Very tangled questions Regarding the discussion, very tangled questions

If you decide whether you like each other just because of their looks, it will definitely not be a real liking. It's not to tell you a big truth, but real liking still needs spiritual and character appreciation.

So you ask that, and I can tell you with certainty that it's wise to divide it decisively, and don't waste time dragging your feet.

If you care about looks, then divide them, and if you don't care much about looks, as long as he is good to you, then don't divide them.

Looks don't matter

Thinking about it carefully, is he good to you?

Does it make you feel warm.

Rise? No matter what your decision is, I want you to be happy.

If you can't accept his looks, it means that you care a lot about whether you can take it out, and you specify the knot from your heart when you are with him, just be a netizen and can accept it, just say goodbye to him directly, or the accumulated infiltration does not like him, on the Internet, I advise you not to believe it, capable, good-looking men, rarely soak in the Internet every day, all go to run their own business, and work hard.

Let it be......But looking at your self-questioning and self-answering, you have already made a decision for yourself, and you just want to confirm your decision here, your sentence "It really doesn't look good." has let fate go ......Then divide it, everyone is still young, some have opportunities and some are good, right? I wish you the best of luck finding your Prince Charming soon!

Think about it carefully, and it depends on how much you love her, and you will ask this question to prove that you still care about her and her past. In addition, it depends on how you know these things, if your girlfriend confesses to telling you, it proves that she cares about you too, if you know it yourself through other means.

Hey, bravely said to him, long pain is better than short pain.

The chance of finding a handsome person in online dating is too small My friend has met more than 20 netizens in 1 month, and none of them have a good-looking ......

I advise you not to take it seriously.

First of all, such experiences are indeed rare. I'll help you with tutoring.

You see that their location is in a remote area, and the other party obviously has a numerical advantage, and evil deeds, and you don't understand the reason, in the case of considering the strength of the comparison and the environment at the time, you didn't make the right choice rashly, but you didn't follow the investigation or call the police, etc., which proves that you were very nervous at the time and completely forgot about these methods. Ordinary people who don't have the relevant knowledge and training will react like this, and you don't have to worry about it, whether you are worried or not, maybe someone passing by saved the woman. You don't have to dwell on it.

It is recommended that if you often pass by such areas, you should learn some relevant knowledge, and when you encounter similar incidents, you can help wittily instead of going to the fire.

Well, you'll be condemned. =

Let's say the pencil's ** is x. Then the ** outside of this is x+1, because it is a total of meta, so x+(x+1)=so x=

That's right, two add up to 1, and 1 plus equals.

There are two possibilities, one is that she may be a good woman, she was divorced before, and now she is very cautious about finding a man, she wants to test whether you are reliable by asking you for money, and the other is that this woman sees that you are interesting to him, so she wants to be cheap, and she wants to be cheap.

As a woman, if I really want to develop a relationship with a man, then I will definitely care about what this man thinks of me, I will definitely not ask him to hand over his monthly salary to me without seeing a few times, and I will not be so cheeky to ask him for money to buy furniture, buy electrical appliances, and not live together, I don't think there is any need for a man to pay for her to buy this and that, even if he wants to buy a gift, it should be a man's automatic consciousness.

I don't know your exact status, so it's hard to draw conclusions. I think you can tell her your thoughts directly, just say that you really think that it is not easy for her to take care of the child, really feel sorry for her, want to get along with her, ask her what she thinks of you, and also say that you think you have not reached the point where you have not yet reached the point where the money is used together, ask her how she thinks about the economic treatment of the restructured family, third, you should talk about your own views on money, and you can also explain to her that if you really live together in the future, how will you deal with it in Hanzhi economy. When you say it, you should seek truth from facts, say what you think, and honesty is the best thing to do.

To recognize a person, you must get along in life to know what kind of person she is, if it is just a text message chat, it is impossible to really know her.

Good luck.

Personally, I think that you are only in the dating stage now, and the woman will ask for it for various reasons, so you should carefully judge the hunger, love money or love your people, if you don't figure it out, there will be troubles in the future.

I think there are a few options!

1. Try to use the funding of yourself, your family and relatives and friends to see if you can make up the 200,000 yuan of housing payment. And then tell the truth. After all, your house is a place where you will live for more than ten years or even decades in the future, and if you don't like it, then isn't it equivalent to finding guilt for yourself!

2. Tell your husband what you think as it is, if it's just a side knock, it's best if he understands, and if you don't understand, misunderstandings are often not easy to solve. Tell him and listen to his thoughts before making plans.

3. If your mother-in-law is good to you in the future, you can talk to her tactfully, of course, provided that you can afford or have persuaded your husband to bear the extra 200,000 yuan with you.

4. Promise to decorate, but relatively slightly more extravagant luxury decoration, the dark hall is not not able to become a bright hall after decoration (visually), hehe, although this is just self-comfort, but at least the decoration of their own marriage is basically not running. Wait until you're married. In fact, there are many, many couples who have already come to the point where you are in this situation and eventually have to part ways because of a situation similar to yours.

5. After all, the money to buy a house is borne by both parties, and it is more or less a burden, and suddenly there is a burden of more than 200,000 yuan, which is not an easy thing for any ordinary person. If you don't like the community environment, you can go out as much as possible, such as participating in outdoor club activities. If the hall is dark, just turn on the background light in the living room for a long time.

In fact, no matter how you say this, you are already very happy, and you are better than people who buy their own houses and pay off their mortgages and car loans. Think about whether there is a position among your friends and classmates who have no place at all, whether it is a house, marriage, or a job, or a future, you will find that you are actually much luckier than them. It's not because they didn't work hard enough, and it's not that the results that led to the current results are all the things that were wrong in the past, but because there are really very few people who can have a happy life like yours.

That's a bit too much, I hope it can help you.

You have your ideal house (Quanming Hall, 200,000 more), if you buy it in one step, can you buy it first with the financial resources of yourself, your family and your relatives and friends?

What causes the bad air in the community? If there is a chemical plant in the vicinity, you must not buy a house in the community.

If your boyfriend's mother pays for the dark hall, if your boyfriend's family pays for the renovation fee, you will live in it, and don't ask for your name to be reflected on the real estate deed; After getting married, many people come, and if they are not satisfied with the dark hall, you just find this excuse to buy the house you like.

I'm going to give you a personal suggestion if you think it's feasible.

I agree with you, after all, the house is to live in for a lifetime, and it is you who is uncomfortable if you don't like it. Since your parents-in-law love you, they should be able to understand you and accept your ideas. Both of them are still young, they can make money to pay off the mortgage slowly, and it will not hurt the feelings of the elderly

You can try to talk to your mother-in-law about this. After all, it's the house you want to live in, and your mother-in-law will ask for your advice. Tell me what you think, saying that you and your husband work hard to make money to repay the loan, but they just want a comfortable house.

The premise of this method is to explain to your husband that there is nothing that cannot be said between husband and wife, and let him accept your ideas first, I believe it will not be very difficult.