How can I help my sister if she has autism?

Let's go to the Third Hospital of Zhongshan in Guangzhou to have Professor Zou for examination.

When encountering a child who lacks love, it is still based on care, supplemented by counseling.

First of all, let him feel that someone really cares about him, so that he can relax his guard when getting along with others, and gradually understand his inner world.

The second is to give him guidance on ordinary values when he encounters setbacks and problems, so as to ensure that no major psychological problems occur.

It is not recommended that he provide whatever material needs he lacks, so that the dependence formed is only based on material things, and cannot be thorough.

Some people are more withdrawn than being alone when they were growing up (by the way, only children, especially those who do not live in compounds and rural areas, grow up in a relatively closed environment, and are particularly prone to autistic personality and refuse to contact people). Encourage him to go out and make friends with normal playmates, i.e. those who can play but do not have work and interests.

For those who like to stay up late and have an inverted biological clock disorder, you can ask him to do some light physical entertainment activities when he is very tired. When he is exhausted, it is implied that he can only have better physical strength to play or do something else if he has a normal schedule. Slow correction.

After all, exhortation and admonition are something that many people are unwilling to accept, and things will be extremely opposed.

For personal logical thinking habits, this one is more troublesome. Because after gaining trust and mingling, a person will gradually confide in you, how he thinks and how to deal with things, which is difficult to do before getting familiar with and building trust.

So care is still the main way. Once a level of trust has been reached, guidance can be applied from the sharing of one's life experience. Talk to him about things and give some examples of how others are doing, so that he can think about the difference between himself and others, and learn slowly.

When a person's psychological problems are solved, natural physiological and material needs are not so urgently affecting him.

Categories: Annoyance >> Emotional Emotions.

Problem description: My brother went to college for a semester and took a leave of absence. I don't want to do anything at home, and I stay on the electricity all day.

I don't know what I did. When a classmate came, he always excused himself and said he wouldn't answer. At home.

I stayed for three months, rarely went out, and walked on the street with a dejected look, which was rare.

He looked up. I know that Brother Oak Dao has low self-esteem, he is a relatively thin person, and he has never worn ** short-sleeved clothes.

When we talk about beautiful women or handsome guys, he tries to avoid them. But he doesn't like to go out and exercise.

Since she was at home all day, my mother often quarreled with him about this and got angry. After a quarrel with him.

Always looking for me to lose my temper. I think my brother must have suffered from depression or social phobia, and I don't know who Changhong has in the road.

Help me come up with ideas, I really don't want to see my brother go on like this.

Analysis: It feels like it's because of the frustration in the real society.

So he threw his feelings into the online world.

In the online world, he can feel his self-esteem and confidence as a human being.

You should encourage him to go out and do more activities, talk to him more at home, let him speak his inner thoughts, and encourage him. In addition, allowing him to participate in more physical exercise can make people optimistic and cheerful, and gradually lead him back to the social environment.

Even if he resists the above, you must stick to it. Family members must not scold and give up on them.

However, in this case, it is best if you can take him to a psychiatrist. Because it takes a 1-to-1 conversation to see it. This is just your description.

If the doctor feels that it is necessary to take some medicines**, then cooperate with the medicine and talk to each other. Inside and out, she helped him recuperate.

I wish him a speedy recovery.

Hello, autism, emphasizing early detection, early intervention, and persistence.

2 6 years old is the best time for autism, and the earlier it is detected and the better, the better the effect. Because the younger the child, the faster the brain develops, and the stronger the plasticity of the brain, doing intervention training can achieve twice the result with half the effort.

If the best time is missed, the child's intelligence and behavior can only stay in early childhood, and even the basic self-care ability is not enough to take care of himself.

It is worth mentioning that for autistic children, each province and region has a certain amount of special funds for training subsidies. In Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, for children diagnosed with autism, a training subsidy of 2,800 yuan per month and a training subsidy of 300 yuan are given, which is equivalent to a monthly subsidy of 3,100 yuan, which can greatly alleviate the financial pressure of the family.

Take your child out to play often, give him confidence, encourage him, and maybe see a psychiatrist for advice.

I'm one of those people you described. In my own experience, the recovery of Internet addiction is a gradual process and cannot be achieved overnight.

1.Set a lofty goal. Specifically, it is to establish an object of life pursuit, which can make people think about how to achieve it, and distract from online games.

2.Supervise and remind him of his efforts in pursuit of his goals. This is based on the first point, because if the goal is not what he really wants, it is likely that he will give up on the goal he has set.

3.For his pursuit and efforts, there should be full support (including all kinds of material and spiritual support) and affirmation (affirmation of his phased achievements).

4.Don't brutally and completely restrict him from playing games and surfing the Internet, when he does the above points, he will consider where his time and energy should be focused, and at this time he should make appropriate guidance, and even come up with some energy-saving solutions to help him both strive and have time to play games.

5.When the fourth point is reached, in fact, the great work has been completed, with the in-depth pursuit of a goal, the time and energy are becoming more and more urgent, and the sense of accomplishment obtained by the pursuit is getting higher and higher, all kinds of factors will greatly reduce his time and energy to play games, and finally make a break with himself (give up online games). Even if I play occasionally, it's just ordinary relaxation, and it has nothing to do with Internet addiction.

ps: This method is very effective, but the goal setting is very important, to be sincerely pursued, not high or low, to play a significant role in the value of people, it is best to be able to integrate the goal of solving a series of problems in people's career and life. Hope it works for you.

Look for materials carefully, go to the hospital to see the specific condition, take him to go around more outside, and go to a place where there are few people at night, improve his self-confidence, and let him vent even if it is a voice.

Don't put yourself autistic, you must try to communicate with others, start with the closest people around you, know that you are a little autistic, not autistic, but you are escaping, you must be brave to face it, start from a little small change, find that you can change, come on!!

Do you consider yourself autistic? Autism, also known as childhood autism, begins before the age of 3.

Can you tell us about your autism?

Autism stems from a lack of confidence in oneself, disbelief, and uncertainty; Life is fair to everyone, to you and to me. So your symptoms are ** other people's perception of you, and you are particularly concerned about what others think of you, but many times these perceptions are negative, so it causes you to doubt yourself, and finally you lose confidence in yourself and refuse to communicate with others. So, affirm yourself first, just as I affirm you!

This symptom is a psychological symptom, in fact, it is just a moment of not figuring it out, but it is a conclusion given to you by others, you must believe in your own feelings, and do not easily choose to believe the conclusions given to you by others. So that autism does not exist.

Ask more people In the process of asking people, you have already cured your autism.

It is recommended to participate in more social activities and make friends with people with a sunny attitude. You don't have a goal? Is there something you didn't want to get and didn't get?

That's what you're aiming for! This needs to be done step by step, let yourself out of the room and go out into society first! Participate in more activities, such as classes, such as healthy groups!