Why, people always know how to cherish after they lose?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because after the loss, you have more time to think seriously about the things between you, and at that time, when you are calm, you will think of many happy things between you, and gradually you will feel that you have lost what you cherished.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why do many people not know how to cherish the beautiful things in front of them, so they choose to give up easily and choose to leave in a chic way. I often think, "But why are so many people desperately trying to get what they can't get?"

    It's like it's a rare treasure. "In fact, there are many things that don't need to be asked why, because you can't get an answer if you ask, and the questions without answers are just a wry smile, in fact, many people's ideas are incomprehensible, and they can't figure out the ......

    In fact, don't shed tears or heartache for the lost years, because at least those years have brought you warm memories.

    Bless you ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not all people know how to cherish after they have passed away, and there are many people who really love each other and come together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he's lost. People's thoughts are always so strange, when they have it, they are garbage, and when they lose it, they are treasures, and it can be summed up in one word: cheap.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ay! Man is born in it, but he does not know what is going on outside his life.

    Sometimes take a different position.

    Stand from different angles, think more, and see more.

    Maybe everything is not going back, and you will regret losing it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Even if the needle doesn't stick to you, you know how it hurts! But you still won't remember the pain! You can only understand if you have experienced it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When you have it, you don't know what is wrong.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've never heard of people who are immersed in love have zero IQ!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People have a trait that they will only know how to cherish when they lose it, but what they once had will not come back, so it will become a regret in this life, and it will become a karmic and spiritual characteristic engraved in the alayya consciousness. Cherishing is an ability. Everyone has a different personality and personality, so different people have different attitudes towards the same thing in life, cherish is like a person's IQ EQ or other aspects of a thing, cherish is not only a concept, but also a kind of ability to hold oneself, so not all people know how to cherish at the moment, generally know how to cherish after losing.

    2. Every Zheng Wang actually wants to cherish a person or a thing, but because this person or thing has been by his side for a long time and has not changed in any way, people feel that he will not leave him at all, so people often don't know how to cherish it.

    3. New demand is generated. When we have a thing, we may not pay too much attention to the things we have, but because of the new demand and choose another emerging thing, and it is because of this new demand that we will find that what we once had is what we should cherish. Cultivate the ability to cherish.

    The reason why we don't know how to cherish each other is roughly because we feel that the other party will not stay away from us, and if we want to cultivate the ability to cherish, we should exercise the ability to consciously repeat and re-experience the value and beauty of the things obtained, because the beauty of the other party, all the good and bad things of the other party, are very beautiful things, contact with each other more, and try to add some emerging activities with the other party, you can cultivate your ability to cherish.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, you will feel that it doesn't matter when you have it, and you will regret it when you lose it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do people always know how to cherish after they have lost? Yes, do not lose never know the importance.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's pretty much it, so there will be regrets after experiencing it. But everyone's experience is different, can not be exactly the same according to other people's practices to copy and paste, so learn to cherish what you have now, try to be responsible for what you have done, do not complain, I believe that every step of my life experience will be added to the code of this one, whether it is good Chi Shan Xun or not, it is a kind of wonderful, cherish the people in front of you, worthy of yourself, worthy of others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Many men are like this, they don't cherish you when they have you, and they don't know how precious you are until they lose you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue something that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they perceive who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of their lovers, we should be disturbed and treated with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other, think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because after loss, we will know how to grow up, and when we grow up, we will understand the loss of the past, and we will think about cherishing when we know that we have lost....

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Life is like this, just like there is a cause and there must be an effect, everyone has felt this way, and I hope that each of you can think more about it in dealing with your own affairs to avoid such things from happening.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because people are always in pursuit of a better one or her, maybe she or he has a lot of shortcomings that you are not satisfied with, but when you really lose, you will find that those shortcomings are what he or she is more special, and you can't stand it even more if you change someone else.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Fool loses and loses.

    When you don't have it, you want to have it;

    When you really have it, you take it for granted that you will continue to have it;

    If you continue, you'll get tired of it;

    If you go on, don't look for something more worth having.

    Then continue to repeat

    Everyone thinks this way to a greater or lesser extent, but how much self-control you have, or whether you can truly recognize the importance of what you already have, varies from person to person.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because you don't know how to cherish if you don't get it, you know how to cherish it after you lose it, because you know, some people talk big all day long, I understand everything, in fact, he is the most ignorant of a stupid person, you have tried, you understand (incidental: but because you have tried, you have to remember the previous loss in the future), people are like this.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you only know regret when you lose it. will be bitter and remorseful ... So you will slowly know how to cherish it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People are greedy.

    Often when you don't have it, you want to grab it with all your might, and when you do, you get tired of it and want to throw it away.

    When he really lost it, he realized how important it was to him, and how much meaning it meant to him.

    Why do you know how to cherish it after you lose it? Maybe people don't really want to do this, when he has it, he doesn't feel the pain of loss, and he feels that even if he discards it, it will come back to him. This is a naïve idea of man.

    When he really discarded it, he found that what he discarded would also dislike its owner, and if he wanted to have it again, he would have to pay a price.

    Often pay the price to get what you know how to cherish.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because there is no preciousness that will not be decided when it is lost.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because people are always stupid.

    Always don't care.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's called: Memories are beautiful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ay! It can't be helped, because until then, we always think everything is good, and we don't pay attention to it.

    However, after that, after losing it, it seems that something is missing, so I know that it is the most precious, but generally at this time, that thing is difficult to recover, and we can only live in that nostalgic season.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, there are many such times in a person's life, when they always feel that something is their own, they don't care much when they have it, and they regret it once they lose it

    It's just that we age too fast, but we are too late to be smart. I don't regret knowing you, it's just a pity that I'm never the one who can give you happiness.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because when you don't lose, you think he won't lose.

    It's yours forever.

    So you won't care.

    Wait until it's not yours.

    You're going to be observant.

    will know. It turns out that the most precious thing is what once belonged to me.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Only when you lose a shoe will you understand the pain of losing a shoe.

    Know how to cherish, not because you are smart, but because you have lost.

    Just as the reason why happiness is so hard-won is because of the existence of sorrow.

    Some people are like air when he is there.

    You always feel like he's nothing.

    You know how precious he is when he's gone.

    Let's see if it can be undone.

    Chase him back.

    If not, don't blame yourself too much.

    If you don't cherish it when you get it in the future.

    I can't get it when I cherish it.

    Maybe. This is the biggest contradiction in life.

    When you meet the people you love, you will know how to cherish them, don't you?

    If you have not experienced the pain of loss, how can you understand the importance of having, and only when you lose can you know how to cherish it, so that you will not lose it in the future!

    May you be happy

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because it's so easy to get, I don't know what is hard-won! Because I held it in my hand, I didn't expect to lose! Because if you don't have it, you will feel empty!

    Because it's lost, I regret it! If you don't lose something, you won't understand what heartache is! Is life complete because it is gained, and perfect because it is lost?

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