If you like to play the Cold War, please come in

My record for the longest Cold War has stood for 11 years, and it will continue to ......o(∩_o

Because it is still ...... in the Cold Waris in progress

The Cold War ......It doesn't mean I don't like this person anymore......I like this guy But it's a cold war, the more angry I am, the more cold I want to be cold, the closer the person I am, the more cold I want to be cold, my emotions are all given to the closest people, I am very polite and rational to outsiders, I have no emotions to outsiders, and I can use social rhetoric. That's just formulaic me.

It's not that I have to force the other party to admit my mistake and be careful, and I won't necessarily forgive the other party if he apologizes (this has nothing to do with whether the other party apologizes), this is just one of my emotional expressions, an emotional outlet, I don't know when the cold war will end, take the initiative to meet, break the ice. Because I don't know when this emotion will go away.

Like Marilyn Monroe said, if you can't accept the worst in me, you can't have the best in me. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight.

You may say, you just like this, you have killed yourself, you have made people disheartened, and you are really separated, what should you do?

I'm really going to watch you go, and I won't hold back, even if I like you in my heart and it doesn't ......It's not a matter of pride, it's not something that can't be pulled down, people who like me will bear this, and no matter how mature I am, the Cold War will not change. You think it's one of my attributes, by nature.

I'm me, I'm in a cold war for a month, in fact, I feel like I'm going to die, but I still won't take the initiative to reconcile, it's not that I can't pull my face, it's because I'm afraid....And in fact,,, when the Cold War lasted too long, I didn't rely on the other party, I was used to being alone,,, but when the other party came to reconcile, I immediately cried, and I actually cared to death in my heart. It's awkward to go crazy. [It's a friend, a homosexual, not an object.]

But the object is the same, and even the object is not as good as ......... friend

The Cold War for more than 24 hours drew the concept of human life, what a week.

is not good at expressing emotions in words.

Cold violence is essentially the avoidance of existing problems, people who like the Cold War believe that avoiding problems to alleviate conflicts is more effective in alleviating the feelings of both sides than directly facing problems, they do not know how to communicate and communicate properly when encountering conflicts, and are not good at expressing emotions in words.

The ability to express emotions is related to early family experiences, and if parents or other family members lack the right communication patterns during growth, it often affects children's ability to express anger and dissatisfaction.

Enjoy the Cold War process.

Quarrels are characterized by strong emotional explosiveness, short duration, and quick venting;

The Cold War, on the other hand, is a time bomb hidden in reality, which is silent but long-lasting, and is a mode of attack like quarrels.

But such people are often selfish and do not consider the mental damage caused by such behavior to the other person.

**。In addition, people who like the Cold War tend to be very headstrong.

In communicative psychology, inner dissatisfaction does not affect the attitude and relationship with others, which is a social skill.

And for wayward people, cold violence is their strongest **, not only will they not suppress their dissatisfaction with others, but they will also make it clear to each other in an isolated way through mental torture: You provoked me by slapping Huai, so I hate you very much. Nonsensical anger is the most unpredictable, and the result of cold violence is to make the other person feel exhausted.

Solve problems sensibly.

If the argument is inconclusive, it is better for both sides to calm down in their respective worlds first.

**。Likes to evade responsibility.

If the contradictions between each other are not enough to destroy the relationship between the two parties, people who like cold violence can use this way to evade responsibility, so as to passively solve the problem and achieve their desired goals by evading.

Cold violence will make the other party feel oppressed and suffocated, and in the end, in order to escape this terrifying atmosphere, they will reluctantly stand up and take the initiative to solve the problem and clean up all the mess.

Signs of immaturity of mind.

People who like the Cold War may not be really angry with the other party, they may just want to win the attention of others by ignoring others in a violent way, and insecure people like to use cold violence to prevent being ignored by the other party. Similar to the situation of a child who has a temper tantrum and asks for attention, it is a sign of mental immaturity.

**。If the two parties disagree on something and resolve the issue through cold violence, the person with less patience will compromise first.

There are two main ways of cold violence: one is domestic cold violence, which mostly occurs between family members, such as husband and wife, siblings, and parents and children; The second is cold violence in the workplace. Either way, it will be very mentally devastating.

The feelings between people can only gradually heat up in the run-in or small quarrels, and cold violence is like a glass of cold water, injecting cold barriers into each other.

Some people like the Cold War, and there may be a few reasons why:

1.Punish each other. Some people use the Cold War to express their hurt feelings, hoping to punish or warn the other side, and force the other side to take the initiative to sue for peace.

2.Take the initiative. The Cold War can make people feel that they have the initiative and the right to speak, and there is a sense of control.

3.Avoid direct confrontation. Some people are not good at expressing themselves, and will use the Cold War to avoid direct confrontation and quarrels with China.

4.Get the other person's attention. Attract the attention and reflection of the other party by snubbing the other party, and hope that the other party will take the initiative to communicate.

5.Emotions need time to calm down. The cooling-off period allows people to sort out their emotions and not say words of regret when they are excited.

6.Test the other person's emotions. Test how much the other person cares by their reactions.

7.Too lazy to communicate. Some people are introverts and don't want to solve problems through communication, so they will choose the Cold War.

8.Inertial thinking. Some people develop a Cold War pattern in their families or relationships, and it becomes a habit.

Therefore, the love of the Cold War often stems from some kind of emotional or communication need. However, an excessive cold war is not conducive to solving the problem, and the key is to actively communicate and resolve misunderstandings between them. （

Cold wars and fights between couples are both undesirable ways to resolve the issue, and both of them can lead to negative outcomes such as injury, separation, and psychological trauma. Therefore, we should seek more mature and healthy ways to deal with conflicts and grievances between couples.

The Cold War usually refers to the silence and indifference between couples, which can easily lead to emotional distancing and trust breakdown. Fighting, on the other hand, can easily lead to physical harm and a vicious cycle, which can worsen the problems between couples. Therefore, we should avoid these two ways of rolling bushes to deal with conflicts between couples.

Instead, couples should communicate and negotiate to resolve issues, including expressing their feelings and needs, listening to each other's thoughts and opinions, and trying to reach consensus and solutions. If communication between couples is difficult, Yinying can consider seeking professional help and support, such as the help of a counselor or psychologist.

Ultimately, mutual understanding, respect and support between couples are important factors in maintaining a long-term relationship, and we should deal with conflicts and challenges in a healthy way.