfriend, and now I can only bless him silently, and tell you that my business is to tell you that love is gone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hobbies can be cultivated slowly, but it takes time to test whether a person is attentive, don't just talk about it, really be good to her, stick to it, she will feel it, I wish you success!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like it, you can chase it, but you may not have a deep relationship to cause your illusion, you have to get along for a while to be sure, don't make a blind decision.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm a strange person.,The girl I fall in love with.,Either it's just a consideration for pursuit.,Or.。

    I like it all the time (the longer it goes, the more I like it).

    Born in 88 (don't spray puppy love or anything).

    In the 3rd year of elementary school (I changed schools once in the 3rd grade), I have always had a crush on a girl, and my confession was rejected, and then I didn't do it;

    In the 3rd year of junior high school, I have always had a crush on a girl, and in the last semester, my confession was rejected;

    For three years in high school, I have been secretly in love with a girl, my feelings have been discovered, and I have been rejected by the girl, and I still have a crush;

    In the third year of college, because it is a monk class, there are few female students, and the individual is more introverted, and he does not dare to develop into the external department.

    I don't have a favorite type of outside). In fact, there are two girls in the class who are good, and they are also the favorite type, only.

    Was not particularly feeling that I tried a date (the first time, 3 people, not really dating), the defendant.

    Knowing that the two don't agree (the circle of interest), it's still good friends.

    In fact, I also met a lot of good girls in the middle of studying, but.

    Now 23 years old, looking for a job after graduating from college, I haven't tried 1 love or 1 real date, so it can be said that it is still.

    Novice in love, basically can't pick up girls.

    I'm not in bad condition.,Looks normal.,It's the kind of boy who is very gentle (not a girl),Pisces.,Temper.。

    It's also very good.,Although there are few contacts.,But there are a lot of female friends.,But I feel like most girls don't feel much for me.。

    Interest. Actually, I'm not very demanding.,Cute good girl with a common topic.。

    I recently met a classmate of my sister (a junior in high school), maybe it was love at first sight for her, and there is also a share.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't let those bad experiences become the shadow of what you are now, find more opportunities to be alone with her (as a friend), and when you feel that the time is right, pluck up the courage to confess to her, believe in yourself, come on!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be brave, girls like brave boys, especially high school girls. If you like her very much, go for it, and don't give up because of a little thing. Men who give up easily are the least loved.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't have a crush all the time. Be proactive.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm also an example of failure.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Treat her with sincerity, follow your heart, and don't always think so much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think that a gradual and gentle policy can be adopted. On the one hand, let a long line catch big fish, and on the other hand, strengthen one's own personal conditions and strive to create all conditions and possibilities

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I recommend reading some books on this aspect of the mind. Column such as,The feeling of ascending to the sky,Understand a little series of mental studies every day.。。 Learn a little bit about love every day,,。 Personally, I think only you know those girls. in order to have the opportunity to develop.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I know that bad memories of the past may make you become tied up, a person's attitude, in fact, can be seen from getting along, you can first find more opportunities to get along with her, occasionally chat and say something similar to this kind of topic, see her reaction, how is her attitude towards you, is there a little ambiguous, or occasionally a little shy when looking at you, if you are not afraid that your friend knows, you can also let him help you explore the tone, I suggest, if you are really in love, go forward to chase, If you have always been afraid of the east and the west, when will it be successful? I'm always uncomfortable.,Refused to return to the position of a friend at most.。。。 Come on, come on, maybe she likes you too, but not necessarily...

    Hee-hee

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't be too restricted, go with the flow, say whatever you want, play whatever you want, the more you want to treat yourself, the more awkward you feel, so it's natural.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    She's a junior in high school? Is it high school graduation? If so, now is the best time to pursue, because after graduating from high school, the vacation is very long, you can often ask her to go out to play, but she has to contact her often after college, and occasionally you can go to see her, bring a small gift, give her a little surprise, girls at this age like romance.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    We're both 88 years old, and we're not too young, so it's good to find someone with the right personality and about the same.

    Feelings or interests are the right of young people.

    Or maybe your vision is too high, if possible, don't be a leftover man and a woman

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Girls will have vanity, she wants her boyfriend to know that she is attractive, that is, she hopes that you will cherish her well or one day she will run away.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    My husband is also the first love, how simple it is, I think it's very good to be able to find the first love now, it's the girl who doesn't know how to cherish it, I know that he is the first love and I am very moved!

    Adjust your mentality, and the happiness of two people together is the most important drop

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think he's still glad that he's your number one, but it's not performing, if not, it's nothing, and most of them won't succeed if it's first love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm a girl, and in my eyes I think boys are just playing with their first love, and I think she thinks the same way!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Oh, yes, I don't like flowers, and I don't like first love, it's elusive.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If I could find a boyfriend and I'm still his first love, I'd be happy!!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think she should feel happy.

    She is your first love, simple love, how beautiful.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Find a few more women to go with, that's how I do it now haha.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    She thought you were making up a story

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    This kind of woman doesn't know how to cherish you... bs her.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I don't think that man is seducing you, Lou mainly has an opinion, and he must have an opinion. Take the initiative yourself, ask his wife, call the man too, and you yourself call your boyfriend. 4 people at a table, let's talk clearly.

    Be decisive, it's you, the landlord, who have been dragging it out and the last unlucky, decide.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Cut it off as soon as possible People are unlikely to get divorced Even if it's good, it's just behind the scenes Even if people get divorced, your side is scattered It has to be after you break up to get divorced You know And two months is really not a long time I can't help but kiss you??? It's all developed in this area, do you still think you haven't done anything wrong? Does it have to go further to call it development?

    If you're really distressed, think about it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's a matter of your own consideration. You can't just say it in a few words.

    You follow your own ideas. You can do whatever you want, you're still young, and you're still consuming. Think about it.

    None of the advice we give is necessarily right. There must be a way before the car reaches the mountain, or let the bullets fly for a while.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Leave as soon as possible, after all, they have wives and children. You can find a job again, even if you like people, but there is a practical problem you have to face, he has a wife and children.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    When there is no continuation, it will be disturbed. You are still a girl who is not married, and you would rather tear down a temple than a marriage.

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