What to do, I m afraid of breaking my parents hearts, and I don t want to give up the feeling of br

In fact, your father is also thinking about your happiness and is afraid that you will suffer. But you should talk to your boyfriend about it, after all, marriage is a matter of 2 people. There are problems to be solved together.

Also, his family at least has a house, and a house is better than someone else's house. If you want to own your own house, you can get married in the future and slowly save your own money to buy it, and now it's not like you want to rent it. You have to convince your dad that it is

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, your understanding and consideration of your father shows that you are a filial and understanding daughter. Your dad just doesn't see things far enough, of course, maybe because he's too worried about his daughter's bad life. The problem you have encountered is actually very common in today's society, and I have encountered it myself.

In fact, the starting point of parents is to hope that their children will have a happy life in the future, live a more relaxed life, and feel that having their own house is like a home, and life can be stable. But in fact, marital happiness is not only a form of stability, as long as you think it clearly and are willing to follow him, even if the life is a little harder. Let your parents know that you want a lover, not just a husband, and a home, not just a house.

As long as you do the persistence of your children and the emotional things, you can't buy and can't be separated. Even if they still can't understand it now, they will slowly accept the happiness and sweetness of your life in the future.

I think if you really want to be with him, you can talk to your parents, reason with them, what about having a house, being good to you is the most important thing, it doesn't matter if you have money, you are willing to spend money on you is the most important thing, you have to let them know that you and your husband will be happy together, they will naturally not do anything, quite a simple example, A 10,000 a month, only spend 1,000 for you, and B a thousand a month, but spend 1,000 for you, Which do you think you're going to choose?! Moreover, many things have been struggled for later, and in the future, there will be bread, a house, and a car! If you really love him, don't let the house hurt the peace!

You persuade the family first, but if you can't do it, then tell him.

Don't choose him, choose what your parents are satisfied with I didn't listen to my parents, endure hardship, be miserable, grit my teeth and be sad for a few days, parents can't choose my heartfelt words.

A marriage without the blessing of parents is destined to be miserable for a lifetime.

Can you give up and persist for him, work together to create the future, and never give up. If you have faith, you will be together, if you don't have it, don't be entangled, and let each other find the most suitable person.

I understand you too much, and I don't want my parents to be sad, of course I can't bear to let my beloved beloved, in fact, finding a rich person does not necessarily mean that he will be rich for a lifetime, I think as long as he is self-motivated, and he is really good to you, don't think so much, slowly the family will agree.

I like it, I don't know your parents, I don't have to pay for it, I don't have the courage to face it and don't communicate, I fight for it, I'm not afraid of regrets and regrets, I don't understand you to contact me,

As long as you love him, he will love you, nothing else matters, and you will live your own life in the future.

Choose your parents because they are the ones who come ... They just don't want you to have a bad road ahead.

The vision and experience of the elderly need to be considered.

Parents will only be sad for a while, and the things of your life, your parents will slowly understand you, slowly stand on your side and think, don't think so much, go your own way, people live in this world for decades, as long as they live happily.

When you are in love, you don't think about the future with the odds of buying a lottery ticket.

Find out why your parents are reluctant first.

If he is genuinely good to you, then stick to your choice, because after all, your future happiness is your own choice.

This kind of thing is only up to you and him to change your parents' opinion of him.

He's true to you, then leave it all behind.

You don't want to leave and elope.

This matter can only be resolved as soon as possible.

The more it drags on, the more troublesome it becomes.

To be honest, I'm afraid that my parents will be sad, won't they be sad if they are not happy?

Are you older than her? You have to be more mature than her mentally, she wants to share with you because of the relationship between her parents, you can agree with her opinion and tell her that if you are unhappy or really love, you can come to you, tell her that I don't want to share because I don't love you, but think about your future and your family.

If she is really in love with someone else, you won't be too sad because you haven't fallen deep yet.

Support but don't give up. Do you really love her? You'll support it, because that's good for her future. Don't give up, you understand and what you want.

It is strongly recommended that you turn your love into motivation and work hard to lay a certain material foundation, and then the probability of you coming together will be very high. Sometimes it doesn't have to be together, it's wise to be apart for a few days and lay the foundation for love. Love is an ability!

Be sensible. I hope you all come together and live happily.

No one can do anything in the future, if you still want to be together, do it now!

Maintain a good friend relationship, don't talk about love, only talk about schoolwork, only talk about the future, time can prove whether you really love each other, it's not too late to start falling in love at that time, there is no need to break up.

When the girl's parents see a hard-working boy, they don't object to you falling in love ---

If you still change her mind, it means that you can't stand the test of time, it's not true love!

For the rest, it's up to you to be sincere.

You can tell her that you can not divide and do not do anything excessive, and tell your parents when you reach a certain age.

In fact, I am also experiencing this situation, which shows that my girlfriend is very sensible, she knows what she should do now and what she should not do, I admit that I am with my girlfriend and have affected my grades, and she is also affected, what we are doing now is not to save anything, after all, my girlfriend has not done something sorry for you. What we have to do now is to understand her, separate from her for a while, and work together to have good results, which may also impress girls, because what we need to be at this age is psychological maturity, if your girlfriend finds that you only think about your own feelings and not her feelings, I am afraid that this relationship is not easy to maintain, right? Hope you figure it out.

Falling in love and being sorry for your parents are fundamentally different things, unrelated. As long as you study well, there is no problem if it does not affect your studies. You have to make it clear to your girlfriend whether she has someone else she likes or is she really afraid that her parents will be sad.

When he finishes the college entrance examination, talk to her again, don't affect your family.

He wants to love you and love you after graduation.

Love you hair... What age is it, I think you subconsciously know that she doesn't love you anymore, why are you still lying to yourself, points.

You still have a long way to go, and if you can't get their approval, then there will be a lot of friction after you are combined. It's going to leave you bruised. You have to impress your parents with your sincerity and sincerity, so that your love can last forever.

Tell your parents directly: I won't marry him. You want me to break up with him, then don't expect me to fall in love, get married, and have children again!

Why would I recommend such an unfilial method, because that's how my high school classmates persuaded her parents! Now the little couple has a good life. Since her husband was originally a good person, after getting along for a while, her father-in-law and mother-in-law also accepted him, and they were all happy

I recommend listening to your parents.

With him, you are unlikely to be happy.

If you love him very much, you must marry him, just stick to it, there will always be a chance, do a good job, if you can't stand it, you will separate, after all, your parents are old...

Be bold and love! Believe in yourself!

Support love, but it can be seen that your future is more difficult.

I support love, but I can see it

It depends on whether you put the love party in the first place or put the parents in the first place, but this positioning is really difficult, but you must make a choice, many times the love that does not get the blessing of the family must be flawed, and strive for the consent of the parents, if they are resolutely opposed, there are always their reasons, I believe that the parents' decades of life experience and reading experience should not make a big mistake!

Also lingering on this issue!!

Depressed!!!

Hey, you're going to make a fuss, it's going to come true sooner or later.

Many people have encountered such a problem.

What are the reasons for the separation?

If there is an obstacle, it proves that there is karma, and if the karma comes and you run away, you will not be able to eliminate the karma. I don't think you should take other people's behavior to heart, cultivate yourself well, be a filial child, and slowly your family will be influenced. If it is hard-hitting, there will only be a lose-lose situation, and the contradiction will be deeper.

The hearts of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas are very large, and we must learn from the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas. Cultivation is the same in **, there is a saying that "good is like water", because water can be in a very evil and dirty place, but do not complain.

I haven't heard of anyone else being able to stop you from studying Buddhism! If you want to study Buddhism in prison, don't think about it.

The objective environment is so important, even if there is a Bodhi tree where the Buddha has attained enlightenment, not everyone has become a Buddha. I don't think my brother should leave his parents to study Buddhism, but keep transforming the external world, and everything will get better and better in the future! Practicing is to pay attention to one's own mind at all times, and to learn Buddhism is to learn the wisdom of Buddhism, and to believe in cause and effect, not necessarily to hold a Buddha and read it repeatedly every day.

Then use your actions to make them look at you, that is, to make this party's hope for you very satisfied and joyful, but also to make the other party irresistible to your other half, let them accept you with their hearts, let their parents see that your other half is good, see that you are all for happiness, and let them gladly accept that you are together...

There are also some things that cannot be forced, forced, or forced, otherwise you will not be happy together....

Only use your true emotions to transform the two elders.

Do your family's job well, for some reason you don't agree, tell them that you really want to be with your boyfriend this time, and if your family strongly disagrees, then you can consider separating.

In this case, it depends on yourselves to be determined, right? Your parents can't accompany you for a lifetime to think about it yourself, and it depends on why your parents oppose it?

A marriage that is not blessed by the family is doomed to failure!! I advise you to give up ......

That's how I should have broken up.

There is hardly any way, and even if there is, it is difficult to do.

Don't you want to get married, aren't you afraid that you won't be able to take care of yourself when you're old? To be honest, if you are afraid of breaking your parents' hearts, you may not be happy if you get married, but if you don't understand that marriage will change your life's destiny, you will definitely not be happy. Don't think about living in the moment all the time, there must always be different ages of pursuit, if you are really afraid of getting married or don't want to get married, then you must be responsible for your own decisions to the end, don't dare to do it.

Don't forget, the people around you will gradually reduce the topic of conversation with you because of getting married and raising children, and you can only find friends who are not married, so what can you talk about in the future.

Many people who don't have a suitable partner don't want to get married and don't dare to be too blatant to disobey their parents' good intentions, there are many situations in real life, and they don't want to get married but they haven't met the right one, and if they do, they may not be far from getting married.

That's the attitude of the other party, the key is what is your attitude? Personally, I think that you evaluate the development prospects of you and the other party, and if there is no future, give up. If you feel that you still have a good chance in terms of family background and ability level, stick to it; If the feelings are average, give up.

If they are together because of sympathy, momentary emotion, or fear of hurting the boy, this is irresponsible behavior, which is not good for both parties, and even gives the boy more harm. Feelings are mutual and voluntary, and no one party can be wronged.

Love at first sight is very rare, and it is a miracle that the two love each other.

Love is a luxury, and it is rare for two people who like each other to happen to like each other too, and it is always a pity that I am not born, and I am old.

If a girl wants to get married, she must at least find someone who truly loves her.

If not, you would rather lack than abuse, and don't like him dragging him, which is the biggest harm.

Break up quickly, otherwise it will hurt people deeply, everyone will be embarrassed after a long time, time will be delayed, and youth will be wasted.

Like is like, dislike is not like, must be clear, the opposite sex must be clear about what the relationship with the other party is. to facilitate future interactions.

How do I think she's just using you as a spare tire? What does it mean to be reluctant to feel uncomfortable? Isn't it hard to be with you and not love you?

That's how scum behaves! Feelings should be pure, love is love, no love is no love, what will be done? Do I need you to do it?

It's up to you to deal with your relationship.