Only now did I realize that I had autism and that I am now 22 years old. I have been haunted by it f

I can understand your feelings.

I went to college in college, and I knew how to play games during my school days, World of Warcraft, and then I rarely communicated with my classmates, and the best ones were those classmates, and they also knew how to communicate with other people in the class, but I only knew that I was playing games, and I could also talk to them very well in the game, but as long as I left the game, I rarely participated in the evening party held in the class, and I only chatted with those few friends, but people couldn't always talk to me, so I talked very little, There was even a female classmate who said through her roommate that she wanted to be friends with me, but I didn't agree. After 3 years in a muddle, after graduation, I took a graduation certificate, I really don't know how to live, I found a job through my family's relationship, and I didn't know the name of a colleague in a company office for 3 months, I only knew the surname!! At that time, I thought I had autism, but later I became very lazy, and I didn't even have an appetite for food.

Now a year has passed, I can mix with my colleagues okay, and I can usually communicate fluently, I haven't seen any doctors, I just browsed some other people's new ones on the Internet, I summarized it. The first is to participate in a variety of activities. Usually the company will organize some dinners, I usually go every time, at the beginning I don't know people, people don't know me, but a few times to eat, a few drinks - you drink bars, I don't think there is a need to smoke, drinking needs to learn here is that you need to make a few good friends.

Usually go out to eat and drink some wine, in fact, festivals, anniversaries are all you can go out, every time you go out to eat, you will meet new friends, whether they say "wine and meat friends" or not. At least friends, aren't they? Second, it is to study, through learning to improve their self-cultivation, the scope of learning is very wide, I am now learning Korean, as well as banking, as well as accounting qualifications, I think I have a wide range of knowledge, when talking to others can have something to say, learn which Korean or something, I just want my brain to keep running, I don't want my head to rust, more than I won't say much, as long as I do these two things, I believe you will find other ways, after all, there are many teachers in life, the most important point, Don't think you have autism, that's the most important thing.

If you can't do that, all I can say is, no way.

It is recommended that you check your ears to see if they are a little deaf.

Maintain a good attitude, treat things calmly, pay more attention to rest in daily life, and communicate more with the outside world.

Socialize with people in your life, then go out and around more, and go to the park or playground on weekends.

Learn about your hobbies and interests and inspire you to have fun.

You can see a psychiatrist for advice.

There are introverts and extroverts.

If you're silent about everyone, there's something wrong with that.

But you can't let go of people you don't know.

You may be an introvert, but it's not a problem, and it's not autism that causes you pain The misconception that extroversion is good and introvert is bad.

That's your own problem, you have grown up now, every time you see relatives or friends, you should take the initiative to speak, and then, like your current friends and classmates, just say when you meet, everything is involved, then a few more times they will not miss you like this!

First of all, you need to communicate with the outside world, which is the most important thing. Start with communication, if you don't break this level, don't think about the rest.

Why should you care so much about what others think of you.

At present, autism cannot be completely classified in the field of medical research in the world, mainly because there is no comprehensive grasp of the pathological mechanism of autism.

The question raised by the subject, whether there is still a possibility of autism at the age of 20, regrettably, if you have been diagnosed with autism, it is unlikely to be completely good, but, the intervention is with the autistic person for a lifetime, no matter how old the person is, the intervention is to be done all the time, in addition to doing the intervention in a professional institution, the care of the family and the family are also very important.

Older autism, one of the problems faced is the problem of integration into society, but for some severe autistic patients, autism older care institutions may be a better destination, there are not many elderly autism care institutions in China, but there are also some pilot institutions in some places.

I hope mine can help you, if you need to continue to communicate, you can send me a private message.

It is unrealistic to return to being like a normal person, they can learn, learn slowly, but continue to teach them, you can improve their life skills, so that taking care of their families will not be too hard. We do family-style care in Guangzhou, the children are taller than me, continue to teach them, they can also learn some simple self-care skills and basic social rules, relatively not to do the best is much better, at least with them will not be too tired, and it will not affect other people.

20-year-old is basically no longer possible, I hope parents face it positively.

The early intervention of children with monolithic disease is a complex project, involving many fields such as: education, psychology, physiology, medicine, neuroscience and so on. Those who provide early intervention for children with autism include:

Doctors, psychology experts, special education teachers, preschool teachers, relevant teachers, parents, etc.

Sometimes it is not necessarily autism, and it needs to be diagnosed by a professional hospital, and then defined after being identified as autism. Even autism can be cured with early detection. It's good to have such determination, I believe that the child will get better, good luck!

To take the child to the park, amusement park to play, more contact with the environment with many people, my child was also autistic when he was a child, and then basically took the child out to play every day, more contact with people, plus we often talk to him, now the child is basically no problem, although the communication with classmates is still not as good as a normal child, but it is not much worse, and the study is also admitted to the top class.

Don't be in such a hurry!

Say it word by word, let him master it, and then say two words, three words, four words!

Normal children also say a word or two first, then phrases, and then sentences!

You're right. I also trust your own feelings. But it takes a lot of patience and effort on your part.

Don't hear about it, check it out for yourself.

Believe in the science, or look it up.

You're talking about the kid or.

Hello, you can consider depression or others, as for autism, the possibility is very low, autism generally does not post questions and answers on the Internet (laughs), autism, unable to actively communicate with people, and some have stereotypical behaviors and narrow interests, these should not be available, so you may have other mental illnesses, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.

Hope it helps.

I'm very similar to you, and I also doubt that I have autism.