After the breakup, she told me that she only recently realized that she didn t really love me!

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This woman is a good woman, mature, she understands what is important in life and what is to be faced, and you are just a poor loser who is still living in the past, not able to face his own life, and admit his failures.

    Life is not only the past things are important, since you have paid it, you should know, what is cherished, since it has passed, you must face it bravely, know that you are not afraid of losing, but you will not give up casually, if you only see the general words on this issue, then you will never grow up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This woman is good, or her IQ and EQ are much higher than yours, so you can admit it, buddy.

    You ask yourself, do you love her a lot, or do you have a hard face, and you are very stubborn in your heart, and you always want to get back.

    Brother: The best way to put it back is to forget.

    Don't let this wound widen and make it easy for your opponent to hit your sore spot.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men don't be too stupid, just change it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because you're used to her goodness, you don't feel anything at first when you lose it, and after a while, you will remember that she really left.

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