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Anonymous users2024-02-06Bother! It's just an excuse, a man is upset very simply: (1) he may feel that he has no skills and can't face the future (the kind that seems to be relatively homeless at home) (2) he is upset because he feels that no one in this world can help him when he needs help, (there is a barrier in his own psychology) no one can understand himself, and he can't find psychological support. (Especially when your favorite person doesn't understand) (3) I can't find a valid reason to break up with you.
Basically, it's impossible because he's going to be miserable)
And you tell him: if the two of you really love each other! If there is a problem that should be solved together, there is no need to bear it alone, even if I go out to ask for food in the future, I will talk to you, I think you basically have no problem!
If there is a similar problem in the future, you can say that it has nothing to do with you and me! Even if the world is over, you still have me, you are much happier than others!
Thank you! Wishing you happiness! It's important to communicate and understand the feelings of others! It's hard too! Hope it helps!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I have also encountered such a problem, many times we love someone, but we use the wrong method, it becomes a kind of torture, men and women are different, women suffer because they like others to protect and comfort, and men like to bear alone when they suffer. Men are very self-respecting, almost all men want to be heroes, want to save the world alone and save women from the weak, not to have women by their side. He felt that he had not made his family at peace, that he felt inferior and bored, and that your great protective consideration deepened his inferiority.
So you become his torture. At the moment he needs to be quiet, he needs to face the problem alone and solve it, you keep crying like this to make him sad, it will only make him feel more incompetent, you are forcing him to leave you, silly girl. Now you quietly go over and say to him - I was wrong, I am stupid sometimes, I should not have arbitrarily given you something you don't need.
But you have to believe that I will be smart. I'm willing to walk away for a few days and let you solve the problem alone, but if you come back to pick me up, I'll obediently stop making mistakes.
After you finish speaking, he will hold you and cry. But you have to do the same, don't bother him again until he comes to you, and don't send text messages. Believe me, he will come to you, you are so kind, he will not be willing to leave, you will be happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Do you know what kind of women men like? They like introverted and gentle women, obviously, you love him very much, you can give everything for him, but your attitude towards him may hurt him, you can rest assured, your husband will not give up on you, he must be a person who values affection, I wish you all the best in vain,
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Spend more time with him, and let him persuade his parents as well.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02When you are more and more annoyed with your boyfriend, you have to adjust your mentality.
In the process of falling in love, in addition to sweetness, there is bitterness, no relationship is smooth sailing, and no relationship is always sweet. When there is a problem in love, you should solve it in time, find the reason, and slowly solve these difficulties, so that you can have love every day.
Many people can't see anything bad about each other when they are in love, and they will feel that each other is very perfect, and you get along very sweetly.
But the love period is over.
When it comes to the cold period, you will find that your boyfriend has a lot of habits that you don't like, and he is unwilling to change these habits, and slowly you will hate him very much. Because of frequent contact with your boyfriend, some bad habits on your boyfriend will feel even worse after watching it for a long time, so you will dislike your boyfriend more and more.
When a problem is found, it should be raised and solved in a timely manner, and if one party is unwilling to solve it, then the problem will slowly become bigger.
Since the two are not suitable, don't force it, and learning to let go is also a kind of beauty. Love doesn't have to be having, giving up is another kind of broadness. She doesn't even know if she loves you or not, so why wait stupidly for a result she doesn't know? >>>More
Tell your boyfriend directly, he may not have noticed, or maybe he is not that considerate, but. >>>More
You are the standard positive and negative life, it's normal when the relationship is good, sparks when it's bad, you regret it means that you still love her, you are just impulsive when you quarrel, this kind of life is not uncommon in society, look at the words you write, there are no children yet, if you don't want to have a child, the birth of a child will reverse your life, of course, the most important thing now is that you are a man, and if you still love her, think about her good, go and admit your mistake with her, maybe she also longs for your arrival, She will let you ** step as soon as possible, think about it yourself, don't be too impulsive, the current social loss is always the person who rushes, and later regrets it is yourself, it is you who makes up for it, no one will help you, only yourself.
I don't know what kind of character you are, the gentle type of Ha, you can endure it for a while, when the woman is a "dog" barking, maybe it's a bit too much, I'm sorry >>>More
People in love should be considerate of each other, first of all, you say that he is more wooden, this may be his character, you have to take the initiative to resolve, not that the person who loves must be a man to take the initiative to date, you can also take the initiative, when men are also shy, people in love can be very expressive, very scared, nine points shy, eight points modest, seven points stupid, six points dull, five points rusty, four points enthusiastic, three points careless, two points ownerless, one point alone.