In the current era, how do you view the phenomenon that some girls are very realistic in love?

When choosing a partner"Reality"It can be understood, but it is not what it should be"Advocacy"Target. The so-called reality of women does not mean that they have to be how they are. If two people like each other, the conditions are superior and they can indeed suffer less.

Life is very long, no matter whether you are kind or not, rich or not, and encounter illness, the probability of accidents is the same. When"Reality"How do you define your marriage when conditions change and your life becomes very hard? In love and marriage, how can choosing a kind of thinking that seeks advantages and avoids disadvantages help you tide over difficulties together?

The current economic life will only be temporary, when the long-term view is long-term. It is not difficult to find that there is only one requirement required to find the right partner, and that is to love each other.

Loving someone is an inner upbringing, don't love the external conditions he has, choose a man who is kind, hard-working, strong, responsible, enterprising, and confident. Even if it will be hard when you are young, you will gradually move towards happiness. And this ability to attain happiness is your eternal treasure.

A basket of fish and a fishing rod. You should choose a fishing rod and learn to fish as soon as possible. And a woman's reality often reflects her values and outlook on life.

If you like her, accept her realistic side. After all, in the real society, the society is developing too fast, in order to have a better foothold, the reality is also to adapt to the society's actions to protect itself.

This is also a phenomenon that occurs in some girls. In fact, most girls will still deal with it emotionally and choose according to their hearts. Although social life is fiercely competitive, you can work hard to obtain everything you want, and there is no need to pin all your hopes on the gifts of others.

And isn't it just women who are realistic, men who are not? It's not wrong to be realistic, after all, no one will take the initiative to choose an embarrassing life, but at the same time, the reality is also to make various comments on others, dislike how this is, how that is, the reality is okay, you are qualified to choose the life you want, you can not settle for love.

However, those who are insulted and accused by you owe you nothing, there is no need to take advantage of realistic choices and prevail in words.

I don't think there's anything wrong with reality. After all, we live in this material world. If you only live in love in the sky, then you may live a miserable life.

A life of love alone is not enough. Matter is the foundation. So girls are realistic in terms of love because they have suffered a lot in life.

So I think they're the more sensible ones.

Treat love very realistically, which shows that these people are more cautious, not so easily carried away by love, women in love, the stage of love will become mentally retarded, lack of heart and eyes are easy to be deceived and suffer, realistic girls will not suffer this kind of loss, but sometimes love will be good and grinding, the result will of course be much better than the former!

There is no way, it can only be said that this is the pursuit of different people. After all, everyone hopes that they can have a good life guarantee in the future. You don't need to be so tired.

Therefore, people's requirements are slowly increasing, and they feel that only by meeting their own requirements can there be emotional existence.

Because more and more girls are discovering that love does not guarantee their own efforts. Men's love loyalty is too low, and material conditions can give women a sense of security and security. In addition, the pressure of modern social life is huge, and women have to pay and sacrifice more after marriage, so girls are becoming more and more realistic now.

In the modern concept, girls think more realistically about the emotions between two people, because the real material foundation needs to be accumulated. And girls are not willing to waste their time with boys and accumulate material wealth together.

This is a very normal phenomenon, because many girls are very realistic to find a partner now, if the other party does not meet their own conditions, they will definitely not choose to be with each other, so I think this is a particularly normal phenomenon, because we need to live in addition to falling in love.

Some girls are indeed more realistic, but it is also understandable, because girls need to have a better life in addition to having love, so reality in the face of material is also a portrayal of the truth in the heart.

In today's society, there are some girls who are very realistic in love, and I say it is understandable. After all, people's lives are inseparable from food, clothing, housing and transportation, and they are inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, ginger, vinegar and tea, which are maintained by money, so love is suddenly beautiful, but it is difficult to move an inch without money, so it is understandable that the girl is material.

Nowadays, young girls live in an environment with better family conditions, so they have not suffered, and such a good environment is not conducive to exercising their anti-frustration characteristics. Therefore, they are not willing to endure hardships and are willing to enjoy material life.

In fact, in the relationship, there is nothing wrong with the girl's reality, when you are in love, you can have no money, only talk about the feelings of the wind and snow, but after marriage, there is no money, it is absolutely impossible, all the living expenses, food and use are needed to solve the problem, if it is not material, then even food and clothing can not be solved, why should you be with this man.

In the current era, there are indeed some girls who are very realistic in love, mainly because this part of the girls is more materialistic, and when they are with each other, they hope to be materially satisfied.

I think love should be realistic, what kind of thing you like, what kind of material foundation you need, you will have your own idea, but if the other party can't reach it, they will choose to break up, which is natural.

The main thing is that girls now have the financial ability to take care of themselves, and everyone in today's society is very independent, and they definitely want to live well with their partner, and they don't want to be worse with him than before.

Role is an inevitable situation in the development of the times, because in the current situation, you can't avoid a person thinking too realistically, because without reality, people can't live.

In the current materialistic era, girls are very realistic in the face of love, and I think it is an understandable social phenomenon. In fact, most girls are more realistic, and a small number of idealistic girls will eventually be defeated by reality. No one doesn't want to be better off.

Men have been very realistic in love since ancient times, and girls have just become more realistic now and are starting to move closer to men, so there is no need to ask girls with unrealistic or dreamy. Men and women should be treated equally from any point of view, including the point of view of love.

I can understand that they choose love because they want two people to be together for a lifetime. The material foundation also determines the quality of life in the future, love must face the reality of marriage after all, and there is nothing wrong with thinking about the reality.

In the current era, there are some girls who are very realistic in terms of love. This is also understandable. After all, if you want to talk about love, you must have a certain economic foundation. Love without an economic foundation will not last long.

Love is ahead of marriage, and marriage is the daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Life is inherently realistic, but these girls look farther, so reality is not a shortcoming, if you want to win love, you have to give love an insurance, so that the lover can feel at ease and look forward to the future family life.

Now some girls are realistic in love, which is also very normal, because this is real life, and they have to face reality. Because everyone's ideas are different. If you want to get what you have, you have to be realistic.

This phenomenon is very normal, because many girls are now yearning for a better life, they are all yearning for themselves, and they can live a happy life without being tired or suffering, so when some girls choose love, most of them still choose social status, money and power.

This is a social problem, and more and more girls are recognizing the charm of money. I don't think there's anything wrong with them, everyone has their own choices, they didn't break the law, they didn't commit crimes. Everyone has the right to choose their own life. I respect everyone and do not discriminate or exclude.

In the current era, the pressure on most families is relatively large, and the working class generally has a mortgage and car loan, and this part alone has used up two-thirds of the salary, and the rest of the money has to live, so now it is also a matter of fate.

I think girls are very realistic, and this is understandable, after all, now is an era of high material needs, so I think it is normal for girls to have these requirements and opinions.

In the current era, some girls are very realistic in love, which is understandable. Because society is realistic and cruel. For example, if you don't have money, you can't do anything.

In the current era, it is normal for some girls to be very realistic in love, because now the social pressure is relatively high, and girls want to find a good family directly for their own bright future.

I think that for those girls who are very realistic in terms of love, it may be because those girls have been hurt in their previous love, so they don't believe in love, so they may put material things in the first place when choosing love.

This is a very normal phenomenon, because modern reality often needs material as the foundation, if there is no material in love, then this love is difficult to go on, and the reality of girls is understandable.

Because the current era is indeed very stressful in all aspects, especially in the material part, including prices and housing prices, etc., all need to be realistic to ensure that love can continue, after all, fairy tales are all deceptive.

Now a lot of girls are indeed a reality, many times looking for a boyfriend just to solve economic problems, and not to deliver the sincerity to the past, sometimes it is also a kind of play mentality, change one after another and do not cherish themselves too much, this kind of mentality is not very good, mainly consumerism caused by people's desire is getting stronger and stronger, consumerism caused by human nature is more and more alienated, the personization, so there will be various phenomena in the era of entertainment to death, some things have become exaggerated and exaggerated, That's why there is a realistic phenomenon of female students in love.

But on the other hand, society is developing, many women are becoming more and more independent, many times the kind of open-minded, independent girls, female college students are very open, they will not say very realistic, they have their own pursuits and ideas, they can dare to say that they are more and more women and better and better, so some female college students are very realistic in love, which is understandable, but the overall ** is getting better and better.

In fact, it's not just female college students who are "realistic" in terms of love, but many girls nowadays who are very realistic in love.

Many "realistic" problems have gathered together, resulting in a lot of "leftover men and women".

This is not a personal problem, it is a social reality.

In ancient times, our predecessors hoped that "the right person", but it was criticized by modern people for a while, in fact, on the other hand, this "right door" is not useless, it is so disrespectful. This also shows a problem, both men and women need to face their own objective conditions objectively and correctly, otherwise they will really see flowers in the fog and fail to understand the essentials.

The current "leftover men and women" generally show disdain when they say that they are "leftover fighters", basically thinking that they are very good, those men and women are not worthy of themselves, and the work is very, very ......Very busy, not so much free time to make friends. This seems like a fair reason, but it doesn't hold water.

Many leftover women think that they don't have a boyfriend because the man is not good enough to be worthy of him, which is the "sour grapes" mentality. Now that you make friends, isn't it just that you are picking on others, but also on men? So which one doesn't look at the other, and it doesn't have to be.

Nowadays, women have a strange theory: if you want to find it, you have to find a rich one, otherwise you don't look for it, and rich men are not "sitting in a row" for you to choose. One day fantasize that one day there is a golden man riding a white horse to propose, and he wants you to be his bride, this kind of thinking is not impossible, it is understandable to dream, I am afraid it is difficult to get reality, the key also depends on what you have that makes these golden men value.

Now there are statistics, the age of becoming a rich man is about 30 years old, due to the increasing pressure of social competition, it has been postponed to about 35 to 40 years old, it is conceivable that men are 40 years old, and they may have children in primary school, so if you want to be a rich man, a woman must at least be prepared to be a stepmother, a lover and a "few milks".