Why do you always know what is most precious after you lose it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello! Remember, the most precious thing in the world is not what is ungained and lost, but happiness that can be grasped now! Although I don't know what you have lost, I hope you don't indulge in sadness all the time, but cherish what you have, otherwise, when you lose your current happiness, you will regret it and regret why you didn't cherish it at that time, which is why you feel that you know the most precious thing after you lose.

    So, cherish the present! I'm sure you'll have happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's what people are! It's impatient! It is usually only when we lose that we know that it is best for us, and there is no joy in gaining without the pain of loss. That's how real life is. Therefore, we must learn to cherish everyone and everything around us.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because we often only compare after we lose, because when he is still around, he has quietly become accustomed to everything he has for himself, thinking that it is natural and righteous, that he owes himself, and often only after losing does he understand that no one in this world owes anyone! No one is anyone's who!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People often feel that what they can't get is precious, but in fact they don't know it, and some people don't know how to cherish it, and the final result they get is to lose.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because what you have is either what you need or what you like, once you lose it, you will find that you still want it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    At the last minute, you can just listen to this song.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Preface: The words to lose and cherish are very sensitive words for us modern people. Because with the development of modern life, we will find that our pace of life is getting faster and faster.

    And in our daily lives there will be things and losses. And many people often wake up after losing, and it turns out that many people only know how to cherish after losing. But often it's too late at this time, because what has been lost will not come back after all, and even if you know how to cherish it, you won't come back.

    Loss will not come back, so the people around us should not know how to cherish things or things after they are lost. What we should do is to always pay attention to the people or things around us, always grasp our emotions, and cherish the people in front of us. Many people think that if I lose a friend for a certain month or break up with my boyfriend and girlfriend, I will reconcile with him.

    But this kind of thinking is wrong, because the loss of anything, especially the emotional aspect, is especially difficult to reconcile after the loss. And if the relationship between the two is reconciled, it will not be as good as before. Because at this time, the two have already made a gap and a gap, and there is no time to solve the previous problem.

    The contradictions between the two will still exist, and they will get bigger and bigger with time, and they will eventually be separated one day.

    Looking ahead, when we encounter difficulties or contradictions in our relationships, we must communicate and exchange more with our other half, and only by solving the problem can we go on better and longer. You must not know how to cherish it after you lose it, and only then can you know how good your original life was and how good he was. These ideas can never exist, and only by cherishing the people in front of us and cherishing the present can we have a better and happier life.

    And people always have to move forward, and they must not look back. Otherwise, your life will not move forward and will always linger in the same place. In this way, for yourself, you are also wandering in the same place, and you will not move forward.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because there are many people who are now aware of it, and they don't feel the preciousness of this relationship when they have it, so they will regret it after losing it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because many people take this relationship for granted, and feel that losing it will not affect their lives, many people only know how to cherish it after they lose it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because after losing, you will remember the good of the other party, and you will know the advantages of the other party after you lose, so you will know how to cherish it after you lose.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, in fact, I almost fell to the point of loss, and at that time I already knew that cherishing was often cherished when I lost, and this sentence was just for those who didn't have the courage to face their mistakes.

    Like me. I was once misunderstood that I had two girlfriends. Of course, I almost broke up, but I still told the truth.

    I also cherish each other in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People always know how to cherish after loss. Before I lost it, I thought that everything now was what it should be, natural, reasonable, and after I lost it, I was shocked to find out how wrong my previous self was. So he tried his best to recover everything that originally belonged to him, but now he has lost

    Many things can only be cherished after they are lost, and many things can easily fly away if you don't know how to cherish them. Then it's hard to get it back, and the memories make you learn to cherish them. Sometimes I think time can really dilute everything?

    No, I still can't help but reminisce, the memories have drifted by. Remembering everything worthy of nostalgia, I once didn't know how to cherish it because I didn't try the taste of loss. Now I have learned to cherish because I have lost too much and what I have lost will never come back.

    Maybe now I know how to cherish it, but I am at a loss, and time will not go back. Maybe one day I'll be able to get back everything that belongs to me. But time passes, things are wrong, maybe only after trying to understand the bitterness, maybe only when you lose to know how to cherish, regret is useless.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because you didn't know how much you cared about him before you lost it, and you found that before you lost it, you found that he had become an indispensable part of your life, but it no longer belonged to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Only after losing do you know how to cherish people, often so, you don't know how to cherish what you get, and you don't know how to cherish it once you lose it. So, in the long life, how many people sigh like this: it is difficult to recover the water, regret is beyond reach, the sun and rain, the birds and flowers, give everyone fairly; Joy and joy, troubles and sorrows, but they belong to the private property of individuals.

    Life is always beautiful, it's not that there are too many troubles, it's just that we don't understand life; It's not that there is too little happiness, it's just that we don't know how to grasp it. People don't have to get a lot of flowers, a knowing smile, a concerned greeting, a faint tenderness, a sympathetic regret, a sincere tear. It is a very valuable asset for a person.

    Possess and know how to cherish, so that there is a spacious road between love and hate, sorrow and sorrow, gain and loss. Life tells me: beautiful sentiments, the persistent pursuit of life will not wither because of the invasion of wind and rain, will not be weakened because of the passage of time!

    Plain is true!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because the warmth and happiness when we have it make us forget the pain and sorrow temporarily, and when we have it can only be the past, the warmth and happiness of the past will magnify the pain and sorrow of our present many times, and will make us more deeply experience the pain of loss. Therefore, we often only know the preciousness of things after we have lost them.

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