I used to be a person with low self esteem, and I used to be a person with low self esteem

I used to have low self-esteem too. It was learning that saved me. Knowledge should change fate.

It can change your view of life. I'm telling you, I've read quite a few books on this. Eventually, yes"Take the initiative", ie"Internal factors play a decisive role".

Only if you consciously adjust yourself. Moreover,"Condition"will repeat. Me too, when I'm in trouble, when others are fooling.

So, be vigilant at all times. Adjust all the time.

Everyone has low self-esteem, so why care about the eyes of others? As long as you think you are the best, work hard, only you are real, if you want others to look up to you, you must first look up to yourself, confident people can make achievements, success comes from self-confidence.

Positive and optimistic, full of hope for life, with their own life goals and plans to reach them.

Participate in more activities, say whatever you want in your heart, don't be afraid of saying the wrong thing, remember the wrong thing, try not to say the wrong thing in the same place in the future, make more mistakes, change more, and your eloquence will be good after a long time.

First of all, your language is not very detailed.

I don't know if it's because of your mood and you don't want to fight or something else I don't understand how you're feeling right now, I don't know.

Why are you confident and why do you have low self-esteem?

But I just know that being happy is the most important thing.

If you don't feel good there, don't be there.

Life is for happiness, and nothing else matters

Find the reason for your low self-esteem and perfect yourself in this area!

Go your own way and let others do the talking!!

What is there to be inferior.

It's good to be yourself and do everything.

I was a person with strong self-esteem when I was a child, the family conditions are very ordinary, since I went to junior high school, I gradually found that the classmates around me wore fashionable, foreign-looking, and I came from the countryside, due to the general conditions at home, knowing that it was not easy for my parents, I rarely asked my parents to ask for things, two sets of school uniforms were worn all year round, and I had no complaints.

Before I went to junior high school, I was a very active person, I liked sports, I participated in various sports competitions in the sports meeting, and I had a lot of friends around me. After junior high school, my environment changed all of a sudden, and coupled with the special nature of adolescence, I felt that I suddenly became sensitive and shy, and I was not as lively and cheerful as before. Adolescence is a very strange time, as it is said in the ordinary world, a small thing can have a huge ripple in the hearts of adolescent boys and girls.

There are many aspects that make me feel inferior, such as coming from the countryside, not tall, average appearance, not lively enough and many other aspects, I was really bad at that time, I lived a very depressed life every day, I didn't like to talk, I was alone, and I even felt like I was abandoned by the whole world.

For a long time, I was stuck in an inferiority complex and couldn't extricate myself, but fortunately I was admitted to high school, but I still didn't get rid of this negative emotion. I put all my energy on studying, hoping to get back some confidence in my studies, but this emotion obviously affected my learning efficiency, I worked very hard, I didn't sleep until after 2 o'clock in the morning for a long time, and now I look at the previous **, and I am a little sickly thin. Luckily, I was admitted to a major university.

This inferiority complex lasted until the university stage, because my horizons were broadened, I also grew up, and when I looked back, I found that the previous things were too small, and I am not ashamed that I am from the countryside, because everyone does not have the right to choose their parents, and everyone's parents are the best parents in the world, great parents. I also began to accept my own shortcomings, there are many short people who are not good-looking, but there are also many great people, height and appearance do not determine a person's future and achievements. I gradually opened my heart and expressed myself boldly, although I am still very introverted, there is no good or bad difference between introversion and extroversion, introversion makes me more focused and easier to think deeply.

In short, everything before is like a flash in the pan, and my life has gone through one period after another, and the previous experience of inferiority complex is something I can never forget, and I rarely mention it to others, because I feel that although I am no longer inferior, I still have the shadow of the past. Until my wife once told me that she was also a very inferior person when she was a child, which surprised me very much, my wife's image and temperament are not bad, she has been called someone else's child since she was a child, she said that she had low self-esteem I really didn't expect, I also told her frankly about my experience, at that time each other's hearts warmed.

This is the first time I have written about my own inferiority, do you have the same experience as me?

Low self-esteem is a normal psychological realization and state, and the key is to find a lever to change.

Your low self-esteem is due to the action of your subconscious mind.

In your heart, you feel that you are inferior to others in some or all aspects.

The first step in building self-confidence is that you have to re-understand yourself, recognize your own strengths and weaknesses, don't magnify your own shortcomings, see your own shining points, show your strengths, get the praise and affirmation of others, and your low self-esteem will improve.

As long as your low self-esteem is not severe, it will not affect your normal life.

There is no perfect person in the world, I personally believe that everyone has an inferiority complex, when they are not good at it, or when facing people or things they don't want to face, people will always unconsciously feel inferior, this is a very normal phenomenon, who can be sure that those self-confident people do not have an inferiority complex? As the pro on the 4th floor said, admitting low self-esteem itself says a lot about your bravery, doesn't it?

People with low self-esteem will not say that they are inferior.

From the fact that you dare to express your thoughts to us online, it can be seen that you are not inferior in your heart. Self-esteem is strong.

Beauty comes from self-confidence!

Is there something missing in your body? Even if you don't have it, you shouldn't feel inferior! Have faith in yourself.

Low self-esteem is normal, it's not scary at all, a lot of people have low self-esteem, and there are many ways to make yourself confident.