Why doesn t Jia Baoyu like Xue Baochai?

Because Xue Baochai is a woman in ancient times, she is a beautiful girl, there are all kinds of rules and regulations that bind her, Jia Baoyu doesn't like to get along with her, Jia Baoyu yearns for freedom, and she doesn't like the imperial examination, and Xue Baochai is a woman raised in a big family to assist her husband in the imperial examination, the two of them have different personalities and different interests, and Jia Baoyu naturally doesn't like Xue Baochai.

Because Jia Baoyu only has Lin Daiyu in her heart. Xue Baochai is a person, sleek and cautious everywhere. Like a big sister next door, and like her own mother, is it easy to give birth to a relationship between men and women for such a woman?

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are two little lovers who have no guesses, and they have the same heart. Lin Daiyu's various little temperaments and various works, Jia Baoyu accepted them all, and he never got tired of it.

To have a girlfriend is to make such a fun relationship, you can act recklessly in the world of two people, but you are willing to do it.

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu belong to the feelings cultivated by childhood sweethearts, both of them have each other in their hearts, Jia Baoyu is not half-hearted like other gentlemen, he is more dedicated and serious about his feelings, he is Lin Daiyu in his heart, and he and Sister Lin have a common hobby, and they both desire freedom in their hearts. And Xue Baochai is a typical lady of everyone, the candidate for a good daughter-in-law in the eyes of the elders, Jia Baoyu doesn't like it, Xue Baochai is too worldly, living in the rules and regulations of everyone's ladies, unlike Lin Daiyu, and can't give Jia Baoyu the love she wants!

Jia Baoyu II Ancestor, said that people are born with a golden key, and he was really born with jade. All the benefits we all saw about Xue Baochai were not attractive to Jia Baoyu. However, the values of the two people are different, maybe it is true that they will go together, Xue Baochai's career economy is 10,000 troubles for Baoyu, if a girl speaks to make you uncomfortable, and there are no other tangible benefits for you, simply relying on beauty, there is no shortage of beauty around Jia Baoyu, how can you like it.

Therefore, Bao Dai is actually a combination of the three views, a spiritual resonance, as the two of them said themselves, they are confidants. In fact, Baoyu also clearly said in the book that if Sister Lin said those bastard words, she would also be separated from her.

We always analyze from our own point of view, what Baochai's wealth, Baochai's housekeeper's ability, and even Baochai's physical health and easy to give birth to dolls can all be figured out, in fact, for Jia Baoyu, it is not a matter. For Xu Zhimo or Baoyu at that time, he hadn't gone to the reality of society to work hard, and he hadn't seen how the evil dragon in society was hideous and terrifying, and reading the West Chamber together was the first thing to be physically and mentally happy.

The Triple Limitations of Humanity:

1.Limitations of time: summer insects cannot speak of ice;

2.Limitations of space: well frogs cannot speak of the sea;

3.Cognitive limitations: Blind people can't speak.

If you are a farmer or a coal digger, and marry someone like Lin Daiyu, you must not be killed, you don't do anything every day, you also need a cook and servant, the child is hungry and crying, and your wife wants you to feed or wipe your tears, how can you live this life. However, Jia Baoyu needs to consider whether the food ** will come to the money**, he doesn't need it, he doesn't know how much and important a piece of silver is, and he gives people a large piece of it casually.

In the work, the author hinted many times that although Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's personalities are different, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's values are exceptionally consistent! Especially when it comes to being an official and a politician, Jia Baoyu is very disgusted! And Lin Daiyu was also very disgusted, feeling that it didn't matter if she was an official.

She doesn't think it's best to gain fame in the current society and go home to glorify her ancestors. This point won Jia Baoyu's heart, Jia Baoyu yearns for an unrestrained, free and romantic life, and Lin Daiyu also likes this kind of life.

I think there are several reasons, first, Xue Baochuan is closer to the character of a housewife, but Jia Baoyu prefers the playful character of Lin Dai and Yulin's sister, which is also the reason why Jia Baoyu failed to choose Xue Baochai, plus Sister Lin is more beautiful, I think it is also one of them.

Because Xue Baochai always likes to preach Jia Baoyu, Jia Baoyu likes gentle and obedient women who worship him, and doesn't like people who always point fingers at him and restrain him, but Lin Daiyu is different, she is a guest housekeeper, rarely says anything about Jia Baoyu, and always accompanies him to do whatever Jia Baoyu likes.

I think it's because Xue Baochai is too smart, but her cleverness refers to the cleverness of fighting wits and courage with other women in the house, that is to say, the cleverness of women, Jia Baoyu grew up surrounded by women since she was a child. He has seen too many women like Xue Baochai, so he can't like Xue Baochai.

Because he only has his sister Lin in his heart. You know, when a person likes another person, his heart can't tolerate any outsider. And especially, a son-in-law like Jia Baoyu. His pickiness about love is even more outrageous.

Because there is no place for Xue Baochai in Baoyu's heart on the outside, there is only Sister Lin in Jia Baoyu's heart, and they are already in love with each other in this life. So love is irreplaceable by anyone.

Because Xue Baochai can't play with him, he doesn't play with him.

I don't like her either, it's terrible to have such a scheming woman around.

Because people don't like her.

It's not that you don't like Baochai, right? It's just that there's no love. Like is not the same as love.

Because Cao Xueqin didn't let him like it.

Comparison of Bao Dai's first meeting and Yu Hai's first acquaintance.

The dialogue between Baoyu and Daiyu when they first met in "Dream of Red Mansions" has always been regarded as a classic, when Lin Daiyu saw Baoyu, Baoyu had just come back from outside, and Jia's mother asked him to meet his mother first, Lin Daiyu felt that Baoyu had a sense of déjà vu at that time, and when Baoyu came back again, she had already changed her clothes, and after the two of them saluted, Baoyu said, I have seen this sister. Jia Mu said, and said nonsense, how could you have seen this sister? But Baoyu said that even if he didn't believe in it, it would be better to see it as a reunion after a long absence.

Jia Baoyu was also very surprised when he saw Xue Baochai for the first time, he was standing with Lin Daiyu but walked straight over, Lin Daiyu was already a little unhappy when he saw him, and walked to Jia Baoyu's side, but Jia Baoyu did not neglect Lin Daiyu because of Xue Baochai's arrival, he noticed Lin Daiyu's displeasure, so he grabbed Lin Daiyu's hand and walked to Baochai together. It can be seen that in Baoyu's heart, although Baochai is good, Zhengkai is still a little different from his sister Lin, and in his heart, Lin Daiyu is the person who cares the most.