The performance of an unassertive person, the personality traits of an unassertive person?

1. It is easy to be disturbed by external speech.

From what to eat at noon, to choosing a job or getting married, we no longer make choices all the time, and we are always influenced by others. The famous economist of the University of California, Ewu Wedge, found that even if a person has an opinion in his heart, if he has ten friends who have the opposite opinion, then it is difficult for him to continue to stick to his position.

People who don't have an opinion are often very susceptible to outside speech, which often comes from our lack of faith. In fact, as long as we look back on our own growth process, we will find that our ideas are often disturbed and influenced by the outside world.

I thought I would succeed, but as long as I heard the negative words of others, my confidence would be reduced by more than half. Dante once said, "Go your own way and let others do the talking." This is easier said than done.

Second, it will produce thoughts of self-denial.

People who are not assertive often have thoughts of self-denial in their hearts. In fact, the world is forever surrounded by all kinds of denials, and many people think that such things are impossible to achieve, and that kind of idea is simply whimsical, but they don't know that it is the courage of human beings to explore and imagine that has turned many impossibilities into possibilities.

The "Wage's Law" of psychology tells us that the main reason why many great people succeed is because they are not easily swayed by others, because they see higher, think farther than others, and are more determined to be loyal to the choices they make.

Many times, we can't make some kind of conclusion or judgment about an important thing alone, and to be on the safe side, we need to listen to other people's opinions. However, it didn't matter what we heard, but the already clear ideas gradually became confused, and the original minds began to waver, and for a moment we were at a loss.

3. Don't dare to try it easily.

The third manifestation of lack of assertiveness is the fear of exploration and the fear of trying new things. In fact, sometimes success is like a very well sealed canned peach, this person twists it, but it can't be opened, and that person twists it, and he says it can't be opened. After several reincarnation challenges, more than a dozen people passed, and the cans still didn't open.

At this time, two newcomers came, and everyone told them that this can could not be opened. The first person thought that since everyone couldn't open it, there was no need for him to do more, so he turned around and walked away. The other man didn't give up and decided to give it a try, but he actually opened the can and tasted the delicious food inside.

It can be seen that success and failure are sometimes just a thought, and only those who have faith and are willing to persevere to the end can finally complete their beliefs and ideals.

Therefore, when we have a beautiful vision and hope for the future, we must not give up chasing it because we have no opinion, and do not care what others say. Life is like a canned peach, in order to be able to enjoy our own sweet harvest, let us hold on when others give up, or train our confidence and tell ourselves that we can do it.

The grass on the wall falls with the wind, and it makes sense to listen to whoever speaks! I can't make my own decisions! No self-confidence!

Unassertive people usually exhibit the following personality traits:

1.Lack of self-confidence: They often feel uncertain about their abilities and choices, so they are unable to make decisions and are afraid of making mistakes.

2.Dependent: They tend to seek advice and help from others, lack autonomy and the ability to think independently, and need support and guidance from others for decision-making or action.

3.Easily influenced: People who are not assertive are often easily influenced by their surroundings or other people's words, and lack the judgment and firmness to their true intentions.

4.Conflict avoidance: They try to avoid disagreements or conflicts with others, and often care about what others say and think about them, making it difficult to show their true thoughts and attitudes.

5.Lack of decisiveness: It is difficult for people who do not have an opinion to distinguish the weight and priority of things in complex situations, and they also lack the courage and ability to make decisive decisions.

These characteristics are manifested in a combination of these characteristics, that is, people who are not assertive often lack self-awareness and control, gradually lose control over themselves and their lives, and are easily lost in the expectations and norms of the surrounding environment, thus affecting their personal development and achievement.

People who are not assertive often show personality traits such as lack of self-confidence, resistance to change, and not daring to take risks. He was always afraid to express his thoughts, but he didn't dare to say what he really wanted; It is also difficult for them to stick to one thing, and they are easily affected by external influences and changes; At the same time, they are reluctant to try new things, because they are afraid of failure or accidents. Therefore, one last point should be emphasized - you must learn to express your ideas and be brave enough to try new things in order to fully explore your personal abilities.

People don't have opinions, that's because they usually don't worry, don't care, listen to others everywhere, so slowly no opinions, no matter in work, in life to think about problems independently, solve problems independently, so slowly and gradually, assertiveness is impossible to form all at once.

People don't have opinions because there are too many choices, and if there are too many choices, some people will be very hesitant. During the National Day holiday, should I be at home, or go to travel, or go to the library? You have to go to work today, you don't have a choice, and you won't be without opinions.

The most important thing is that I have too little experience, and I am not confident enough to believe that I can, so I don't have my own opinions.

There are many reasons, such as lack of self-confidence, difficulty in choosing, etc. So the main thing is to have confidence in yourself, because as long as people are confident, everything is fine!

This is caused by natural character, parents did not do a good job of guiding them in the process of growing up!

Lack of self-confidence and lack of knowledge.

People who have no assertiveness usually have these manifestations: their ears are soft, they can't see people accurately, and they are easy to be used and instigated; indecisive and easily influenced by others; I don't know people, I look at people, I have many friends, but I don't have true friends; , not good for family, but very little for friends; often making bad decisions; It's muddy, and nothing can be accomplished.

The most obvious manifestation of a person who has no assertiveness is to slip away, how others are, how they are. They are simply imitating other people's choices mechanically.

People who do not have an assertive opinion have no bottom in their hearts, and always have concerns, especially when making decisions, hesitate, always listen to others, and follow the crowd, which is also a congenital shortcoming, there is no way, only to face the problem, learn more lessons, and experience various things in life to change.

For example, if you want to buy something, you can ask others how it is, and others say how it is not good, it is better to buy that, and some people say that this is not good, it is better to buy this, and they have no idea when they come and go.

People who have no assertiveness like to be attached to others, let it go, go with the flow, have no ideas of their own, and have no plans for the next step, time is the day, consumption is the process! It doesn't make the slightest sense!

I think that under normal circumstances, if people don't have their own opinions, then they won't make their own decisions and will listen to other people's arrangements.

My parents often say that I don't have an opinion, and I will say that whatever I eat, I can do it.

Sometimes when I go to choose something, I watch it for a long time, and then my parents say it's fun, and I will choose this.

Some things are chosen, but when parents say it's good, I say, "That's it."

Actually, I don't think I'm an unassertive person, but I don't care too much about these things, and I don't want to make my parents unhappy, so I just listen to them directly.

No performance, no ideas, no self-confidence, care about others.

has no assertiveness, which shows that he lacks the ability to analyze and judge, lacks the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and can only follow the crowd and follow the crowd.

The lack of assertiveness shows that he does not have the courage to take responsibility, and it is probably appropriate to label him as cowardly and incompetent.

Such a person should be a grass at the head of the wall, and the wind blows on both sides.

If you are in politics, you will not be firm in your political stance, you will not be decisive in the face of problems, you will be indecisive, you will be indecisive, you will wait for others to make up your mind, you will miss a good opportunity, you will achieve nothing, and you will be looked down upon. In business, business opportunities are often fleeting, and people who do not have an opinion cannot make a decision immediately, pass by and even miss the opportunity. ......Such a person can only be mediocre and do nothing.

In short, no matter what you do, no one who has no opinion can take charge alone, and of course he can't do anything big.

It is very difficult for a person who is not assertive to make a difference. The reason is that he doesn't know, and he is confused and has no identification. Of course, if you can grasp and identify a goal, and do it firmly, you may achieve something.

People are afraid that they will not have opinions, and if they do not have opinions, they will have no position and no opinions, and they will not be able to recognize whether they are ordinary or special, excellent or mediocre. Can such a person be a leader? Obviously not, because he can't distinguish between right and wrong, isn't that a mess?

Even if you sit in a leadership position by any reason, it is a deaf ear, a pomp, or a puppet.

Therefore, it is difficult for people who have no opinions to make a difference, there is no doubt about it.

Without assertiveness, of course, it is difficult to make a difference! If the man in a family has no opinions, the woman will suffer more grievances, and the woman will become a woman! A man who has become a husband thinks his wife is not gentle?! [呲tooth]

Summary. Hello dear. The reason why a person does not have an opinion on things is because of a lack of their own opinion.

is also because I don't have to worry about it and listen to others, which leads to no assertiveness. You can become assertive through training, become self-confident, open up your knowledge horizons, and continue to accumulate life experience. Book knowledge can bring us a lot of useful reference and enlightenment.

If you can improve your abilities through life experience, you will increase your opinions.

Hello dear. The reason why a person does not have an opinion on things is because of a lack of their own opinion. is also because I don't have to worry about it and listen to others, which leads to no assertiveness.

You can become assertive through training, become self-confident, open up your knowledge horizons, and continue to accumulate life experience. Book knowledge can bring us a lot of useful reference and enlightenment. If you can improve your abilities through life experience, you will increase your opinions.

Dear, the above is my reply, I hope it can help you. If you have any other questions, I'm glad to be able to continue to answer them

When encountering things procrastinating, he will not make a choice, and he always asks for help when encountering things, and the most obvious manifestation of a person's lack of assertiveness is that he will not make a choice, and he will always rush to ask for help when he encounters a choice, because in his past experience, he is not capable of making a choice, he does not know which is better, and which one should be abandoned.

Actually, you can, but you don't want to bear the consequences of your choice, because you are running away.

People who don't have an opinion always love to regret, because their choices and decisions are made in ambiguous situations, not to mention the choices of others, because they are not the choices or decisions they make themselves, so regret is expected, they will regret why they did that, if they did it like this, would it be better, but now it's too late, in short, regret will be their norm.

It is easy to be carried into the emotions of others.

I wish you a happy life and all the best.

People who don't have assertiveness may not have a strong sense of self, they may show that they don't know what they want, and they have problems with their self-awareness, so it is difficult for such a person to make choices, he only knows how to deal with others, or he is suitable for everything, and he doesn't want to choose by himself. The specific performance is as follows:

First, it is difficult to choose, and I don't know how to choose.

Most of the time, it is difficult for a man to make a choice about what problems he encounters, and he doesn't know how to choose. Sometimes when choosing two things, he will feel particularly annoyed, hesitant, and don't know which one to choose. As a result, he has been entangled with where he has been standing in the end, and he can be entangled for a long time.

In the end, you can directly use the method of tossing a coin or a point to decide which one you want. He doesn't know anything about what he likes and wants, and he doesn't even feel it.

2. Listen to what others say.

Sometimes this man has his own thoughts in his heart, and he wants to do something. But when someone comes, he doesn't dare to say what he thinks, and he doesn't dare to do what he thinks. In the end, he listened to what others said.

It's like the feeling that whatever others say is what they say, no matter what they decide, as long as there are others around them, they will ask for help from others, and finally listen to others.

3. What the people around him do, he does.

Another characteristic of people who are not assertive is that they will do what others do. For example, he may like football in his heart, but maybe because his friends have joined the basketball club, he has also joined the basketball club. He will see what the people around him are doing, so that he can just follow what he does, which is the biggest characteristic of not having an opinion.

Fourth, rely on the people around you.

This is also a characteristic of not being assertive, that is, no matter when and where, as long as there are people around him, he will rely on him enough. Even if it's a small thing, he will be selectively dependent. It's as if it's become a habit for so many years.

Even in the end, if there is no one around him to rely on, he will be very insecure and unable to be independent.