Should I fall out with my family for the sake of someone I like?

It is not okay to fall out with your family for the person you like, because we are growing up, our parents are aging, and many times we grow up far from keeping up with the speed of our parents' aging, but when we become an adult and become independent, our parents are also aging. Sometimes, inadvertently, we will find that our parents are also old and need us to take care of them. We need to take better care of their emotions, mainly because of the following reasons.

1. Frequent entry and exit from the hospital. When we were young, children were more frail and sickly, and accidents in and out were also because of children, but one day when we became adults, we found that parents also began to go in and out of the hospital frequently, and the physical condition was much worse than before. In life, a small cold or cold, or even just a fall, may make them enter an irreparable situation and face the test of life and death.

When I accompanied my parents to the hospital again and again for physical examinations, and needed to be hospitalized for observation because of a small cold, I realized that my parents' strong bodies had become weak. <>

Second, more eager for companionship. When we were young, our parents accompanied us, and gradually we left home and our parents because of study and work, never realizing that our parents were getting old, and they became more eager for our company, pinning all their hopes and happiness on their children. Parents will feel happy to accompany their children, but children have to be busy for their own careers and families, and parents are always living a very monotonous life in order to make their children's lives better and no longer drag down their children.

3. Increased wrinkles and gray hair. Year after year, the time we spend with our parents becomes less and less, and when we really reach the end of life, many times we don't notice the wrinkles on our parents' faces, adding gray hairs one after another, which are also increasing. Time has finally left a mark on their faces, no one can resist gravity, fathers no longer become upright, mothers no longer become gentle and kind, they become more like children, we need to take care of them, give them love.

If you feel that the person you like is worthwhile, and your family is adamantly opposed to you being together, then it is understandable that you fall out with your family. After a while, after a long time, you can communicate with your family members well, and you can do it.

No, your own family, your own parents, that gave birth to you and raised you, even if they don't agree with you being together, it's for you, so try to communicate more with your family and don't fall out with them.

In fact, it shouldn't be, because the person you like may not be able to go to the end, but your family is your family forever.

If this relationship is really important to you in this life, and your family's concept is incorrect, you can do this, if your family's point of view is correct, and you choose to be willful, I don't think it's necessary.

Personally, I think that I shouldn't fall out with my family for the person I like, because my family also loves me very much, and when I don't meet my lover, my family accompanies me.

It shouldn't be, and it doesn't have to. In my opinion, my family has always come first, and there is no reason for me to fall out with my parents.

Personally, I don't think we should do this, and many times family members do it for their own good, so we still have to understand.

This should certainly not be the case, and there are many times when you have to pay the price for your actions, and it is only a matter of time.

I don't think it should be, the disapproval of relatives must have their reasons, we can't just because we have someone we like, we don't care about the feelings of our families.

No, because my parents are the only people in this world who will love me unconditionally.

In fact, only caring about the love with the lover and ignoring the feelings of the parents is not the solution to the problem. Only if you get your parents to agree to your marriage, your love will last longer, and a marriage that is not blessed by your family will not be too happy.

Blindly refuting their parents' advice will only make them more determined to oppose this love. Therefore, you need to accept opposition with a mature mindset, listen to their ideas, and find a way to prove your choice to them. Only if you are sensible and firm enough, parents will be reassured.

Quarrels are not the right way to solve problems at any given time.

At our age, it's easy to quarrel with your parents for the person you like, and every time we quarrel with our parents, they will silently forgive you, and then come over and ask you if you eat this, drink or not, I just ask one question, who of our so-called boyfriends and girlfriends or friends will do this from the heart? None of them!

Therefore, I always do not understand a lot of people who quarrel with their parents. Especially for the sake of the so-called people they like, I don't understand. What do you want to say to your parents, just say it, why quarrel?

Every time I see the backs of many parents, my heart always trembles, maybe everyone will be ignorant at times, but I think we should be sensible early and don't let our parents silently wipe their tears in the middle of the night.

That's not good. I'm also rebellious sometimes, and I think it doesn't matter if I betray the world for the sake of someone I like.

But when I saw my parents' gray hair and aging faces, my heart was touched.

When we quarrel with our parents, most of the people who admit defeat first and talk are our parents, but we don't cherish them.

Parents are getting old, they just want us to live well, maybe they sometimes don't understand what we do, but please believe that they absolutely love us and are good for us. Although sometimes the method is not good.

Filial piety comes first, my parents raised us and watered us with love, and I believe that what they did for me was good. Even if there is a conflict between you, I think you should communicate well first, not think about arguing.

Unwilling. No matter how your parents are, they are also good for you, if you want to quarrel with your parents for the person you like, I feel that this is really unfilial.

Unwilling. No matter how my parents are, their hearts are all good for me, so if there is anything, then discuss it well, why quarrel?

Unwilling. My parents are the closest people, and I don't quarrel with them just because I like him.

I don't want to, but I will try my best to convince my parents to agree.

No, I have to have my parents give birth to me and raise me for so many years, why should I quarrel with my parents for an outsider.

Unwilling. It is not easy for our parents to give birth to us, and it must be for our good.

It depends on what the problem is, if it is I, of course I will choose the right side, if the person I like is right, of course I will be willing to do it.

It depends on who is right and who is wrong, and if it is my parents' fault, I will fight for it.

No, I will reason with my parents for the people I like, and I won't quarrel!

No, the nurturing grace of parents seems to me more important than love.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: This is my first love, he is not tall, not good-looking, and not physically strong. However, he loves me and I love him, but his family is not good. Nothing can be given to him.

The first time his family saw him, they were very opposed, and they didn't even look down on him at all, and they couldn't accept it at all. His home is not in the same city as mine, and we plan to work together after graduating from Mano Yard. Everyone who was with him Li Yan felt that he was not worthy of me, and said that going to ** with him would make me lose face.

Should I listen to my family? I just hope you can give some ideas, how can you make your family like it, even if it is to accept him?

Analysis: Love is like this sometimes, there are too many conflicts with reality, and seeing your love story makes me feel very familiar, because I have also experienced it, but I still survived, but it was really painful during that time.

My boyfriend is the same as you, his family conditions are not good, he can't give him any support, and I am very far away from him, one in the south and one in the north, but I am the only daughter in the family, when I first told my parents about my relationship, my parents were very opposed, including grandfather, grandmother, uncle, and uncle, none of them agreed, and I wanted to think more about the future, saying that my boyfriend can't give me happiness now. To be honest, at that time, I also struggled in my heart, and I wanted to retreat a little, but those struggles became pale and weak when I saw my boyfriend, during that time, my boyfriend was very strong, and in the case of my family's opposition, he still insisted on going to my house, and promised my parents that he would work hard in the future and must give me happiness, although that time had no effect on my family, but in my heart, I had already made up my mind, no matter what in the future, I have to work hard with my boyfriend to create our happiness together!

So I also hope that you can stick to it and stick to your feelings, after all, in a society like this, it is not easy to have a relationship that truly belongs to you, and I also hope that your boyfriend can be particularly strong and work hard in the future for your happy future. I bless you all!