After a year with her girlfriend, she was going to break up

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be sad, there will always be some setbacks in life. I know that your relationship was quite good before, but now something has changed, and she has repeatedly proposed to you to break up, and there must be her struggles. You should take the initiative to find her, in a quiet place, calm down and talk, listen to her attentively, find the main reason, and then analyze whether there is a solution to the problem, if it really doesn't work, then learn to give up.

    It must be painful for you to give up this relationship, but it is not a pain in vain, there are deep reasons. Some things can't be controlled by yourself, find the reason, just do your best, I believe she has always loved you deeply, but there are factors that can't be controlled. So please face the facts, there will be more beautiful sweetness for you to create.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

    In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

    How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

    Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Break up, I have the same experience as you, I am an undergraduate student in a key university, he is an auto mechanic, I love him very much, he wants to break up every day, he said he can't give me happiness, I have never asked him for anything, we have been together for three years, a lot of things have happened in three years, he once broke my hand, I forgave him, in three years, he broke up many times, I kept him, but now he has found another one, I have to quit, really, there is no need to force, The power of reality made me give up, and I was separated from him for 2 months, crying every day, but what is the use of this, I will still remember his goodness, but I can only let go. There is no need to delay any longer, it will only hurt both sides.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to encourage her.

    Show her how much you love her.

    Be sure to stay with her.

    No matter who stops you, you can't waver in your determination.

    Unless she tells you she doesn't love you.

    Otherwise, you must be with her.

    Have a good talk to her.

    To understand her and comfort her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The most important thing is to figure out why she is breaking up. It's not difficult to prescribe the right medicine. Hope you can solve this problem and get happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe her friends were right.

    In 10 years you will agree with me, whether you continue it or not.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You ignore her, and your feelings fade. Or like someone else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's really not suitable! Let it go!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is simple, four words "Stay the course."

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Really love her words.

    hard, I'm going to be with her even if I die.

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