I m a little entangled, everyone help me, I ve done some bad things, I m struggling

In fact, it is difficult to find a perfect partner, as long as both parties have no intolerable shortcomings, after all, after so many years of relationship, it is not that there is no such thing. From what you said is becoming more and more hypocritical, I think it may be that she has some changes now that you don't agree with, why not talk about it here, I think if you talk to her well, she should change for you, as long as it's not her nature. As for the family, I think it's still from your point of view, most of the current parents should say that most of them are still very open, as long as you are satisfied with themselves, they will not pick, I think it may be that you yourself are not very satisfied, and your family is aware of your thoughts, so they will also be affected accordingly, and manifest.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, don't say that you will divide and say that you will be harmonious, you need time to calmly consider whether it is worth working hard to get that little red book, in fact, men's second-hand goods are worthless, ten or twenty years of feelings are still said to change, you are nothing in the past few years, don't put too much pressure on yourself, let it be ......

When two people are together, they are working hard in a good direction, but from what you said, I think not only are you not good, but you are also in trouble. Don't talk about marriage now, and you're still young, wait a few years to see if it happens, if it still makes you feel bad, then forget it, no matter how long your relationship lasts for 5 years, it won't last a lifetime.

You're in love now, during the seven-year itch, each other, irritable, it's a period of restlessness, if you can survive this period, you'll be better if you have a new one, that's no way, you're sorry, there's no need for him to say that, hehe, my girlfriend and I just went through this now, okay, hehe, I hope you can cherish it too, and the next one won't necessarily be better, this one may be the most suitable, or you won't be 56 years, isn't it.

No one else can help you with your ideas, do you still love her now? Will you be happy with her? Don't worry about the rest.

Do you think you still like her? If you really don't love anymore, don't force yourself, it's over and it's over. It's not good for anyone. If you are willing to give, you will get if you give up.

If there is no way to solve these problems, then leave it alone.

It should be no problem, work hard, work hard,

Since I'm not satisfied·· Let's divide it

I think you should be responsible!!

Summary. Seeing that you said that you did something bad, you are very entangled, can you tell me specifically, what did you do, do you think it is bad?

I did something bad and I struggled.

Seeing that you said that you did something bad, you are very entangled, can you tell me specifically, what did you do, do you think it is bad?

I am a psychological counselor, listening to Shi Yuqing, I am good at emotional repair, family marriage, lovelorn care, personal growth, parent-child relationship, intimate relationship, workplace confusion, anxiety and depression, etc., if you have some questions you want to ask me, I will use my sincerity and knowledge to help you as much as I can, thank you for your trust in me.

What are you struggling with right now?

No, because no one will be idle.

Well, so you don't have to worry about anything.

So what are you worried about?

It is recommended that you persevere. It's not fair to you, you're not wrong, and if you think she's worth cherishing, be sure to stick to it. At the same time, we should also be considerate of her feelings, face each other together, and don't run away.

Trying to open the knot in the hearts of both parties, in fact, the real forgetting is not to erase the memory, but to remember it again, and it is no longer shocked. So try to guide and head on the dilemma. I believe you will be able to do it, and I wish you a lover a family eventually.

Communicate with her more. Some of the truths are quite useful, and it is best that at this time you can understand her and tell her that you can face these things with her. Some things always have to be put down, some things always have a new beginning, just like a tree, in autumn, the leaves have fallen, but in spring they can be reborn.

If you really love her, and at the same time she is also a suitable partner to come together with you, then you have to face the current difficulties with her. Spend it with her and impress her with your most sincere heart. I'm sure she'll understand, and over time, a lot of things will be put down.

Go for it and believe in yourself. If you can get in touch now Whatever it is, you can tell her that I can face all the difficulties with you, because I really love you, maybe more than he does, and tell her that there are some things that always have to be let go.

A woman's most classic words are also in her heart: I know what you will do, but I can't wait. Many things should be put down, how can there be such a perfect thing in the world?

If you really love each other, you have to face everything, if it's really hard to communicate or even can't communicate, then just let it go, I think although men are responsible, but the fault is not necessarily men's. Many problems have to be solved, such as the basics of married life, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and between mother-in-law and mother-in-law, if it is really difficult to communicate, do you want to turn around between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? That feeling should have been more painful.

If you leave her and don't want to hang yourself and jump off the building to die, just divide it. But my personal advice: this is a real world, not a movie, since you love her, go after her Don't wait until you lose it to want to cherish it.

Man, not a wife, who now wants to be an ordinary woman, will ask me too much. And with me, she only compares, and I don't even know how to talk to her lately. Every time I talk about these problems, I am very entangled, is it fate, why do I have to give up?

You've probably seen a similar movie or TV series, and if you really love him, take advantage of it.

If it's a real feeling, I won't think too much about it, hehe, maybe I'm too idealistic.

My ex-boyfriend has cancer, and there is no doctor for cancer! Just wait for her ex-boyfriend to die, and cherish her, a very good girl.

Maybe he's tired and feels like he's going to be with his ex-boyfriend, but I don't think it's useful for you to do anything now.

All you have to do is keep asking her about her ex-boyfriend's condition and comforting her.

In this way, show your mind, and she will feel that losing you is the biggest regret ......

This woman cherishes this society so littleIf you want me to meet a girl like this, I can wait for as long as I want. Let's go to your ex-boyfriend's with a girl I guess it's not necessarily that the two of you become friends.

After this critical period, talk to others and see if there is a chance to turn back, no matter how you end up, respect their choice.

Alas!!! Too young, impulsiveness is the devil.

You're not a man? Dispirited? How old are you?

I feel that most men are s, b love individuals and want to live their own mistakes, you have the backbone and I will turn my face and leave the moment he doesn't say to accompany her, why does he love you so much and still say that nonsense? Neither your ex-boyfriend nor your current boyfriend can tell what qualifications you have? And have you grown a bird?

And send out the two of them and their own work? To show off or what? Is work related to relationships?

Now is it realistic to talk about? Remember the moment he told you to accompany his ex-boyfriend, you should understand, no matter what she says and how much she loves you, it is all a pit for you, you have to remember that women who are not married are all passing by, and they are not scolding you, there are too many examples of this around you, what you cherish is your own buddy, until you really meet a woman who can pay for you No matter what other family situation, conditions, the woman who had a previous relationship, as long as she is dedicated to you, marry it, this kind of woman's feelings are uncertain and useless, it doesn't matter if you want to divide it, I hope you turn back as soon as possible, Because you have all had the past, you must carry the past Isn't it better, and if you really get married in the future, your mother's family will not give you a place.

Whether she likes you or not is the key to whether you have to wait or not.

Sorry for her ex-boyfriend, all we can do is pray for him, hoping that he can survive this catastrophe, which is the least respect and love for life. As for the relationship between you, it seems to be very complicated, I hope that during this period you will not put too much pressure on your girlfriend, and still do what a boyfriend should do, and at the same time have a man's generosity and human care and mercy, I hope you can understand that this is what you should do, and it is also the time to show your girlfriend your capacity. Speaking of which, you should be able to understand what my opinion is, this may be your voice, because you yourself are not sure what kind of state you will be in after giving up this relationship, don't give up if you are not sure.

Give them some time, and give yourself some time to think about it, during this period, you must take good care of your girlfriend, especially in psychological comfort and enlightenment, and of course, show concern for his ex-boyfriend, as long as your girlfriend knows, or ask for permission to visit, to show your sincere care. Personally, I think that she and her ex-boyfriend will not be combined, and now I am doing this just to make up for her psychological regrets, to make up for his feelings, the reason why she said that, she just feels sorry for you, not for anything else, she is very knowledgeable, I hope you can understand, grasp it, and you can achieve positive results!

Personally, I think that her ex-boyfriend is an eternal regret in her heart and cherishes something, others can never replace it, that is, you are together, it is difficult to guarantee that she will regret it for the rest of her life, if she can't let it go, it is really a pity thing, I have encountered this type of thing before, hehe, persuade it to go with the flow, don't fight for it, and when she wants to calm down, she can choose by herself.