How did you get through those lovelorn days?

It was difficult at first, I was a college classmate with him, and I parted ways during the winter vacation, and when I was alone at home during the holidays, it was easy to think of what I had done with him every day, and I couldn't do anything when I thought of him, and tears sometimes suddenly flowed down, and the song list at the beginning was related to broken love (decent, take everything you want, blank space). I will also secretly watch his WB every day, listen to his song list (because he deleted me) After the start of school, it is often easy to run into class, every time I meet, although he takes the initiative to greet me, but I will hide, I am afraid of seeing him, I am not the kind of person who is easy to put down, and can be friends with each other. When school starts, I have to be busy with a lot of things, and I can basically control my emotions during the day, but when I go to bed at night, and when I get up in the morning, I still remember, why did we separate, I can't figure it out, I can't figure it out, others have already put it down, I can't put it down, I can only figure it out by myself, and others can't help.

They broke up on May 3rd, and on May 17th they knew she had a boyfriend. It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible to be owned by others. I can't let go of her, and when I learned that she had the current position, my heart really felt like I was pricked by needles several times a day.

I started drinking every night, and I basically had a pack of cigarettes a day. I constantly numb myself, and sometimes when I am tired, I can barely support myself with sleeping pills. During this period, my friends and brothers gave me great encouragement.

Slowly, I was relieved. Now I look at some positive things on the Internet every day. Change your mind, there are no bad people in your relationship, only people who don't love you.

I've often wondered how much I've done to disappoint you that you'll choose to leave me. In fact, this is the reality, brothers, don't be carried away by sweet love. Women are terrible in reality.

Don't smoke, don't drink, and don't rely on friends. It's okay to cry, it's okay to wake up and pass out again, it's okay to be bedridden, it's okay to disappear in the crowd, but don't give up the will to live. In the toughest moments, you have to survive alone.

Any warmth is temporary, and you can only allow yourself to warm yourself until your health returns to society. Don't show the wound to anyone, fragility will attract sharks, you will be gnawed to the bones, no matter how difficult it is, you have to carry it alone. The first two days may have been hell, you were tortured and miserable, you had no one to talk to, you didn't eat anything without a drop of water, but you cried two rolls of paper.

But it doesn't even take three days, two and a half days and you'll be able to get up on your own and go out foraging.

I spent the last half a month through the period of falling out of love, during which I cut my long hair that I had kept for two years and cut my hair short. I found out that the short haircut was really right for me, and I signed up for my first marathon with my friends and started to indulge in making money. I cried every day for the first week, I would cry when I stared at the computer screen in a daze, I would cry when I got home from work and wait for the bus, I would cry when I played ** with my friends, and I would cry when I heard his name, but now I won't, I'm the coolest, you're nothing in my eyes now, and I won't waste any of my feelings for you.

I used to think that I couldn't get out of this lovelorn at all, but when I looked back and looked back, I wanted to hug myself half a month ago, and said to myself that there is no one worthy of your sadness, my friend said to me: baby, none of the people who make you cry are good things, don't think about it anymore if it's not a good thing.

Do everything you can to save yourself. Chat with friends around you, chat with relatives at home, even if you don't want to talk about people and things specifically, you will find a way to describe them. Silently weeping.

Walk. I immediately booked a ticket to the out-of-town. Spend time with people and ask for help from everyone who is willing to help you.

But there are still a lot of habits to overcome. Overcome the previous state of mind of texting him, believing that he would come to me sooner or later. We can no longer make an appointment to eat and play together.

But if there is no result, sooner or later I will have to take this step, and I am tired of the gains and losses caused by my own passions.

Half a month after the breakup, I have gradually calmed down from the sadness at the beginning, thanks to the strength of the family. There is a sentence in Jay Chou's "Rice Fragrance" "Go home, return to the original beauty", and the family is really a healing holy place. After calming down, I began to hate him, hated why he didn't take the initiative and didn't refuse to be responsible, hated why he played me around, hated why he kept dragging me but refused to allow me a future no matter what.

It wasn't until I started looking through my previous diary that I found that when I had been dating for half a year, I had already written about the problems I had found between the two people, and I kept reminding myself in my diary to withdraw as soon as possible, and to love myself seven points in love and three points in love. However, after writing it, I forgot about it, and I still fell into it like a fool without hesitation. When I saw this diary, I was overwhelmed for a moment, because it was not him who I should hate, but myself.

I am a 170-tall person, from 120 pounds, I know that in the next month, I lost 17 pounds, the thinnest time was 102 pounds, sure enough, falling out of love is the most effective way, but I don't have a lot of hatred, just tell myself that over the years, I have never lived so soberly for a period of time, I can't waste it, so I run, read, soak my feet, rub my body lotion, and cultivate one good habit after another, which is the biggest gain of my time, but the pain still continues, and it doesn't stop, It's the longest I've been in a relationship, and I can't forget it.

At that time, listening to songs was also very useful, and songs that made people feel that breaking up was not a problem, such as Zhang Yu's "Unrequited Love and a Flower", and Lu Qiaoyin's "At least go earlier than you". Actually, I have a list of lovelorn songs, but I'm sorry that the songs I recommend are very old-fashioned, but I was too ** back then. Listen, there's always a point, and after that, people are suddenly much better.