I feel so wronged, I feel a little sorry for me when I am wronged

Employees who work in the company are inevitably "scolded" by their superiors. If a colleague blames you for the problem,1 you can find evidence and hand it to your boss, but it is not your doing, and it has nothing to do with you. 2. Ask your colleague in front of your boss why you keep pushing the problem on me, and see how your boss reacts.

Sometimes it's about "forbearance"! But forbearance has to be moderate, understand? If you quit like this, and when you go to a new company and a new environment, and there is such a problem, do you want to quit again?

Don't be discouraged, are you new? Nowadays, people like to bully newcomers, and after a long time, they won't be able to do it, just have desserts in their mouths. , or some people specialize in bullying more honest people, to deal with this kind of person, you must first give yourself confidence and let them know that you are not so easy to bully.

Over time, they won't dare to bully you.

There are too many situations in modern society, you resign and some people replace you, the earth is missing and everyone turns, you can't change what you can only adapt, you should do it well, you don't have to care about others, everyone has an account in their hearts, he is not stupid. Find ways to divert your attention and vent, and don't get along with yourself.

That's it in today's society, unless you have the ability to be the boss, otherwise it's the same to **, and life is not easy now!

Everyone has been wronged at times, but sometimes our grievances are taken as a joke and are not even understood. I've had a history of this, and when I've been wronged, that person seems to pity me a little.

The one who doesn't understand.

The person who didn't understand my feelings used to be my best friend. But after I was wronged, he didn't give me any comfort or explanation, but made me feel useless. I asked him why, and he just smiled and said:

You can't handle things like this, what's there to be wronged about. ”

I was so lost that I wanted to give up the friendship. But then I found out that he just didn't know how to comfort me, but he cherished the friendship. So I chose to forgive him, and in the rest of the relationship, I told him how I felt and asked him to give me a little comfort.

Who is the one who has pity on me?

I was once with a guy and there were a lot of spat and unpleasant things going on between us. After the final breakup, I heard something about him and I felt very aggrieved. I was angry and thought he must be having a hard time too.

But when I brought it up, my friend seemed to feel a little sorry for me.

At this time, I felt even more aggrieved because I felt that he only saw my pain, and it was difficult not to see him. But then I thought about it, and I just wanted to comfort me and make me feel that he valued me.

How to deal with grievances?

Everyone will be wronged, but we can also make ourselves feel better through our own efforts. First of all, you need to communicate well with yourself and express the grievances in your heart, so that you can reduce your burden.

At the same time, you can also try to chat with friends to relieve your mood. If you really can't control your emotions, you can also consider consulting a professional psychologist for help.

Conclusion When we are wronged, we need to calm down, analyze our situation, and find a suitable solution. Don't give up on yourself, and don't give up on a person or a friendship easily. In the process of dealing with grievances, it is important to cherish your own mood and the feelings of others, as well as the importance of friendship.