It s really annoying and confusing! Sometimes I feel very lost!

I'm a recent graduate like you, and I feel very heavy when I talk about work, and I feel very lost when I think about the future. In reality, the only way to do this is to find a job to support yourself, and no one can say what will happen in the future. This society is very realistic, if you don't have anything, then you can only be at the bottom of the society, but you are now a college student, you have a passion, these are enough, you can first find a job that can support yourself and your wife, or you can do a small business, now everything requires experience, and you also need work experience to find a job.

You are really a good man who knows how to be considerate, but you still lack a little maturity, I hope you can think about whether you really decide to be together, if you finally decide to be together, you should consider the most suitable development for you, and work hard after deciding down, I believe that as long as you work hard, there will be results!

The wine is aged with the fragrance. The same goes for love and life. If the conditions are not yet ripe, then just wait. Start by finding a job to support yourself. Love without bread is lifeless.

She doesn't love you anymore, and she doesn't have confidence in you anymore, just let her go if she loves her.

She doesn't love you anymore and has no faith in you.

Come to Beijing! As long as you want to work, there is an opportunity! It's true!

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Think more about the benefits of everything, help others, make friends, don't take things too seriously, think about everything, don't be burdened by perfection, enjoy the fun that life brings you, discover the beauty of life, and enjoy the current happy life.

The nature of the country is easy to change, what we tell you is just to tell you, and whether you can do it in the end depends on your own.

Considering the situation like yours, I suggest going to two places, one is to go to the Buddhist hall to volunteer, and the other is to go to the place where you study Chinese culture to volunteer. It's just a transition, it has nothing to do with religious beliefs, it's just a good environment for yourself, contact with some upward forces, and the people in these places are more tolerant. Well, of course, there are times when you are rejected, and it is inevitable that there will be objections, so don't be too presumptuous.

The environment is very important, just like if you buy a guitar with enthusiasm, it is not interesting for you to practice by yourself, and you don't want to practice while practicing, but if you join a training class and the teacher supervises you every day, the situation will be somewhat better.

If you want to change sex, then it is better to go more and more with people with good temperaments, raise your temperament well, learn more skills or something, and get your self-confidence back, which is somewhat better.

If, there is fate, you meet a good master, you are filial to the master like your parents, and it is a good thing to learn slowly, of course, the master will also pick students, everything is fate.

It's a good way to build up strength, take your time, and if you want to change, everything will change.

If you have money, won't you feel confused? If yes, congratulations, another meaningless life. Why are so many people asking such questions, are they all teenagers surfing the Internet?

Forget the past, yearning for the future, everything we have experienced will become a thing of the past, we only leave footprints in the past, we only bring the faint memory from the past, don't look back, work hard, create a better future we deserve, the beauty of the past has passed, but the beautiful future beckons to us, struggle, struggle, and move forward.

Close your eyes and open your heart. In fact, sometimes watching cartoons is not necessarily bad. This sentence was said by a person in a cartoon, and it was said by Xia Lan.

Normally, everyone has this time, and generally feel that when you are confused, it is a ...... that you feel when you are alone

Confusion is essential in life! Everybody will have a while, and it's good to be in the past.

That's probably very idle. If you're so busy that you don't even have time to rest, do you still have time to get lost?

If you start doing small things seriously and gradually achieve success, you won't be lost

Get some sleep, if you can't go on a trip, change your mood, and don't let the negative energy fill your body.

It's normal, life is complete when there are clear and confused, but please don't be confused all the time, cheer up, and let life become clear.

This is the feeling that most people in this society will have, confused! Let's find your own interests first, and slowly find your goal, so you won't be so confused.

This is normal, everyone will encounter it, in fact, the most important thing to do at this time is to take a good rest and quietly analyze what you want to do.

Think about your goals, set yourself goals to achieve in three years, and then work backwards to the present, what should you do? And then go and work in that direction.

It's all like this, find something to do, be enriched, take one step at a time, and don't think too much.

When you feel lost, read the book, and you will have a good harvest.

When you are confused, you scold yourself: you TMB, how much money can you make now! Can feed a few people!!

What kind of car can you drive!! What kind of house can I buy!! What kind of girlfriend can you find!!

Think about this clearly, maybe your heart will be clearer!

When you are confused, calm down and listen**Relax, take a look at Buddhist books, Taoist books or something, it will be better, adjust yourself

That's because I don't have a sense of direction. Stick to your goals and don't get discouraged. Go ahead.

Confusion is also a state, there is no need to resist, go with the flow, and do what you should do. Live positively with problems.

Maybe it's thinking too much, it's like looking at a word that you are familiar with, and you don't recognize it when you look at it.

In today's society, you should be happy with grievances, don't think too much, you should be happy.

Sometimes I feel very lost, which means that I am often very awake, so it is normal. It is precisely because you subconsciously have a clear goal and direction, and perhaps some external factors are temporarily trapping you, so you are lost. Do things according to your own ideas as soon as possible, think rationally, and take practical actions, you will be very happy!

Everyone is the same, there is a celebrity who said that you are persistent, stick to your current work and study when you are confused, and wait until the day you get results and have a sense of accomplishment, you will not feel lost. However, under the current conditions of China's system, it is normal for people to be confused if they are not the second generation of officials and riches.

Look at what your parents look like, look at their wrinkles. You'll understand.

Everyone will be in such a situation, and it would be good to have a balanced mentality. I'm also very confused now, I don't know what I want to do in the future, I don't know which professor will want me... I don't still eat well and sleep well. Tomorrow will be even better!

It's normal to be confused. Calm down. There are some things, when you reach a certain age, you will understand how to deal with things. Or choose what you want to do most at the moment and do it.

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My dear, I see your question, there are many reasons why you feel lost1Reaching a bottleneck, it is difficult to progress, 2There's one thing that hasn't been unresolved, dear, is there anything you feel like you've not resolved?

I also have this feeling of yours, that is, I don't know what I should do and what I shouldn't do, my mind is very messy, my heart is empty and I always feel that something is missing, it may be that I have experienced too many things, I need to take a break, you can give yourself a vacation, go to travel or something, relax and relax It will be better, don't let yourself live too nervously, just go with your heart when you do something, don't live too boring, stranger I wish you happiness.

What should I do if I feel lost and messed up? Don't be in a hurry, today I will teach you a small method to clarify your questions and solve problems.