Why are people always so contradictory? Why are people always so conflicted?

This is the reason why people are always conflicted throughout their lives.

Human beings are formed by the combination of the largest cells in the human body and the smallest cells in the body that differ more than 170,000 times, and this combination of the smallest and the largest, and the integration and development of the two poles are ultimately one, which is destined to be a combination of contradictions, and will also be contradictory for a lifetime, self-struggle for a lifetime, and will continue to move from the extreme pole to the extreme pole, always feel the greatest pain at the peak of happiness, and realize what is the truest happiness after the pain.

Therefore, when you are conflicted, painful, hesitant, hesitant, unable to understand yourself, thinking about the left and not being able to give up the right, think about it, you are the tiniest cell of the human body, even if you have a thousand powers, you are also the smallest, and some people and things you are destined to be unable to change; But at the same time, you are the biggest cell in the human body, and although many things are hopeless, you have no reason to shrink back, because you are the biggest and most powerful one, if you can't, who can?

Because people like to solve problems, the existence of contradictions is given to people, and the most intuitive thing is a kind of ability, the ability to solve problems.

Because if you don't give yourself some contradictions.

Then we will never be able to appreciate its existence and make it difficult.

In fact, everyone is making trouble for themselves.

Don't care. Ignore it.

Then there is no contradiction.

It's just tedious like this.

Once people encounter a problem that is difficult to choose, there will be contradictions in their hearts. We often encounter such things in life, just like the feelings of two people getting along, sometimes it is difficult to choose. At this time, it will reflect people's contradictory psychology, people will become indecisive when encountering such problems, at this time people's hearts are painful, everything is easier said than done, so that we must strengthen and improve our psychological capacity, so that we will not be defeated by the reality we face.

People are always like this, torn between choosing and not choosing. Then you have to make a choice yourself, whether it's good or bad, and you have to bear the outcome. Contradictory, yes.

Not contradictory, it's strange. In life, we will encounter all kinds of choices, and the key is how you look at the problem. Eh, now is not the time to fall in love.

Life goes on, learning goes on. However, as long as it's your own choice, you shouldn't regret it. Unless you can buy regret pills later.

However, this vision will not be realized within 100 years. Hey, as long as you can make yourself have a choice that you don't regret, then it won't be so contradictory.

There are three realms in life, looking at the mountains is the mountains, and looking at the water is the water;

Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water;

Look at the mountain or the mountain. Look at the water or the water.

That is to say, a person is pure and flawless at the beginning of his life, when he first knows the world, everything is fresh, what his eyes see is what he sees, and when people tell him that it is a mountain, he knows the mountain; Tell him it's water, and he knows water.

As I grew older and experienced more and more things in the world, I discovered the problems of this world. There are more and more problems in this world, more and more complex, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable travel all over the world, it is difficult to move an inch with reason, good people have no good reward, and evil people live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, vigilant, and complex.

People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people look at the mountains and sigh, and sigh when they see the water. Mountains are no longer simply mountains, and water is no longer simply water.

Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will, the so-called "good wind with strength, send me to the clouds". If a person stays at this stage of his life, he will suffer this life. People will look at the mountain and look at the mountain, keep climbing, be competitive, compare with others, how to be a person, how to behave in the world, rack their brains, exhaust their organs, and never end and be satisfied.

Because this world is originally a circle, there are people outside the people, there are still heavens outside the sky, the cycle goes on and on, and the green water flows forever. And human life is short and finite, can you go to the eternal and infinite?

Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second state of life. Pursue a lifetime of hard work, a life of arrogance, and finally find that you have not achieved your ideals, so you hold a grudge for life. However, some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third realm of life.

The mouth suddenly opened, and it returned to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any problems with others. Let your red dust roll, I will be clear from the breeze and the moon.

In the face of complicated and worldly things, laugh at it, and understand what's wrong, at this time, people look at mountains and mountains, and water and water. Exactly: people are human beings, and they don't have to be deliberate to be human beings; The world is the world, and there is no need to deal with the world carefully; That is the real life and life.

That's how I understood it after reading the interpretation of dreams.

As living beings, we instinctively satisfy our desire to survive, and more desires arise from this basic desire. Then man is not a unique creature, he has to learn to cooperate, etc., and he also has to limit his own desires in order to satisfy order, etc., although this is a higher level of survival, seeking the life of a group, but above the individual, there is a contradiction of interests, and contradictions are derived from this. As for human life, it is not so excessive.

In the early stage, that is, infants and young children, they have a keen sense of self, but a weak sense of group, so they are not prone to contradictions, unless they are disciplined, it is not self-contradiction.

Or to put it another way, self-interest and altruism are a contradiction, but altruism is a higher level of self-interest in many levels, and self-interest is the great self, so the contradiction must exist.

Yes, I also feel the same, today my nephew broke my nails, not only bleeding but also ten fingers and heartache, but scolded him for not holes, only 4 years old, and couldn't beat him hard to get angry.

I suffocated myself alive, and the contradiction died.

How can someone have a smooth life from head to toe, that sentence is good, how to get a rainbow without wind and rain, people living in this world are full of contradictions.

My teacher taught me that instead of being passive and contradicting myself, it is better to create my own contradictions to solve them, which is not only interesting but also exercises my patience and ability.

Although some things bring contradictions, there is always a solution.

Finally, the benefits of contradiction will move you.

Like in my case, I was touched by the fact that I cut my long nails at the end and they were clean, and my friends came to care for and comfort me, and my fingers were always good, too.

Let yourself reflect on it and not leave extra-long nails that hurt others and yourself.

So you should think for yourself.

Why are you asking this already contradictory question?

Hee-hee.

Yes, as we all know, man is a strange creature, he has his own independent thoughts, of course there will be a little feeling, which is called emotion, human nature, etc. A person can be very selfish and very generous, that is, he can be a good person or a bad person. There is no one who has not regretted it, and regret is a manifestation of Mao Dun.

On the other hand, a person can be a good person or a bad person, and the definition of a good person and a bad person is opposite, maybe in the eyes of some people he is right, and others think it is wrong, so that even if you think it is good, others feel bad, it is a contradiction, to sum up, I think a person's life is spent in contradictions.

Philosophy believes that the world is in contradictions, contradictions are full of the world, and man is only a member of the world, so man is also in contradiction. Life is full of contradictions, which is the basic viewpoint of understanding the universal existence of contradictions, without contradictions there is no world, and without contradictions everything will not develop, move and change. In fact, to identify whether a person is smart, its essence is to see whether he is good at solving various contradictions, people in their lives are spent in overcoming various contradictions, which includes harmonizing with their own internal contradictions, harmonizing with the unfavorable environment outside the body, and harmonizing with interpersonal relationships, work, study, and healthy survival in contradictions, etc., so life is always spent in efforts to reconcile contradictions, although there are many contradictions that have not been resolved, and can only be left to future generations to continue to solve.

You are now in a state of contradiction.

That's it.

What you think of as a contradiction can be explained in another way.

One yin and one yang is the way of the way).

Because humans are advanced animals with flexible minds! The flexible mind makes this higher animal emotionally rich. Abundant feelings urge it they use their minds to compete and want to let. Flexible thinking, rich feelings, contradictions.

Heaven has given you the life to come into this world to suffer and enjoy at the same time.

A person's life is to live in contradictions, so you are very bitter, but when this contradiction is resolved, you have taken a step forward, and then your mood is comfortable and happy, and you can enjoy life; But soon, a new contradiction arose and had to be resolved...

Therefore, in a person's life, we must constantly solve contradictions, go through difficulties and enjoy life!

Because this is a world full of contradictions. It can be said that since people came to this world, they have fallen into many contradictions, and contradictions are everywhere and all the time, which is called the universality of contradictions. However, different people, as well as different stages of growth in life, face different contradictions, which is called the particularity of contradictions.

The experience of life is actually the process of contacting contradictions, analyzing contradictions, overcoming and resolving contradictions. It is unrealistic for the tree to be quiet and the wind to be quiet, and to avoid contradictions. When a person's life is over, it seems that the person's contradiction is "finished", and the relay will continue the new contradiction, which is probably the continuation of the contradiction.

In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what they do, they always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.

Man is a thinking animal, a higher animal.

Not everything can be in harmony with everyone's ideas, just like God doesn't treat everyone so fairly.

As long as you put your mindset right, put it in the position that is most comfortable, and that's it.

People can compromise and be desperate. You can have a heart like ashes, and you can have a lot of mentality, but your current mentality is the most important, as long as your current mentality is happy, friends, please cherish this moment of happiness, I don't know what will happen tomorrow, so when you can be happy, please remember, you can be happy and happy, otherwise when you are sad, you will say why am I always so sad? Why haven't you been happy?

Because there is no absolute good or absolute bad in anything. And in different conditions or environments, everyone's choice will be different. When faced with a choice, everyone will weigh many considerations to make a decision, some people are more decisive, some people are hesitant, no matter what, everyone has been conflicted.

It's normal, it's not a big deal.

As long as you know that you have made a choice, don't regret it, it's okay anyway! And with the development of things, many things still have turnarounds, so the contradictions are always temporary, and the step-by-step process is colorful. For some things, it's not that you're in pain alone, and if you can't do it, you can choose to wait for God or someone else to decide for you, but I personally think that your own life is more exciting.

Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.