Tell me what grievances you have suffered because of your lack of appearance?

Fortunately, I was ugly, so I was able to concentrate on my studies, and I saved a lot of love and hatred! So, I'm the best in the class.

My mom was very beautiful, and then she would say that you and your dad look alike and look so ugly. So I have had low self-esteem since I was a child. I was very impressed by the denim skirt I wore when I was a child, looking in the mirror, talking to myself, and looking quite good from the neck down.

Reunion with high school classmates, eating crabs, plus me for a total of four people. After the meal, a classmate posted on Moments, four **. One for each of the three of them, and the fourth one is a crab.

In college, because of the low appearance, there are no boys to pursue, and I don't dare to confess in the face of the boys I like, because I once wanted to integrate into the collective, forcibly reversed my introverted personality, and also played crazy with them, but in the end I got the evaluation of "ugly people are more weird".

Because of the problem of appearance, I am always reduced to a background board when taking pictures, if it weren't for the fact that I was very far ahead, others would always think that I was a cannon fodder armor passing by here.

My parents' relationship also went through a bottleneck during that time, which made me think that my own ugliness affected their relationship, and their already discordant marriage was overshadowed by failure.

I'm destined to be single for the rest of my life, and my friend just accompanies me on a blind date, but people fall in love with my friend....My looks don't allow me to have a partner! It's a sad story.

Because he is not good-looking, he has suffered a lot of grievances, he has been rejected by people he likes, he has been talked about by others, and he has become the object of ridicule in other people's mouths. Appearance is the most precious treasure given to us by our parents, and no one has any right to belittle it, but our respect for it does not prevent others from judging it in other ways. Because I didn't inherit the good genes from my parents, I often suffered all kinds of ridicule.

1. Disliked by netizens2. Being ridiculed by classmatesI used to be a person who didn't like to communicate with others, because every time I wanted to talk to him, I would be treated as the object of their ridicule, and I would be embarrassed every time. Many of my classmates don't like to play with me because of my ugliness, and they think I'm going to lower their appearance. It can even lower their IQ.

When I was young, when my neighbors came to my house, they would say to my parents, "Why is your child so ugly, not like you two at all". Some neighbors would joke with me, "You see your parents are so beautiful, you are so ugly, you must not be biological". Every time I hear them say that, I get sad.

That's a lot, as an ordinary person, with a face without any bright spots, participating in various selection activities in daily life, will always be inexplicably and reasonably knocked out. The reason is also very worldly, without requiring too high ability, the level of appearance almost determines whether to stay or not. In this era, appearance seems to have become a hot and sought-after thing.

First of all, let's talk about the problems of appearance when entering the university.

There seems to be an invisible rule in the university that everyone knows, and people with good looks will always reap unexpected benefits. If it is a freshman, a simple student who has just stepped into the semi-society, on the first day of school, you can always see positive seniors around the students with high appearance, who are moving things and giving directions, while the students with average or low appearance will not be gone. Then there is the matter of entering the student union, and if you don't master the proficient use of those office software during the interview, or if you have other talents, you are basically divided into people on the same level.

Then the entry rate at this time is largely determined by the level of appearance.

However, this kind of problem does not only exist when you are a student, but also when you enter society.

Society is a mixed existence, but the supremacy of appearance is the unchanging principle, and people with high appearance will always get more opportunities. When interviewing in a company, image is a problem, after all, everyone likes to stand in front of them, and the office is a pleasing and good-looking crowd. This is also a common thing, people of the same level who participate in the interview, under normal circumstances, will always be those with higher appearance who get the offer.

In addition, there are also problems such as meeting customers, starting a business, looking for contacts, etc., I don't want to admit it but I have to admit that good looks are really a high plus project.

However, the problem of appearance is not a long-term problem, and through acquired efforts, fitness, skin care, and so on can be changed.

I used to be more fat because I was relatively bloated. When I went on a blind date this time, I directly said that I was too ugly.

I remember when I was in college, my roommates in the dormitory deliberately alienated me because I was very ugly, which made me feel very wronged.

I wasn't pretty, and I once applied for a job, but the person who applied said I was too ugly, so I couldn't be admitted, and I was particularly wronged.

I wasn't pretty, so once when I was looking for a job, someone chose a beautiful person, and I felt very aggrieved.

Nowadays is an era of looking at faces, and many people are ridiculed because of their mediocre appearance. Especially in love, no one will fall in love with themselves at first sight, and even finding a partner will be a problem. Many people are discriminated against by some other people because of their appearance, and they will feel very wronged in their hearts, and they will also feel very envious of those who are naturally beautiful.

First, I was ridiculed by others because ** was too dark, and I felt very inferior in my heart.

I'm a natural black **, and no matter how much makeup I make, I can't change my original appearance, so some people like to laugh at others, and my classmates always joke about my shortcomings. So I can't always hold my head up in front of my friends. But now I have slowly accepted myself as I am, after all, everyone is unique in this world, we can't judge a person by appearance, we should pay more attention to a person's inside.

Second, I had a lot of acne on my face when I was an adolescent, so I was left out in front of my classmates.

My ** is prone to allergies, especially when I was an adolescent, I had a lot of acne on my face, I didn't care about taking a lot of medicine, and I also had a lot of acne pits. So my classmates made fun of my appearance, and I was always wearing a mask in class at that time. After half a year, the symptoms were relieved, the acne pits on my face gradually disappeared, and I became more and more confident.

Third, we can't change our appearance, but we can improve our temperament and turn ourselves into a talented person. Although many people in this society judge people by their appearance, it is undeniable that talent is always more important than appearance. We must learn to enrich ourselves, only in this way will it be easier to gain the respect and appreciation of others.

Once I went to apply for a job as a lobby manager, and many people went to apply together, and in the end I stayed with another person, and I had a higher education than that person, but the boss didn't want me because of his good looks.

When I went to the interview after graduation, two people went to interview the salesperson of the store, but the interviewer chose the one with better appearance and did not choose me.

The experience of going back is that the people I like don't like me because I'm not good-looking. Because I was not in good shape, I felt very sad at the time.

In fact, I feel that although my appearance is not very handsome, but at least I can get stuck in the middle, if I want to say that I am wronged, it should be the time when I was still a little fat man, there is one thing that makes me feel particularly wronged.

It was a night after drinking, and we buddies didn't have much to do after they came out. So I wanted to go to the bar to drink again.,So I just said let's go.,After the bar opened the card table.,These beasts can't stand it.,Start to go to each other.,I can't show weakness.,So I also followed them to the table next to the side with the wine.,At this time, embarrassing things came.,They all found the target and left me.,There's also a girl.,When I used to talk.,This girl didn't mean anything about me.,In the end, I could only drink alone.,As a result, after returning to the dormitory, My roommate told me that the girl disliked me for being fat, and I felt really aggrieved at the time.

I know I'm not pretty, but I'm certainly not ugly, I can see it anyway, but I'm relatively fat, although I'm not fat on my face, but my figure is really not good.

Before I came to school, I had a good chat with my classmates in the group.,Because no one has seen anyone.,So maybe you're full of curiosity about each other.,And because I'm not familiar with each other, I'm polite.,I think my classmates are so good.,How polite.,It should be the type that can get along very well.。

As a result, when it was time for the start of school, I happily carried a big schoolbag and went, I was very happy before I went, and I was very disappointed after I went. At that time, there were few people there to sign up, but the seniors were there, and then they went over to deliver the materials, originally saying that someone led us to the dormitory to get the key. At that time, the person in charge asked a few seniors to help a girl behind me carry her luggage, and the girl looked average, but she wore very delicate makeup.

Then my luggage was taken by myself, and no one said to help me, and then I mentioned that the steps did not go up when I mentioned the door, so I asked a senior to help, and the senior mentioned it and ignored me, what can I do, of course, I am doing it myself.

Anyway, I feel that many things can't prevail without others being good-looking, even if you do a thing better than others, the final credit will not fall on your head, so there is no way for people to understand the standard of judging a person's ability in this society.

When I was in high school, the school held an essay contest, and at that time, part of the assessment of the competition was online voting, and the online voting results accounted for 70% of the final score, and the number of votes I got was the first place, and after the comprehensive expert rating, I felt that I won this competition, but the last link was a live Q&A, and it was not me who won, it was another beautiful girl. I thought it was unfair and went to the person in charge, but the person in charge said that the girl's image was more suitable for receiving the award.

I don't know exactly what the image they are talking about, but it seems that many good-looking people have the upper hand, and the rest of us who Nuwa threw out of mud have suffered a lot of grievances there. Although many people think that good looks do not mean high ability, sometimes this society is so unreasonable, and many people think it is unreasonable, but there are always people who say that appearance is justice.

Then again, appearance doesn't mean everything, because girls will have someone who is old and yellow one day, and we don't have much money or time to maintain how young we can maintain, except for the natural white skin and beauty, so, connotation! Connotation!! It's very important, get along for a long time, a person's innate temperament and conversation determine the degree of affection for her, boys, too, haha, Mr. Li also attracted me because of this, and the more I get along, the more I feel that life is sweet, and I love each other very well

I often complain to my sister Xinxin about my husband's various wrongs, and every time she can say words of forgiveness to me, and her way can make me smile and accept it every time. She said, "Okay, who made your husband look better than you?!" ”

Because I am not good-looking, it has become the most effective way for my girlfriend to comfort me, which shows that my appearance is really problematic.

Answer: I studied teacher training in college, and I was looking for a job after graduation, because I had no experience, so I changed the direction of looking for a job and applied for some teaching assistant jobs, I plan to start as an assistant, and I can also be regarded as a springboard to become a teacher in the future.

Finally, one day I received an interview invitation from a small cultural school. I showed up for my appointment on time, and the interviewer I interviewed before me that day was a classmate in my class who didn't get as good as me. I secretly speculated in my heart that I had enough chance to stay and work here, because the threshold for teaching assistants was really low, and the student who didn't get the grades as good as me passed the interview without any problems.

But what made me feel aggrieved was that the front desk staff saw me and did not arrange an interview, but only symbolically threw me an exam paper, perfunctorily saying that they could reply to me after answering the paper. After completing that exam paper, all my "interviews" for the day were over. And my classmate, whose grades were not as good as mine, could go straight to the interview without any exams like everyone else.

Because of the appearance problem, I was treated differently like this, because of the appearance problem, I lost many job opportunities...

And because I'm not good-looking, from junior high school to high school, I have been surrounded by boys' disdain and ridicule. I don't like going to school, not just because of the heavy workload and my own stupidity, but because of the voices around me that make me feel more and more depressed and depressed.

University, I applied for a normal college in my city, because there are few male students in the normal college, and I thought that maybe there would be less criticism around me. College was a good time, except for my roommates, who all had followers around me, and I was still alone. No way, because of the problem of appearance, no one wants to understand the beauty inside me.

After graduating from college, my family arranged a number of blind dates, but they all died without a problem, either people don't look down on my appearance, or we don't like each other!

My parents don't know about my grievances mentioned above, my relatives and friends don't know, and no one knows ......I'm the only one who faced these grievances when I was a little girl, and I felt sorry for myself in the lonely nights ...... lonely nights

Now, the problem of appearance is still a problem, but it no longer bothers me. Thank you to my husband for holding my hand and warming the weakest part of my heart......