Tell me, what did you get married for?

Life always needs a partner, I got married because of love, we met on a blind date, love at first sight, soon entered into love, and then entered marriage, we worked together, now the economic conditions are good, husband and wife love as before, we are both husband and wife, and lovers, or a good match in life, but also good friends. I am very satisfied with my marriage.

Maybe fate has arrived, and I haven't thought about getting married for any reason. I didn't understand it when I was young, but fortunately he was very good to me. Even if I have children, they are always the same to me. I didn't marry love, but I married the right person.

There are not so many reasons, just like each other and attract each other, I love her very much, and I feel uncomfortable leaving her for a moment, so I want to marry her and not separate! ‍‍

Because of the Internet, I have been dating online for two years, I have been playing for two years, and I have been married for three years, I feel good, love me, care about me, and I have become a mature and stable good man. ‍

Love and reality are there, I am also interested in my husband, plus we have reached the age of marriage, and now we have been married for five years, and we are living happily.

At that time, it was because I was young, and I didn't think about getting married so much. Actually, I want to play for a few years. But my girlfriend is bent on getting married, and girls are afraid that they will not be able to marry when they are older.

I was grinding hard every day, and I had no choice, so I got married after her. From preparation to before and after marriage, it was only ten days. It's too much of a rush to think about it now.

Ay! ‍‍

Not because of anything, I met in 1993, and after more than two years, both parties wanted to get married and stay together, and the conditions were suitable, and the time and place were favorable, so they got married. At present, my son is about to go to graduate school, and he has no plans to divorce for the time being. ‍‍

Because I don't feel awkward with her, getting along with the right person is always comfortable and comfortable, starting with not feeling annoying, trapped in three views, and finally character, and then I feel that my life, with her is not in vain, this should be the reason for marrying her. ‍‍

I won't get married just because I'm married, it's not going to be happy, and it's going to make me unhappy, which isn't fair to both of you.

For me, marriage is a very sacred thing, and you can't marry for the sake of getting married, so that the cherry blossoms will seem meaningless.

It is a happy thing for two people to get married when they like each other, so that two people will have a common topic, understand each other, and thus feel the actual value of marriage. The people around them suddenly got married, this is their choice, they can't go with the flow, otherwise they will put themselves in the abyss of misfortune, and they will make themselves depressed.

Getting married because of marriage, so that two people will not be happy, and it will delay each other's time, such a marriage makes there is no hope. Marriage will only be happy if it is based on the same heart, and such two people will trust and respect each other, otherwise it will only be a kind of companionship in the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with someone you like, every day is torture, and it can also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.

Although marriage is a very beautiful thing, you will be happy when you are with the person you like, and you will get married for the sake of getting married, such a marriage exists in name only, and it will only make people not see the real appearance. Marriage should be responsible for each other, not as simple as child's play, only two people are built on love, so as to get a better ending, not two people choose to be together in order to get married. If you get married for the sake of getting married, you will lose each other's happiness and your longing for love, so you won't let people see happiness.

Marriage is when two people come together because of love, and Duan Shuduan is not for marriage and union, which will lead to a tragedy. In my opinion, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise it will make the marriage meaningless, and it will also make two people live in an unhappy atmosphere, and in the end they will not get the happiness they want.

First, because of love.

There are many reasons for marriage, the most common is because of love, now many young people will fall in love when they reach a certain age, and when the time is ripe, they will hold a marriage ceremony to announce that the two are officially husband and wife. But anyone who has experienced marriage knows that after a couple becomes husband and wife, the relationship between the two slowly begins to fade, and the conflict begins, so the newlyweds should be prepared to deal with married life.

2. Getting married because of old age.

When people reach a certain age, they will want a harmonious family, especially at the age of twenty-five, they will start to think about marriage, and by the age of thirty, no matter how enterprising, people will be anxious to find a life partner. However, everyone's concept of marriage is different, some people are early and some people are late, but most people will feel panic when they are old and their marriage has not yet been settled.

3. Marry for the sake of your children.

There are also some people who marry for children, but there are very few of them, because for people who have not yet started a family, children are generally not considered. If you marry someone who is only interested in children, then there may be a lot of conflict in your future life, because you always think that the other person only cares about children and ignores yourself. Therefore, couples should remember that you have an obligation to create a warm and comfortable home for your children, but it does not mean that you ignore the feelings of the two people.

Fourth, get married under pressure from others.

Many people get married because of the pressure of others, especially when they are older and have not yet married, relatives and friends around them will persuade them to feel stressed. Therefore, the phenomenon of blind date is more popular now.

I don't think I will choose to get married because the people around me are married, only if I find someone I like, only if I find someone who loves me and can give myself happiness in life, people will get married.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget what you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

Because of love, both parties have the will and responsibility to start a family, so that they can live the rest of their lives.

If I were given another chance, I would still choose to get married, but I would choose carefully, and at the same time be fully prepared for marriage.

I believe that the freedom to marry is a free choice for the individual. If you need to get married, I recommend.

Make sure you're really ready: Getting married is not an easy decision and there are many aspects that need to be taken into account, such as whether you and your partner have enough stable income, whether you share common life goals and values, and so on. There are also many challenges and difficulties in married life, which require adequate preparation and courage to deal with them.

Choose a partner who is right for you: It is very important to choose a partner that suits you, which needs to take into account the partner's personality, hobbies, family background, education level, etc. You need to understand and support each other to grow and progress together in your marriage.

Communication and understanding are crucial: Communication and understanding are very important in married life to help couples build a good relationship of mutual trust and avoid conflicts and quarrels. You need to learn to listen, express your thoughts and emotions, and respect each other's opinions and feelings.

Be honest about your problems: Married life will inevitably face various problems and challenges, and you need to be honest about them together and actively address them. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain a positive attitude and good psychological quality, and avoid emotional loss and impulsive behavior.

In conclusion, marriage is a complex issue that requires serious consideration and preparation.

In order to have a home of their own, in order to have someone to eat with, at that time, young people themselves will feel that it is time to put marriage on the agenda, otherwise when they are older, they will be a little late, and the people around them will also urge them to get married quickly, which is more important than many things.

In life, in their twenties, most people are really looking for the right person.

In people's impressions, there are not so many whys, and if they feel that others are like this, then they should be like this, and everyone is the same.

Many people are really like that, they enter into marriage in a daze, and before they know it, it is a lifetime.

In the past years, too many people have spent their lives like that, but at the moment, more and more people are beginning to be reluctant to be so confused anymore and begin to think about the meaning of marriage.

Why do you want to get married, seriously, it should be because two people love each other and really want to be with each other, but in real life, the answer to this question, many times, is never so simple.

legitimately, to address your own needs.

No matter how smart you are, no matter how smart you are, no matter how fresh and refined, no matter how you are free from the world, more or less, a person will have some physiological desires and physiological desires.

There is nothing bad to admit, this is a very normal thing, a normal need of human beings.

Indeed, even if you don't get married, in this era, it is not difficult to solve your own needs, and it can be relatively easy, but that kind of behavior is not very reliable after all, and it will be easy to have problems.

In addition, if you just have a weak desire, even if you don't spend time with anyone, it's not a big deal, and you can still restrain yourself.

However, for the vast majority of people, they still will, and they also need to conform to their own nature, and they will want to be with someone who is right, can be closer to each other, and can have legal intimate contact.

Falling in love with a person, marrying a person, this is always a good way, after marriage, everything can be taken for granted, or it can happen naturally, so that there will be no burden.

Two people who become husband and wife will have that kind of desire for each other, and also have that kind of obligation, and need to fulfill each other.

It is precisely because of such constraints that the relationship between men and women will not be so chaotic, and some order will be more secure.

Someone to accompany you and face the unknown together.

Life has never been so easy, and the future is always unknown, and there will be all kinds of ups and downs.

In the past few decades, the more you arrive, the more a person will often feel lonely, the more he will want a stability, and the more he will yearn for someone who can bear it with him.

A person's power, after all, is limited, just by himself, many people can easily feel helpless.

And if there is such a person at any time, the other party will always be there, will always stand behind him, always be by his side, and wait for him to go home at any time, and work hard with him, many people will really feel more relaxed.