Should a relationship focus on the present or think about the future?

When two people fall in love together, they must think about the future. If you don't think about the future and just focus on the present, then you are actually irresponsible for yourself for such a life. Since you start falling in love, you must think about the future, and you don't want to live in the future.

1. Those who do not aim at marriage are all hooligansThose who are not for the purpose of marriage are hooligans. Some people will only regard love as the spice of life, and they will not think about what their future life will be. Because they always feel that when two people are together, there will be such a phenomenon if they don't get married.

But those who don't aim to get married are hooligans, and for this kind of love method, people will be repulsed.

Second, to have the beginning of love, you must consider the rest of your lifeTo have the beginning of a relationship, you must think about the rest of your life。Feelings are a major event in a person's life, don't ignore its importance. If you can ignore its importance, you must feel like you don't care about your life.

For life, you must be able to make yourself feel its meaning, and you must think about all aspects before and after. If you want to make love important, you will focus on your own life.

3. In life, you must be responsible for yourselfEveryone needs to be responsible for their own life, after all, life is a major event in a lifetime, and all aspects must be considered clearly.

Once two people start to fall in love, they must be responsible for both parties. Whether we can be together in the future or not, it is impossible to predict. For the emotional problems of both parties, they must still be responsible for each other.

After all, the beginning of love will definitely make all the relatives and friends around you be regarded as the beginning of marriage. In fact, for such a relationship model, as any person, we must be cautious, not only focus on the present, but also consider the future.

I think we should think about the future. In this way, your love will last for a long time, and it is also a responsibility for love.

Love should focus on the present, as long as the two people are very happy and happy together, don't think too much, as long as the relationship is good.

Personally, I think that love must be about the future, and there is no need to do it in many cases when there is no result.

Personally, I think that love should pay more attention to the future, because we can't just focus on the present, and the future is also something we can look forward to and change.

I think it's more important to be in love, because there are too many uncertain factors in the future.

When you are in love, you should think about the future.

Although love should be simply because of love and together, but after being together, you must want to have a common future, at this time, you should take into account the direction and survival state of the two people in the future, love is never just two young people together to tell each other love, I and me, flowers before the moon so simple, but also need two people to work together, make progress together, and live and get along in an orderly manner for the purpose of being together for a long time.

Some people say that love without the purpose of marriage is playing hooliganism, which further confirms that the most essential requirement of love is to achieve the purpose of marriage. As two people who love each other, the only way to finally get the recognition of the state and the recognition of the law is to get married, enter the palace of marriage, and jointly assume the future of two people, and even more pursuits and goals. At this time, it is natural to plan for the future from the beginning, which is a manifestation of planning ahead, paving the way for two people to walk, clearing obstacles, and considering future plans.

But there are also people who think that falling in love and marriage are two different individuals, and falling in love should take into account all their feelings, and all external factors should be discarded, just because of this person, everything about this person makes me feel love for each other, and we can fall in love together, instead of thinking about how to worry about some unknown things in the future from the beginning of love, worrying and thinking too much, which will only make the love between two people vulgar and not so pure.

Although the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, this also fully reflects the differences between people. In my cognition, I think that the future should be taken into account when falling in love, only by putting the future of two people together, private food can reflect the love between the two, which is full of confidence and hope, and is worthy of longing and having a common goal.

I think the future should be considered, everyone's time is very precious, if you don't talk about the future, isn't it a waste of time, since two people are already in love, you have to think about the future, because people often say that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.

You have to think about the future, love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, and of course you have to think about it farther in order to get married and live.

I think that when you fall in love, you should think about the future, because when you fall in love, you need to think about the future of two people.

The so-called love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.,If Tan Yuanyu is in love, I will definitely consider the future I hope to be with the person I like forever.。

But many young people nowadays, talking about friends is talking about friends, only seeing the life in front of them will not think about the future at all, let alone thinking about the future to go through a day is a day, this approach is irresponsible to the other side, since the choice is in a split sedan car to consider the future.

Only when two people have a common goal and work together, the days will get better and better, and there will be a better future.

There are many times when love is blind, so it is impossible to think about the future so deeply when you first fall in love, after all, two people have just met and just fallen in love, it is impossible to make such a long-term plan, only if they love each other to a certain extent, will they consider the future.

Because in the process of falling in love, two people stick together every day, and they will be surrounded by the sweetness of love every day, so in this case, they will not think about how to go in the future? After all, at this time, everyone feels that this state is their most nostalgic state, and there is no need to break the original sweetness for the so-called future, so many times they will only silently enjoy the warmth from emotion at this time, until one day, the two of them have experienced all the vicissitudes of life, feel the sweetness and pain brought to them by love, and want to take all this into account when they want to hold all this sedan chair in their hands, so they will think about the future at this time, so they want to get married at this time.

After all, the emotional development process takes a certain amount of time to edify, at the beginning of the two people may just feel that the other party has a certain advantage to attract themselves, or feel that they will be happier with each other, so they fall in love, as for whether the future can come together, no one dares to guarantee, so only after a long time of mutual running-in, mutual understanding of each other after feeling that the other party has become an indispensable part of their lives, will gradually consider the future, Considering that they should treat each other as a lifelong partner and accompany each other through this life, the primary stage of love will not consider the future, but after reaching the intermediate stage, they have a certain understanding of each other, and they may consider the future and how to let each other find a good home, so grasp each development process of the relationship is a problem that must be faced in love, and it must be handled carefully, so that your love can be teased to the point of blossoming and fruition.