I m currently renting a house with three people, but because of personality problems, I can t get al

Updated on educate 2024-04-05
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Two suggestions for you. First, you try to challenge your personality and continue to live with them. It's a good exercise for your character and patience, and then wait until you have the opportunity to move out. Second, you just go directly, walk chic, and walk refreshingly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My personality is similar to yours, and my personality is not in line with others, so I want to escape.

    I'm personally a proponent of renting out, but I think I'm going to get closer to someone else in the process of renting out the house.

    And you're moving to ** now? It's a question to consider if you're still sharing a room with someone else. After a long time, you will also find the shortcomings of others.

    I think it's because I want to move out because: Ah, I really want to live with so-and-so, not I really don't want to live with so-and-so.

    I used to ask my brother what to do if he didn't get along well with the people he shared with the people, and he said that the other people were okay.

    And I asked, "What if they're all bad," and my brother said, "That must be your problem."

    Anyway, my opinion is not to move out, go to someone's house for a few days, and come back when the anger is gone, and you may find that the people you live with are not so bad.

    Have an open-minded heart.

    However, I think the issue of the personality of the cohabitant should be considered before renting an apartment.

    looked back at himself. I think it's really contradictory, but that's my personal opinion, anyway, don't tear your face with the people you live with, it's hard to say what the future will be.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be patient and quietly go to find a house on your own, or go out to rent it with friends in private. Or if you have friends to live with, go to a friend's house for two days to ease the relationship, and then go home after two days to get better. Or find a friend to stay with you for two days to ease your mood and let yourself not care.

    But the key is to wait for the room to arrive, and flash immediately. Why bother to look at other people's faces when you spend your own money.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After living for this month, I will move out, and since I have already paid a month's rent, I will not lose too much. Maybe in the month of continuing to live, everyone gets along well again, and you can continue to live, and it is quite troublesome to find a house and move.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a give-and-take, mainly because he She has a bad character Don't be a person like her The landlord's experience is sympathetic, since you say that it is not soft or hard, then directly recognize it, meet such a person, and consider yourself unlucky, it's not that you're afraid of her, it's just that you don't want to be the same as him, so you move away with A. Sooner or later, I'll get nervous, and I think it's more tangled than going to the grave to live with someone I don't like all day long; Either you 2 will join forces and tell him to go, and I don't think you can do it, so it's better to suffer. , cowardice, move away by yourself, eat a trench and grow wise.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, it will be very uncomfortable for anyone to be hated by others. Girl B must also be very uncomfortable. How did you get along in the beginning?

    When she behaved in a way that you couldn't accept, did you immediately bring it up with her? Think about what you're not doing well? It can also be like this!

    It's better to make a play and let Girl A (or yourself) imitate some of Girl B's behaviors that you can't accept, and even be more willful and domineering than B! Let B look at it from the perspective of a bystander and see "himself". If you keep Girl B in the position of being isolated, it is actually not conducive to the development of things.

    You tell me? If there is something bad in a person, there will definitely be something good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How is rent calculated? Are you living with foreigners or are you all Chinese? If you really can't live there, you shouldn't have a problem negotiating together, but foreigners are very turtle-haired.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If it is not written in the contract, it does not need to be paid.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Brother, first of all, you must understand that the world is harmonious and different. Everyone has their own character, their own habits, as well as their own temper and privacy. So sometimes you have to keep a certain distance.

    If you get too close, you can easily cause injury. At the same time, human beings are social creatures who need the approval of friends and society. You also need to deal with different people.

    There is a little story about hedgehogs, in cold weather will snuggle up to each other for warmth, the closer the heating effect is, but too close and easy to be pierced by each other's thorns, so they must keep a suitable distance to achieve a comfortable state for each other.

    In the same way, we humans should keep a good distance from each other and respect the habits and privacy of others. In this way, we can live in harmony.

    So, it's quite normal for you to have the above experience.

    Because of different family education, personality and life experience, A's girlfriend may be a cleanliness, perfectionist, introverted, and person who likes to be alone. So it may not be in harmony with your cheerful personality. If you keep a certain distance from each other, you may also get along.

    But too close is prone to contradictions.

    Brother, give you some advice, no matter what they think and dislike you may be, after all, they have helped you, so learn to be grateful. As for the inner estrangement, it is possible to open the heart through sincerity, eliminate the estrangement, and enhance understanding. You can invite them to have a meal or find a place to sit, open your heart, thank them sincerely, and then criticize yourself, saying that you are sorry to disturb them, that they are not used to life, that they hope to be good friends in the future, etc., pay attention to language skills, and praise each other more.

    I believe that the other party is not a particularly unreasonable person, and if you are so sincere, I believe that they will not be embarrassed to care anymore.

    Well, let's talk about this first, I hope it will help you, and I hope you have good luck and get rid of your troubles soon.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, many times we encounter people with different personalities, and whether they are isolated depends on their mentality. If you have peace of mind and be kind to others, you will naturally gain the trust of others. At the same time, we must also learn to be tolerant, we tolerate others, and we will also be respected by others.

    It's really not good, and you're the only one who goes out to live, but a person can also be lonely! Best wishes!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel isolated, try to find a way to communicate with others, and in this society, having one more friend or being able to live in peace with others is the way to be a person and the way to success.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First, learn to communicate with others;

    The second is to move out by yourself, of course, you have to pay out of your own pocket.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you can find a house and move out on your own.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You need to change your mood, change your mentality, and the discord with the people in the dormitory is your problem, and if you work hard to build a good relationship, you can save the cost of renting a house, so why not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Go to the library more often, go back to play at night when the library is closed, wash your mobile phone, and almost turn off the lights and go to bed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Moving out to live is free, but this will cause you to be very withdrawn and out of line in the eyes of your classmates, and your family background is not good, so it is better to find a way to have a good relationship with your classmates and live together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can contact the instructor to apply for a dormitory adjustment! I hope the instructor agrees with you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Either you have a good relationship with them again, or you can use the dormitory as a hotel to sleep in, and you can go back and do what you should do when you lie down. At most, the personalities are incompatible, so it's okay not to play with them.

    However, college is the last place to study before entering the society, and it can also be called a small society, so try to learn how to behave in college, instead of arguing and doing things when you don't agree like the rebellious period of junior high and high school.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find classmates who have a good relationship with you, and you can rent a house together, so that you can have less.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Train your body muscles, you don't have to fight, you can wrench your wrist or something, and then take it slowly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Getting along with different people is also something you should learn in college, don't always try to escape.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's change the dormitory, and then you don't have to pay too much attention to the words and deeds of those cats and dogs, and study hard. No matter how much they hate them, how long can they be together?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You can apply to change dormitories, or find a good relationship with classmates to rent a room together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's better to learn more about interpersonal communication and to have a good relationship with everybody than anything else.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Improving relationships is king-

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can't even handle the relationship in the dormitory, did you go to college? It's better to go home and herd the cattle!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Come on. Upstairs. Also try to communicate a p!

    Anyone who understands the slightest bit of reason will not get an inchGood no good. And you're alone.

    If you want to be domineering in a dormitory. There must be companions. The people in your dorm room are arrogant.

    Plainly. You don't get along with them at all. I'll tell you.

    The psychology of the two of them is not necessarily very compatible. It's just that the face and the heart are not in harmony. Just for the sake of profit.

    Together, they will deal with you. I also live in a dormitory. Every dormitory has a scripture that is difficult to read.

    The best way to do it. It's that you move out. Or if you don't move.

    It's impossible to get them to change. Then change yourself. Do it in defiance of all.

    Ignore Beibei! Or not. You also want to be a hero to change them

    Impossible things. Actually, put. I admire the kind of people who can be people.

    Those who are arrogant. They are all narrow-minded! Discord in the dormitory.

    In fact, it is also a kind of battlefield...Ay.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    1 If you can change it, change the dormitory and change it! ~

    2 If you can't change it, then receive! Get along, try, this is just 2 people in school, one day in the society, what kind of people have to come into contact! ~

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you have to do your part.

    If you can't live together because of personality discord, it's better to separate.

    You'll be in a better mood too. If you are depressed every day because of such a small thing, it will affect your life very much.

    It's completely unnecessary to draw a line, after all, it's classmates. Personality discord does not mean that you must draw a clear line.

    You can not work together. It is also possible not to play together. But you're still classmates. The relationship is forever.

    You can communicate with the teacher when school starts. I'm going to transfer you to a dorm room or something.

    That's it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is a knife in the heart, and the past two years should be regarded as endurance trainee training before entering society.

    But what you do in the future is up to you, if it seriously affects your life and learning, then you're welcome.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Applying for a transfer may be the best option, and it is impossible for the teacher to sit idly by and say that they have seriously affected you in your studies.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Try to communicate with them. Everyone has shortcomings.

    You're bothering them at this time, maybe they're bothering you too.

    Why can they talk together and you can't?

    You should think about yourself, too.

    You're both the same gender anyway.

    Whatever you do, he won't take a picture of you with his phone.

    Clutch. Maybe you can be good friends.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think they're going to be hard to correct! If you can't stand it! I suggest you rent a house outside, but it will increase your expenses, but it's better than being together and feeling uncomfortable! Right!?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Since she didn't do anything wrong, then it's your problem, make it clear to you, and it's good for her in the future, I think she is also reasonable, don't lose to others.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Tell me to poke her, poke her a few times and see how she pulls.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you move out, you can either say that you are friends.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you are disgusted, you will separate, right? lest something more embarrassing happen in the future!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Is it some of her behavior, speech and demeanor that arouses your disgust.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Why, talk about the beauty, see if I can help you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you can't get used to looking at others, you can't cultivate yourself.

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