I m single, but I want to have a child, and I m not too insecure

Maybe what you really want is a home of your own and not your parents' home.

Having a child, with or without a father, is equivalent to having a family and the responsibilities and obligations for the mother, and it's not a question of security.

Actually, you should ask your parents for their opinion, I think your feeling is not insecure, but your motherhood is expressed, I am sure that you are a kind girl, and people who think like this are cute (in the eyes of men). Another thing you have to pay attention to is that it is difficult to have a good pet, let alone a child, they are really squeamish, and there are many things that are beyond your imagination, and they will be very tiring and tiring. If you really want to have a child, you don't want to get a puppy first, you know the bitterness.

Of course, you have to ask for children first and then find a partner, I feel that you are a little irresponsible

Ha, I'm a child's father, how about you be a child's mother?

Buy a Barbie doll to play with.

It's too early to raise a child at the age of 22, and it's not too late to keep this good wish for another 10 years.

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Listen to your tone of being a girl, it seems that you like children a lot, but now you can't get married and have children for various reasons. So what to do, am I right? If you want to have a child, you should take responsibility and give her happiness, can you do it, if you can, then it's OK.

Female? Do you want me to help make children? Hey, my number can't go, I'm worried.

I'm sorry I can't help you with this.

..It shows that you like children very much, I hate children very much, and I will tease other people's children if I am not responsible. But I think it's annoying!

Are you a girl? Find the right boyfriend and you'll be fine!

There is nothing abnormal, after all, there is a gap between imagination and reality. It's just that you are still young and not thoughtful enough, and you only see the happiness when you take care of your children, and the joys and sorrows of your children's eating, drinking, and lazing, can you cope with them yourself? Children are not pets, and their education and growth are all responsibilities!

So wait for you, think about everything you should think about, and then talk about the child. However, you can get a pet to make up for the inner space, which can also relieve the desire to have a child.

It's just that the thoughts at this stage will slowly fade, everything is normal, don't deliberately change anything! If you want to have children, get married quickly, it will be very hard for a single mother! A home with children, fathers, and mothers is a complete home!

Because when I was a child, other people's children had parents but I only had one, and I was often excluded by others, etc., and after a long time, I would form an inferiority complex.

Hello answer, very happy to serve you! If a single-parent family is so insecure, it is indeed a very normal thing, and it is also a very bad thing, so let's take a look at what to do today, so that you will not have so many shortcomings, will not let yourself be afraid, and will not be insecure.

The first point of learning the following is constantly: the cultivation of one's own strength. After all, we all know that a sense of security is a feeling, and only when you become stronger, then the difficulties and setbacks around you, as well as the sneers and sneers around you, will not stump you, and then you will become stronger.

The second point is to constantly improve your self-confidence.

In fact, confident people are not afraid of insecurity, because he believes that he can handle this matter well, and at the same time he also believes that he can make his life better, it is because of this self-confidence, so he will not be afraid of the ups and downs in life, and he will not be afraid of what kind of difficulties he will encounter on the road in the future, after all, he has the confidence for them to deal with. Therefore, I think it is very important to develop your own confidence, so you must know how to control this point.

Point 3: Don't rely on others. If you can do what you can do by yourself, you must not rely on others, only in this way can you make yourself more independent and less afraid of the difficulties in life.

Fundamentally, divorce is a sign of insecurity. After the divorce, the insecurity does not disappear, but is transmitted to the children. Who do you talk to when your child has a problem? Who to turn to? Single parent, you yourself are a loser in life, I am really helpless.

Personally, I think that children are only with their parents when they are young, and they can only be involved in one party, if they are busy with work, they will increase their alone time, and children will naturally be lonely and afraid. Not only for single-parent families, if one parent is working in other places, the child will not feel secure if he only comes back once or twice a year, but if one parent is well educated, the child will grow up with a stronger sense of responsibility and resistance to pressure than the average child.

Social development and the social environment at that time created the cohabitation and group life of people at that time, and the corresponding natural dependence on the sense of security of having children would naturally arise. Human...

Having a father and a mother is a harmonious home, and children who lose either side will feel lonely and uneasy.

It still depends on the family situation, if you lack the love of your parents, you will lack a certain sense of security. But although some families are single parents, the love of their parents is also in place, so they are not insecure.

Yes, I am a single parent myself, especially in terms of emotional insecurity, and I always want to prove that the other party loves me through some small details, which I think is very bad.

Children who grow up in single-parent families will actually lack a certain sense of security, because the love they are exposed to is incomplete, so they may have a lack of love and some low self-esteem.

I think there will be a lack of a certain sense of security, because the family itself is not very warm, so there will be unease.

They do feel insecure, and as they grow up, they lack father's or mother's love.

I can't say everything, but I dare say that most children from single-parent families are insecure！As for why there is not enough security, first of all, I feel that my father will not be my own father in the future, and my mother will not be a mother alone. I feel that I have to share the most important things, the second is that I have no sense of belonging, and the third is that the complaints of both parents about my support and the arguments about child support make me feel that there are more people who should not exist.

My view of these children is that they are a victim of the parental gameDivorced people basically do not consider the psychology of their children, and to put it mildly, they are selfish. The parent raising the child alone will feel unconvinced and use the child as a mental venting bucket, causing the child to lose a sense of belonging and feel fragile in the relationship, but there is nothing wrong with the idea of protecting ourselves, and there is nothing wrong with a strong sense of insecurity. But at the same time, don't push the kindness of people close to you away.

Because there will be someone who loves you, takes care of you, and protects the incomplete you.

Generally speaking, children from single-parent families will lack a sense of security, but there will also be children who are not lacking. In today's society, the divorce rate is very high, so do children who grow up in single-parent families have children who are physically and mentally healthy? Yes, the key is to see how the parents do it.

We say that divorce is harmful to children, of course there is, but how do we minimize this damage?

Then parents should pay more attention to spend more time with their children, and both parents can avoid this by making their children feel safe. That is to be a happy single father, single mother, this is to set an example for children, I have encountered so many difficulties in life, I am still optimistic and positive attitude to face. The most taboo thing is not to complain to your child.

It's all your dad who is bad, it's all your mom who's bad." Some parents even put the blame on their children, saying that it was you and us who divorced. Children can't bear such heavy pressure, so a single-parent family must first be a happy single father or single mother.

Yes, it has something to do with his habits since childhood, which makes him afraid of losing.

Not necessarily, some children are family-dependent, some are based on their personality, and some are environment-dependent.

Not necessarily, whether there is a sense of security depends on whether you work hard enough, be confident, and be strong inside. It's not someone else's give.

I don't think so, but most children from single-parent families will be insecure because single parenting definitely has an impact on the child's psyche.

It is not necessarily a lack of crushes, but how to deal with parents who are very disgusted by it? Otherwise, if you blindly spoil your other party, you will not have a sense of security if you bring your child to the sunny and handsome kind.

Not necessarily, not if the two parents could still bring him warmth as before.

Not necessarily, if both parents give enough love, usually accompany the child, attend the parent-teacher meeting or something, right, there is no difference with other children, but the parents do not live together

Not necessarily. I think it depends on the child's personality and the child's education. Then the living environment also has a certain impact. There is also the education of parents and the communication of children.

Not necessarily, because this matter is still different from person to person, and everyone is affected by the environment to a different extent.

Not necessarily, maybe one of his parents gave him enough security and love.

Generally speaking, there is a great lack of children, but does not include homeschooling done excellently.

There is a big impact. But not so absolutely. Anyway, adulthood more or less affects there.

It's not the same, according to the education of the child regardless of the father or the mother, the child who lives in my neighborhood is a single parent, and the child is independent and filial to the elders. The cup was good.

First of all, you have to make yourself as good as Tong Nian, no.

Children from single-parent families are not necessarily insecure, and children from two-parent families are not necessarily insecure.

Whether or not you have a sense of security depends mainly on the family, on the parents. When parents are unhappy at work, in their relationships, and in life, they often beat up their children or scold them, which will directly bring shadows to their children and bring insecurity.

Parents of single parents give their children selfless love, let them feel the warmth of the family, let them feel a loving home, and cultivate a positive, optimistic and cheerful child, and the child will definitely not lack a sense of security in the future.

In addition, when the parents are divorced, the child will have a feeling of abandonment from the bottom of his heart, when other children can enjoy the love of his mother and father, and when he sees other children can be coquettish in the arms of his parents, then his heart is inferior, he is afraid of associating with others, afraid of being ridiculed by others.