Why do people always know how to cherish after they have lost?

Updated on society 2024-03-21
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because people are always unsatisfied, they always want to get it before they get it, and after they get it, to put it simply; It's just that I'm tired of being uninterested, and I'm in the mood to treat him or her

    In other words, for example, if it is two lovers, after a period of time, they understand each other and do not meet their own meaning, or it is not as beautiful as they imagined, and the other party does not do what they want However, they feel that the other party does not belong to them, and the two separate

    After a while, the other party has a new lover, and after a period of time, I feel that the current one is not as good as the previous one (her) to know that I have done something wrong that I regret very much, and some people dare not deny that they are wrong, but they are also very uncomfortable

    To put it simply, she (he) used to love you, and some personality problems are incompatible, so she (he) I believe that she (he) will change, of course, because some really can't change, she (he) will accommodate a little, because after you have been together for so long, you still know each other a little

    Therefore, many people will compare the current her (him) to the previous her (him), and it is really wrong to have such an idea, people cannot be compared

    I hope to accumulate points and exchange the doll for my girlfriend

    Be happy!I hope my blessings bring you good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you don't necessarily pay attention to a lot of details before you lose, for example, she loves you very much and pays a lot for you, but many times, you will feel that two people who love each other should pay, but you and her He is paying very littleBut I didn't find out. Until you lose it, you will find that she has a lot of good and regrets.

    When you go through another relationship, you will pay attention to some details because you are afraid of losing them. So after you lose it, you will cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because after loss, there will be a feeling of heartache, only then will you find out how beautiful it was in the past, and you will slowly reminisce after loss, so a person must learn to cherish and cherish everything around him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Being loved is happy, to love is painful, your indifference will make people tired, there will be the day when you lose him, and after the loss, you will understand that it is the happiness that should belong to you....

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because when you have it, you always feel that it is yours, so you don't know how to cherish ... People are like this, when lost, the memory of time disappears, the rest is just beautiful, when you think back, you will regret the beginning, so there is a saying that you are eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, you will rest assured when you are not afraid of being robbed, not yours, always want to go...

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Well, I feel like a very strange animal, and I'm curious about everything around me, and I want to be fashionable, and when I'm tired of it, I abandon it. Why is this happening? Maybe it has something to do with our ancestors, but I can't explain it

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because when you get it, you always feel that it should be, and you think that you will never lose it, but when you really lose it, you will regret that you didn't cherish it well, so only when you lose it can you know how to cherish it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because when you have it, you think you won't lose it, so you don't cherish it, and when you lose it, you know that nothing can be owned forever, so you regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sometimes, I can't feel it, I take it for granted, and when I lose it, I find that I am really happy, but I can't go back, so we should learn to cherish what we have, cherish the people and things around us, and don't regret it when we lose it, there is no regret medicine to buy in the world.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because people often don't know how to cherish, just like people always go the wrong way, only to know that the right way is there. A truth, human nature.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People don't know how to cherish, it comes from getting too easy, and they should think about things in their shoes. There are many beautiful things in the world, but there are not many that really belong to you, in fact, what you miss, will never come back, only wait, wait for time... ALLOW YOURSELF TO CHANGE, TO GROW, TO AWAKEN ...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's right, I only learned to cherish after I lost, and a profound lesson is enough, I hope you can learn it!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hey, people are always like that! People always have to wait until they lose to understand the preciousness of what they have, when it rains to discover the brilliance of the sun, and before they die, they can understand the meaning of life! Only after love can we understand the profundity of love, only after hatred can we understand the bitterness of love, and only after liberation can we know how to choose.

    Because when people have something, they get carried away or even ignore its importance, so that they don't estimate the severity of losing it. So whatever you have, you have to think about it if I lose it"it"What kind of consequences will there be. I regret the loss!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because I forgot her existence, I suddenly felt it when she left you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not that I'm not good enough, it's that I haven't met the right person yet.

    It doesn't matter if you've already missed it.

    Her appearance is to let us know how to cherish the next person who appears.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Give him a chance! It's not easy to fall in love in life! Acquaintance, acquaintance, acquaintance, encounter! It's all fate! Just give a little punishment!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because when they want to cherish, they often don't think about what the consequences will be after losing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I want to lose because of it.

    Just cherish it.

    How do you know how important it is not to lose?

    Because you don't cherish what you have!

    Only those who cherish can have it, and those who don't know how to cherish it will never have anything.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because there are some things, when you have them, you don't know how precious they are, and you don't know how important they are to you. Once you lose it, you will find that it is so important to you and has such an important place in your heart.

    Maybe I'm the kind of person who doesn't understand when he has it, and he only knows how to cherish it after he loses it.

    I don't know if it's useful to do this.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because when happiness is there, you feel that you have already obtained it, and you will not give anything more.

    But when you lose it, you know that you were wrong ...

    It takes two people to LOVE ...

    Don't feel like he's already yours and will never run away.

    If you don't maintain your love well, the same will end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Maybe he didn't know your goodness at that time, and he didn't care, didn't care, didn't care, and didn't love you, only until you left him, he knew that you were the best one, and only then did he know how important it was for you to exist So everyone now must know how to cherish everyone around him, no matter who he is, he must cherish him well

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People always know how to cherish after losing, and before they lose, they think that everything now is due, natural, and reasonable; After losing it, I was shocked to find out how wrong my former self was.

    So he tried his best to recover everything that originally belonged to him, but now he has lost

    The eyes can often see the farthest, farthest and most unreachable scenery, but they can't see the eyelashes that have always been by his side and never leave him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    People don't know how to cherish when they have it, and they regret it when they lose it.

    Perhaps everyone can only understand better and cherish the present more after experiencing it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You always think that it is mine, and it will not be lost, and when you lose, it is too late.

    Cherishing is learned, and not everyone is born to cherish.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Ay. It can't be helped, because until then, we always think everything is good, and we don't pay attention to it.

    However, after that, after losing it, it seems that something is missing, so I know that it is the most precious, but generally at this time, that thing is difficult to recover, and we can only live in that nostalgic season.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, there are many such times in a person's life, when they always feel that something is their own, they don't care much when they have it, and they regret it once they lose it

    It's just that we age too fast, but we are too late to be smart. I don't regret knowing you, it's just a pity that I'm never the one who can give you happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because when you don't lose, you think he won't lose.

    It's yours forever.

    So you won't care.

    Wait until it's not yours.

    You're going to be observant.

    will know. It turns out that the most precious thing is what once belonged to me.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Only when you lose a shoe will you understand the pain of losing a shoe.

    Know how to cherish, not because you are smart, but because you have lost.

    Just as the reason why happiness is so hard-won is because of the existence of sorrow.

    Some people are like air when he is there.

    You always feel like he's nothing.

    You know how precious he is when he's gone.

    Let's see if it can be undone.

    Chase him back.

    If not, don't blame yourself too much.

    If you don't cherish it when you get it in the future.

    I can't get it when I cherish it.

    Maybe. This is the biggest contradiction in life.

    When you meet the people you love, you will know how to cherish them, don't you?

    If you have not experienced the pain of loss, how can you understand the importance of having, and only when you lose can you know how to cherish it, so that you will not lose it in the future!

    May you be happy

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because it's so easy to get, I don't know what is hard-won! Because I held it in my hand, I didn't expect to lose! Because if you don't have it, you will feel empty!

    Because it's lost, I regret it! If you don't lose something, you won't understand what heartache is! Is life complete because it is gained, and perfect because it is lost?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    "Why do many people not know how to cherish the beautiful things in front of them, and they choose to give up easily and choose to leave in a very chic way. I often think, "But why are so many people desperately trying to get what they can't get?"

    It's like it's a rare treasure. "In fact, there are many things that don't need to be asked why, because you can't get an answer if you ask, and the questions without answers are just a wry smile, in fact, many people's ideas are incomprehensible, and they can't figure out the ......

    In fact, don't shed tears or heartache for the lost years, because at least those years have brought you warm memories.

    Bless you ...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because this is always human nature, when we lose, we think about cherishing each other, we will think of each other's goodness, and it is also because we always ignore each other that we will lose each other.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because I know that he (she) is good! Thinking of his (her) love for you! You won't be able to! Will miss.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because when you have it, you won't care about the little details, you won't focus too much time and energy on someone or something, and maybe you will be naïve to think that nothing will change. This kind of psychology is not a day or two, but accumulates over time, a certain quantitative change will lead to a qualitative change, and finally until the East Window incident happens, you will realize that you have lost what you originally thought belonged to you. It's all because I'm too confident and too confident in others, the only thing that hasn't changed in this world is that the world has been changing, who can guarantee who can not change?

    Who knows who won't change? It's better to think about it, don't wait for the day you regret it to wake up, and cherish all the good things in front of you. But if you really lose, especially to people, then I suggest that you 'forget her, like the kind of person who gives up easily, and then turns around and says love, is just a passerby in life, there is no need to care, you have to believe that since God has closed a door for you, he will open a window for you, don't be sad, let alone worry, everything is destined to be good, nothing to care about.

    Be self-respecting, self-loving, believe in yourself, and be the best version of yourself. ’

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