How do I care about others, and how do I care about others?

Once, when I was playing online games by myself, I met a few friends and I felt that I had a good relationship with them. Indeed, at that time, I was willing to give everything. Caring for people is actually a feeling of happiness, at least that's what I think.

Yes, caring for people is a kind of happiness. Someone who deserves your care is happiness. Think about it, there are so many people around us, coming and going, and they are sincere to you, how many of them are worthy of your concern.

I've been in the student union for a long time, and I've been floating in society, but it seems that under my smile, I can rarely find a little understanding. One day, someone really cares about me, and I'm really happy to care about him, because someone comes to me to care, and I'm really happy. A friend once told me that he had put all his effort into it, but he still ran away.

I don't know if he didn't put all his heart into it, or if the kid didn't have any thoughts on him. If it's the latter, I think, it's better to break it off as soon as possible. I just want to fall in love with a straight person, but the result is always ugly.

If your care doesn't come back in the first place, then you are not suitable. Excluding this situation, our own minds should be on those who at least care about themselves. Caring and being cared for are at the same time.

At this time, we give Him a piece of our heart, and He will surely return to Himself. Isn't that a kind of happiness? If, excluding sexual needs, spiritual mutual assistance is a kind of happiness.

Sometimes I wonder what I'm after. Is it a treat? Is it an indulgence?

Or whatever. However, I now feel as if I am looking for a kind of psychological protection. I want to have someone to support me.

It's not your own vulnerability, it's a need of your own. I wish I could have been cared for by him, the kind he was protective, not that he was dependent on me. The moral support and encouragement was really what I was looking forward to.

At this time, caring is really a kind of happiness, and I don't need to explain it.

Treat everyone consistently

When you see a little brother wearing open crotch pants, you give him 10 yuan to buy candy to eat, when you see a grandparent picking up garbage, you donate 100 yuan to let them rest for a while, when you see a man beating a woman, you go up without saying a word and directly flash the man in the face, and when you see a good person asking for food, you directly take his job A lot, a lot

In fact, to be a good person, a person who cares about others, is not just a matter of saying, step by step, starting from little by little, slowly and slowly into your mind, 21 days later, you have this habit, so that you are a person who cares about others and is considerate of others

Forget yourself, don't care about the kind of return, only she can do it in her heart.

The first is to put yourself in the shoes of others, learn to empathize, think completely from the other person's point of view, and understand what the other person desires and needs most at the moment. It is necessary to understand the psychological state of the person being cared for, where his worries come from, where his troubles are, and whether he needs material help or psychological comfort.

Second, choose an appropriate way, and when caring for and helping others, we should analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis, and prescribe the right medicine for each person.

Third, it is sincere implementation, and this kind of care and help to others cannot be attached to any conditions, nor should there be any attempt to reciprocate. We are sincere, unselfish, sincere, and sincere to help others, and don't care about others when they are needed, and leave them behind when they don't need them. Sometimes your concern will make the other party not understand or misinterpret, you should be tolerant, generous, do not care about the other party, can not see the other party unhappy, misunderstanding will give up his care and help, but with sincerity to impress the other party.

Eventually, he will finally understand these good intentions.