Why are people so selfish, why are people so selfish?

Nowadays, the public is very hypocritical, and fame and fortune are more important than anything else.

The so-called family affection is a matter of face.

The so-called parental affection is also a matter of face.

Where is true affection? No real feelings!

It's all about face + social communication habits.

Selfishness, thinking about oneself, taking advantage of others is the truth, this is the essence of human beings.

It is unrealistic to think about others, for example, my dream is to be a monk, and my parents' dream is to let me marry a wife and have children to make a lot of money, then this doesn't make sense, how do you become a monk to realize his wishes, and he keeps saying that hard work for their ideals makes sense for you, but it is not what you want, you have your own ideals, and you go against them, so how can you get rid of it, yes, it is selfish.

You fight for them, and they fight for you, and that's the same goal.

The reality is that most people in China can only become puppets of their parents, who use their hard work to raise you as a threat, and then let you make money to fight for their face. You live on the path they have set for you. That's the reality.

People who do not have the will to dream of themselves are happy in it, they are kind-hearted and willing to be the puppet of their parents, this is the so-called filial piety, a lifetime for parents, a lifetime for others, happy to be praised by others, this is their life.

I will not agree with or oppose anything against you or him, everyone has their own ideas, in my eyes, people live in the world, selfishness can make you feel worthwhile.

Because selfishness allows you to do what you really want to do without being "hindered".

People love themselves more than others.

Who knows

Selfishness is a psychological reaction that everyone has, when you like something, a person, you will want to take possession alone, not let others take it,

Everyone will have desires, and most people will think about their own interests. Everyone wants to get what they want. So it's normal for people to be selfish.

In fact, selfishness is also a yearning for the beautiful things in one's heart, and it is also a kind of pursuit. It only depends on the degree of his pursuit, and if he focuses too much on himself and does not think about others, then he will form a very serious selfishness. So selfishness is only in the thoughts of each person.

Even a person with noble character has a selfish side, but he has more spirit and more beautiful spiritual qualities than ordinary people. If you want to find a person in the world who is not selfish, it will be difficult, or not at all.