How did love begin to meet? How should we understand love correctly?

Love depends on fate, fate has not arrived, no matter how anxious you are to talk about it, as soon as fate arrives, you can start a love journey immediately. As for how they started to meet, fate came, and they met.

Love, in fact, did not come deliberately, it came suddenly, no matter what, you may forget how it started, or even don't know how to start, but once it starts, it may be a glance at each other, and the so-called love begins, in fact, love doesn't need to chase so deeply, as long as you are in it, enjoy the fun brought by love, isn't it good?

Destiny. When you get close to him, you will feel that there is a magnetic field that attracts each other and is irresistible. Very happy.

Really loved, cherished.

Hey, hey

We met on February 2, 2006 at the dating center At that time, my QQ never added strangers One of my colleagues wanted to add me I set him up and approached my life at that time It's been three years now, love is only in you Inadvertently flow into every vein of your body Make you the happiest little woman in the world.

Believe that fate is destined to fall in love with him.

Love depends on fate, and sometimes by chance, you will meet the person you love the most.

Confused, hehe, I don't know how it started, and when I asked him later, he said he didn't know either.

Actually, that's it, it's time to start.

Fate started naturally, but no fate was so natural to separate, hehe!

Start with the hazy and end with the pathos.

It's like this. Begin to recognize.

Love, do you know what love is?

One. The one-sidedness of the love past:

Don't think about it so much, as long as the two people are together, but forget that if you want to be together for a long time, you have to face all kinds of things, not as long as the two of you have love.

In other aspects, we must also learn to communicate more, family, future work place, these must also be involved, if you don't think about it, there will always be a day when we have to face, we still have to experience. So think about it in advance.

Two. Idealized love:

is full of romance, thinking that the process of falling in love is romantic, but you must also know that two people have been together for a long time, and they will slowly become familiar with each other, don't fantasize too beautifully, just like the movie Xiaobuchen staged, so beautiful, so romantic. It's all about going back to real life.

Three. Utilitarianization of love:

In love, I always want to give so much, I also want to get so much, linked to money, although these words are too absolute, but feelings are the same, we love someone for no reason, voluntarily pay for him, not to pay is to get something, we are willing to pay, so don't always think about so much, love one, don't always want to get, only if you pay, there will be disadvantages.

Four. The moralization of love declines:

With China's reform and opening up, more and more young people are also following a trend, a thought, about the relationship between the sexes in love is becoming more and more casual, the result is that more and more adults are not used to the avant-garde ideas of young people. We, as young people, also need to know what we should and shouldn't do.

The formation of a correct view of love is crucial. Young people should strive to strengthen their self-cultivation and cultivate a sound personality, and all walks of life should actively help college students form a correct view of love.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true.

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future; It has become an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even a slave to money. Love at this time has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and worldly.

Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love unbridledly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers. When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world.

So when you have a good love, cherish it. To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love.

If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial

Bury that love deep in your heart, no matter what the perfect reason, as long as it is a breakup, it is an excuse, and if you break up, everything will not be perfect, the end of a relationship, no matter how good the process is, if the result is not good, it will be heart-wrenching. Personality incompatibility leads to lovers breaking up, and although it is not a perfect reason, it is a basic reason. If two people have their own opinions and do not communicate with each other, it will inevitably lead to contradictions over time, accumulate over time, hurt each other, and finally break up.

That's why people use personality incompatibility as a reason to break up. There are many reasons for breaking up, break up if you don't love it, some use it is really perfect, but no matter what the reason, you have to give each other a smile when you break up, and you have to break up peacefully, you must have a gentlemanly demeanor, don't be stubborn with each other, it is not suitable to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, it is good to be an ordinary friend, turn your head and look for the next happiness. The greatest happiness in life is that the people you care about also care about yourself.

Grow old slowly, right or wrong, rain or love. Don't get angry, don't quarrel, tolerate each other, take care of each other and cherish each other, know how to understand, trust, respect and tolerate, and forbear. Whether it is a friend or a lover, whether it is friendship or love, if one does not cherish it, the other will turn around, and if one does not care, the other will be cold.

Turned away, after the chill, no matter how affectionate the confession is, it can't be warm, and no matter how touching the behavior is, it can't be recalled...

Love is an art, and Fromm once pointed out in his book The Art of Love: "Love is not an emotion that anyone can easily indulge in. Regardless of the level of maturity he or she has reached, the pursuit of love is futile if he or she does not actively develop his or her whole personality and develop the willpower to be creative.

If a person does not have the ability to love those around him, without humanity, perseverance, loyalty, and the ability to touch the bush, then he cannot attain love. "The most difficult thing about learning the art of love is that we always want to get love and how to ask for it, rather than thinking more about how we love others and whether we have the ability to love others. This can be seen as a form of emotional egoism or selfishness.

As long as there is an implicit root of this egoism in love, it can lead to conflict between the two parties. Because of being overly concerned about oneself and despising the other person, thinking that the other person's existence is just to bring happiness to oneself, over time, the other party will be disappointed and become dissatisfied. In a commodity society, the propensity for emotional consumption is more likely to damage the essence of love.

If we compare a happy marriage to a work of art, then love is a process of perseverance in the creation of art. It requires a high degree of creativity and exquisite artistic skill, and it requires both loving parties to go to great lengths to carefully craft. This process is far more difficult than enjoying and "consuming" the actual results.

From a psychological point of view, the generation and development of love is a natural need and desire of human beings, and everyone has the right to pursue love and find happiness.

For young people, they may be under more pressure and constraints in society, family, culture, etc., so Qi Han may have more depression and constraints in the face of love. In addition, some young people may be more focused on their career development and personal growth, and the pursuit of love is not very strong. As a result, they may choose to fall in love in a roundabout way, building a relationship by gradually getting to know and getting along, so that they can face love better.

However, no matter which choice you choose, you should focus on your own feelings and needs, and you should not force yourself or suppress your emotions. At the same time, we should also respect everyone's choices, and should not interfere or judge the choices of others excessively.

In love, we should not be too strong, we must understand each other, consider the problem from each other's point of view, tolerate each other, two people must help each other, move forward with each other, only better and better love, and can be more long-lasting, two people can also communicate more, solve problems in a timely manner, do not cold war, encounter some things, must be discussed immediately, do not make their own decisions, in some special festivals to give gifts, life should also have a sense of ceremony. The other party's dreams must be supported, and we must believe in each other unconditionally and trust each other.

Love is actually very wonderful, obviously two people who have nothing to do with each other, just because of their personalities and hobbies, but because of continuous understanding, two people have also put a lot of effort into this relationship, both of them can develop in one direction, and finally they will get married.

I think love is to find a person who can match his soul, not because of some small things and worry about himself, two people should communicate well if they have problems, don't speak ill of each other, and don't use the cold war to solve it, in love is not only sweet, but also to face a more realistic life.

1.Love don't give too much on the one hand, 2Love that won't be asked for can't go far, 3Two-way love is worth running to, 4In the process of getting along, everyone should have their own solutions, 5Don't have a long cold war and so on.

In love, to create a better life through joint efforts, he has to pay for himself, and sometimes in the face of the care of others, we have to take the initiative to give back.

1.How strong feelings you can have when you are in love: In love, you will find how strong your feelings can be, a look, a **, or even a sentence can make you active again, this feeling of love is unprecedented.

2.How to make love last: After falling in love, I realized that love needs to have enough mascot patience and persistence, and a relationship can last, as long as both parties can put in enough effort, such as listening to each other, letting each other know each other better, constantly replenishing each other's positive energy, and enjoying life together.

3.Respect in the relationship: After falling in love, you will find that lovers need to be respectful of each other's ideas, opinions, and choices, and both parties should stay honest, respect each other, and support each other to avoid some quarrels and contradictions.

4.Make both parties satisfied: After falling in love, you know that in order to make both parties satisfied, you need to spend enough thought and effort, both parties should communicate more, do more small things to make each other happy, and strive to make the relationship between both parties stronger, so that both parties can feel each other's love and love.

Of course, when you fall in love, that is, the happiest and gentle thing, the other party will tolerate you, understand you, and cherish you even more.

It is true that you can only know if you have experienced it.

Falling in love with Nashan is indeed like this for a person, only after falling in love can you know what true love is, in fact, the thoughts in the heart of each person are not the same. Love should also be found in concepts.

Feelings, this kind of thing, can only be experienced in one's own heart, and can one feel whether selling wax can bring you the life you want in this situation?

Only through love do you know whether love is bitter or sweet.

This realization is sweet for you.