I work in a hotel and have a crush on a guy who is more than 20 years younger than me.

People are 20 years younger than you, and there is no hope

An aunt who is at least 40 years old, don't be so spring-hearted, you are no longer a girl, at least at the mother level, think about your children, think about your husband, maybe your children will be older than the guy, this is not what you should do, cherish the family.

You're just a crush. Crushes are nothing, but you can't translate them into action. If you tell him, you may need to encounter obstacles and face the reality that will be difficult.

At your age, you have long passed the fierce love or the love between you and your husband can stand the test. Marriage is marriage, love is love, don't mix it up, love can be very simple, but the pressure from marriage, especially the pressure between two families, is particularly great. So it's still not recommended that you develop this kind of love with a particularly large age gap.

Crush on a 20-year-old guy, that's because you like him, you can love him as your own brother and help him. You should find another person you like, someone who is about the same age can talk together, understand each other, help each other, and create a happy life together.

In this way, you have to work hard to restrain yourself, knowing that there is no result of a relationship, so there is no need to pay. Because your age difference is too great, nothing good will come of it.

Quickly dispel this thought, this thought will not bear fruit, even if this guy is interested in you, you must avoid it, because it will definitely be you who will be hurt in the future ......

That kid shouldn't have a wife yet, right??

If you are not carried away by love, it is best to decline politely, after all, the age difference is too great, and the future is not very certain.

There is too much age difference between you, this kind of love is not logical, it is better not to try. When he is in the prime of life, you have reached menopause, and your love life will not be smooth sailing, so think twice.

Are you sure that guy really loves you? This should be a person with a mother-lover complex, if you don't like it, you will decisively refuse, this kind of relationship, generally no good results.

Age is not a distance, if you like him, accept it boldly.

Enough money, enough self-confidence to think about it!

Enough money, with a young person, in case others misunderstand that it is a sister, an aunt or something, **maintenance and beauty** what is essential! Dress up or something-

Alas—tired! You have to have a strong heart and strong self-confidence to consider giving it a try!

You'll want to find out if he's really in love with you!

That's your blessing! Isn't it bad to be so small? You must be rich!

Are you in your twenties??

How old is he now???

More than twenty years younger than you, so how old are you?

It depends on what the lad means to you.

Liking is a matter of two people, and others will not and have no right to interfere.

Be brave enough to face your emotions and don't look backwards.

If you do it, you will have a result, and if you don't do it, you will always guess the result, and you will never do it, because the result is a variable. The correct attitude towards feelings is to do, to face problems, to solve problems; Instead, don't do it, guess the problem, guess the solution to the problem.

How old are you and how old is he? Does he like you?

Ah uncle, a handsome guy confessed to you? Haha

I'm in my 20s myself, so it's easy to have a crush on my uncle. Since you don't have similar thoughts about him, you might as well keep your distance. He's supposed to be a nice guy, but be careful that you don't have to worry about your old age. Haha

You might as well think about why he likes you, looks, temperament, or money.

You can talk, but you can't get married.

If you don't want to be passed, go for it! It takes courage and brains to love someone, find an opportunity to confess at a certain time, and usually get closer to her, they chat and speculate does not necessarily mean that they like each other, you decisively go up and give it a try, see the result, 3 chances will not work on it!

I haven't read all of your narrative.

A kind reminder for you.

The people in the hotel are coming from all over the world.

No matter how much you like this waiter, it's best not to have real feelings!

Because you don't know the other person, her family situation, and her identity!

It's easy to be deceived by blindly liking someone!

And it's likely that she's out of town!

You can see between the lines that your thoughts about love are still very simple!

Love is wonderful, but it's also complicated!

A lot of things aren't as simple as you think!

The watchtower should use more brains and observe more about this matter! You don't know what kind of person the other person is! After all, the relationship is two-sided!

Hope you can three or four!

Finally, I wish you happiness!!

Confess to her, don't be afraid. It doesn't matter if I reject you. As long as it's sincere, people will understand sooner or later.

It depends on who will be a person and do things, people have given drinks for the first time, and you haven't once, and people say don't be polite to you, observe more, a little bit to see when she will be thirsty, seize the opportunity, as for who she likes now, you don't want to draw conclusions, such as inviting her to dinner, buying a gift for her, it's Valentine's Day in China, you use your own brain, give her a mobile phone to pay a ** fee, etc., good luck,

You also said that the man is more active, and it is easier to mingle with the woman, and of course it is more popular.

If you like it, just say it directly, and she can feel it, and say it directly, how good it is, or it will be uncomfortable.

Today is Tanabata If you don't confess, you won't have a chance If you want to move her, just say how you feel about him Even if you fail, you have to try to have more opportunities If you like it, you have to chase bravely You don't accept you for the first time At least leave an impression on you You care about him Remember Chasing her and pestering him every day are two concepts To chase but not to pester him Pestering him will only give him a feeling of boredom Subtly Change your relationship with him Don't seek progress Start with simplicity Grasp his heart Start with the best friend Confess your love for him Even if you don't accept it It will also leave an impression on you The next step is a subtle change of status Only when you complete that step At least you become friends After the failure of the confession, that is what many people will think The rest is just friendship But you have a chance to make him like you Wait until the time is right Confess again Congratulations to the landlord on good luck.

Are you suitable? I mean family background, life experience, etc. If it's not suitable, forget it, apparently the man did it first.

Too lazy for you! Chase that girl!! Get her attention and find a way to impress her!!

Congratulations, you're in love, and it's unrequited!! Wow, guys, be a bubble gum and stick her! Try all the ways, don't leave yourself a way back!!

Prove that you will give her happiness!!

If you like it, chase her, don't wait until she becomes someone else's girlfriend to regret it, there is no regret in this world.

Brother: Let's find a chance to confess.

Pull him into a corner and say, "I like you, you can do it yourself."

Tell her, "I'm going to chase you from now on until I give up on you, or you give up on me, or you want to be with me." ”

Then give her the same thing (a candy is all ready) at a regular time every day, and leave after delivery, and don't talk too much.

There are two possibilities, one is that she is more familiar with the man, like a buddy. One is that she currently has a crush on the man. But in fact, you don't have to care too much about what the man is doing with her, just do your own thing, since she is a very innocent girl, you might as well not beat around the bush, tell her frankly what you think, and then get along with her openly, show your charm, and use all the methods you can think of to be good to her.

The rest is up to you.

Find an opportunity to get on her, some technology, and some strategy. Guaranteed obedience My girlfriend was done like this by me at school. After success, take your time, and you won't be afraid of others stealing your food.

Whatever he likes, he buys it for her.

Maybe she still finds you good, if you really like her, please continue to be nice to her. See if your opponent really likes her, know yourself and your opponent.

Faith, you have to keep your faith, you can't do anything without faith.

Go your own way and let others do the talking!

Do you wonder if you have an uncle who is 20 years older than you who wants to marry you? It won't be because they're not impressful enough to impress you. So since you have a certain idea, then there is nothing you like in this part of the guys, if there is, you should be bold to love, age is really not so important, the key is whether all aspects meet your requirements.

Do you wonder if you have an uncle who is 20 years older than you who wants to marry you? It won't be because they're not impressful enough to impress you. So since you have a certain idea, then there is nothing you like in this part of the guys, if there is, you should be bold to love, age is really not so important, the key is whether all aspects meet your requirements.

It's your attraction.

Girls have high emotional intelligence, good skills, and men can't run.

It may be that your popularity is good and your image is more outstanding.

Because I don't know much about your specific situation.

It can only be generalized.

If you do targeted exercises.

Then make the man once on good terms with you.

I will undoubtedly never be willing to leave you again.

You can chat privately to avoid onlookers.

You're 30 years old, and there are still a lot of guys in their 20s who like you and are willing to marry you, I think you should be in your 30s, very young and beautiful. A lot of the lads in the car are obsessed and don't care about your age.

Hehe, this proves that you are very attractive, and it is normal for many people to like it. For emotions, age is not a problem, don't resist when fate comes, just go with the flow!

Why are you 30 years old? There are also many 20-year-old young men who like you and want to marry you, maybe you are not so old and beautiful, and you have a good personality, so they will flock to you.

Although you are in your 30s, you are very beautiful and attractive, and some young men in their 20s with poor material conditions also like you and are willing to enter the palace of marriage with you, which is normal. In addition, now that there are more men and fewer women, some young men have no choice but to choose to eat.

You are thirty years old, but your countenance is twenty years old. And your character is a little woman, gentle and kind, without scheming. So the lads in their 20s will like you. Pursue you.