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I want to see what misunderstandings are caused by the other person's mouth, and the attitude towards you!
1 Look at the attitudes and opinions of the people around you towards each other, if the other person is recognized as vicious by the neighborhood, etc., and the image of this person is very bad, you can ignore it! (For such a person, Xiucai can't explain why he meets Bing.) Arguing with it may be counterproductive.
Think about it, if you are walking on the road and suddenly a foul-smelling water spews out from the waterway, can you still go up and smell it? No, you're just going to get away. The dog bites you, can you bite back?
Nor will it be
In the same way, don't bother with him. In the eyes of the people around you, there are nine points to see that he is not qualified, and only one point is to see that he is entangled or scolding you! Instead, they think you're big-hearted
2 On the other hand, if this person has an impact on your reputation and has an impact on you, then you must clarify it!! You don't have to be angry, ask him what he has offended him, and say that you feel that there is nothing that you can't do with him. If someone provokes it, you can pull it out and confront it directly!
If it's your fault, explain and apologize at the time!!
to maintain their image in the surroundings and relationships
That's all I can think of, LZ can refer to it
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Get rid of the vicious person who misunderstands you about what you do, don't pay attention to him. Stay away from him.
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There are several ways to deal with the wrongs and misunderstandings of others:
1.Communicate openly: Try to communicate openly with the other person and explain your views and situations so that misunderstandings can be cleared up.
2.Face reality: In some cases, instead of trying to change other people's thoughts or behaviors, be aware that you can't control others and pay attention to your own emotions and emotional reactions in order to better face reality.
3.Stay calm: When others have wronged or misunderstood you, don't let your emotions get carried away and stay calm and rational to avoid causing more trouble.
In conclusion, dealing with other people's wrongs and misunderstandings requires patience and reason, and it is important to communicate openly with the other person and understand the other person's position as much as possible.
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Growing up, I experienced many wrongs and misunderstandings. However, one of the most memorable experiences for me was a wrongful case in elementary school.
That was when I was in fifth grade. One day after school, my friend and I came home together, and as we passed by a stationery store, he saw a large pen that he really wanted, so we decided to check it out. When my friend was looking at the pen in the store, I stood in front of the store and waited for him.
Suddenly, the shopkeeper walked up to me and accused me of stealing a pen from the store.
I had no idea what had happened to Niankong, but I realized that I needed to explain it as soon as possible. So, I told the shopkeeper that I wasn't stealing the pen, I was just waiting for my friend in front of the store. However, the shopkeeper did not believe my words at all, and he insisted that I was a thief.
Enraged by the owner's accusations, I began to defend myself. I told the owner my name and explained that I didn't steal the pen. However, the owner didn't believe me, and he told me that if I didn't admit that I stole the pen, he would call the police.
I was so scared that I didn't know what to do. At this time, my friend also found out about my situation, and he came over and asked me what was going on. I told him that the shopkeeper accused me of stealing the pen, and he was very angry and told the shopkeeper that I was his friend and that I would not do such a thing.
Even though my friend helped me, the owner still insisted that I was a thief. Eventually, my friend and I decided to leave the shop and no longer explain anything.
This experience of wrongdoing had a great impact on me. For the next few days, I kept wondering if I really stole the pen. I began to doubt myself and I felt very depressed and helpless. I felt like I couldn't prove my innocence and didn't know how to handle the situation.
Although this experience of wrongdoing had a great impact on me, it also made me cherish the support and trust of my friends even more. I know that no matter what happens, I will have friends to help me.
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It was when I was an elementary school student when a classmate stole another classmate's fountain pen in class. The teacher was in class and noticed that the pen was missing, so he asked anyone in the class if he had seen or taken the pen. The student who stole the pen sat closest to the stolen classmate, so he was suspected of being the person who stole the pen.
He didn't admit it at all, but he was forced to ask him very tightly by the teacher, and he finally had to bow his head and admit it. However, after he admitted it, he suddenly changed his story and said that it was actually me who took it, and wanted to shift the blame to me. I was shocked and had no idea why he was doing this.
The teacher was also angry, thinking that I was also an accomplice in helping the student who stole the pen to conceal the crime, so I was also suspected and criticized and punished. This incident was very unfair and unjust to me because I did not steal the pen, but I was misunderstood and suffered unwarranted blame and punishment. I was very sad and aggrieved, feeling helpless and powerless.
Although the matter was resolved later, this experience had a deep psychological impact on me, and I had a certain reservation about the trust and recognition of others. From this experience, I learned a truth: sometimes innocent people are wronged and misunderstood.
It's not something we can fully control, but we have a choice of how to deal with it. We need to remain calm and take appropriate actions to protect our rights and dignity. At the same time, we also need to give enough trust and respect to others, and not to easily doubt others or criticize them at will.
Only in this way can we build healthy, fair and trusting interpersonal relationships, and can we truly gain the recognition and support of others.
What parents need to do is to channel their children's inner world and help them correctly understand the correlation between the appreciation of others and their own efforts, whether they are working hard to gain the appreciation of others or working hard for a better self. Parents should not be on the side of their children, speculate and magnify their grievances with their children (know that the child's favorite thing to do is to magnify his own grievances, as if others are bullying him), and help the child realize that there is a real problem with their words and deeds.
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