What should I do if my 12 year old daughter is often rude to her parents without makeup?

Now your daughter is in the rebellious period at this age. You are to teach him strictly. Slowly enlighten him according to his personality and let him go through the rebellious period.

There should be no strict discipline. The method should be decided according to the personality of each child. A child's rebellious period has a very significant impact on the child's future.

At the age of 12, it begins to enter adolescence, which is also a period of resistance, and there is a certain opposition to the parents, and they no longer accept it, this is a normal phenomenon, not too intense, parents should understand the psychology of their children, so that mother and daughter can get along peacefully, and at the age of seventeen or eighteen, it will be fine.

That's a problem with education, and it's a problem with parents. So it's nothing, maybe it's a daughter. The IQ is a little low, so it's better to teach him slowly.

Good morning! 12-year-old girls are adolescent parents must be enlightened with love, don't scold and beat the child, after puberty will be sensible, it seems that this little girl is still a very good child.

That's a problem that has come out since childhood, and everything has grown up slowly with the child since he was a child, or this will hurt the child, and it is necessary to enlighten and educate.

Parents and children should always maintain communication and open their hearts, and parents should also respect their children's privacy and give their daughters a certain amount of freedom.

Daughters and fathers often quarrel, now daughters want to be sharp, they don't understand how hard their fathers are, fathers have to be tolerant, should communicate more with their daughters, you can tell her that now that you have grown up, you know what you should do, I hope your father can understand you, you should understand your father's hardships.

Daughters and fathers often quarrel, persuade them that fathers should be tolerant, and daughters should be considerate of their parents' hardships.

The father needs to find the reason from himself, the daughter's performance must have the shadow of the parents, if the daughter rebels, it must be caused by your educational failure.

What should I do if my daughter and father often quarrel? You have to convince them in the middle. You are a clown in the middle.

Tell me about yours. Husband. Persuade your girl again.

Your girl is fierce while persuading. Don't just say yes to the girl, but also bear him when he says yes. One time.

The bear of the bear should be persuaded.

The son does not teach the fault of the father, and the responsibility of the father is to educate from an early age. It's not that it's too late to re-educate if something happens, and it's easy to cause children to rebel. Fathers should first admit their mistakes, close the distance with the child, and then put their hearts in mind, and the child will understand.

I think as a mother you can adjust in the middle, you can say to your daughter, dad criticizes you is also for your good, you can give some examples of fathers caring for their daughters, so that it is more convincing, from the heart to move the child, so that she will have a sense of respect for the father, I think there will be no quarrels in the future, and the father can persuade him to care more about the child, I wish you a happy day!

Well, through you have me in your heart, I saw that it was the father who sold his daughter's classmate. In this way, the father and daughter often quarreled. Through this incident, I feel that my father has done something wrong, and he should not have sold his child's address book.

That should be consulted by the child.

Find the crux of the problem, and then sit together, everyone calmly analyzes and proposes solutions, otherwise everyone will get more and more noisy if they don't untie the knot.

In this way, it is obviously a problem with the father's education, how can this be done? Sold my daughter's classmates, I think this is a very good job, as a father is quite a failure, so if you want to have a relationship with your daughter, then you need to pay more and understand your daughter more.

As a daughter, don't quarrel with your father, quarrel can't solve the problem, you have to communicate with your father to solve it, you can tell him that now that you have grown up, you know what friends you should make, you know how to consider, and I hope your father can understand you.

The daughter knows it. But my father didn't count it. The daughter can introduce all her friends to her father and reassure him. That is, more communication between father and daughter.

Let the two people meet less and slowly resolve the two people, and there will be no quarrels.

Strengthen communication, communication starts from the heart.

Find out the cause of the quarrel and solve it at the root.

My daughter and my mother often quarrel, how old is my daughter, and I usually communicate more, what is the quarrel

The influence of the family of origin on the child, especially on the daughter's personality and behavior.

It's big, and the thinking of parents and the thinking of children will be very different, which is a generation gap in layman's terms. Many parents do lack foresight, and they always like to talk about things that are good to you, and they don't know how to communicate well with their children. They have a kind of age is experience, but they may not know whether it is right or wrong, and children slowly realize the gap between their parents and other people's parents, and they will obviously feel the kind of unenlightened parents of their own parents, and they will feel the obvious gap, and feel that their parents are more open-minded, and they must be better.

A mother will not harm her daughter;

Then calm down and think about it.

Let's communicate more This requires mutual understanding on both sides.

Her relationship with her colleagues is not good, her daughter should be very sensitive, and the grievances she suffers outside are all blamed on her parents. Is there something wrong with this heart?

Find out the reason for the quarrel and correct it individually.

In fact, each party will have a reason, the daughter should not make her mother angry, be filial, and the mother should not be too impulsive and calm.

It depends on the matter, but it seems to me that filial children will never quarrel with their parents no matter what.

1.Fierce is to drink to quench thirst, when she was young, you were fierce and she worked; When she is taller than you, it is useless to be fierce......

2.Please describe the specific impact behavior in detail so that you can give more detailed advice.

3.Roughly speaking, a child's behavior is caused by the parents, and if the child wants to change, the elders in the family (especially the parents) must change first.

1) Parents should not defy their grandparents in front of their children, otherwise they will give negative examples.

2) Establish rules. The so-called rules are not set by parents for their children, but must be followed by the whole family. The child's consent must be obtained when it is established, and she will be more willing to comply with what the child has participated in.

Note that rewards and punishments should not be changed at will because of the will of the parents. It's best to write it down and post it in a place where everyone can see it, in writing.

Our goal is "it's not your parents who want to punish you, it's that you break the rules, and the rules are going to punish you".

During this period, even parents can deliberately commit one of them and accept punishment by example, so that children can see that it is not ...... "what the parents say is reasonable anyway".Children are generally very active in finding ......fault with their elders

3) Before, during, and after the punishment, repeatedly mentioning "because you violated this article, you should receive this punishment written in this article" reinforces the child's association between "mistake" and "punishment".

Try to minimize the situation ......where the child is punished and it is very uncomfortable, but he does not remember why he was punished at all, and he is very aggrieved

Please provide additional questions or follow-up questions.

It would be nice to have specific examples and language.

At this time, you can pretend that you don't know anything to get along with her normally, but when you find that she is obviously in a wrong mood, you must guide her correctly.

As a parent, you should give your daughter freedom, you should accompany your daughter in the way of a friend, give advice to your daughter, don't force them, and learn to respect each other.

Parents should take the initiative to communicate with their daughters, understand their daughters' thoughts, and be sure to respect their ideas.

When parents communicate with their daughters, they should communicate in the way of friends, and the two people should not have a status difference, and do not put pressure on their children.

Parents can write a letter to their child on time. Children may be more reserved and reluctant to communicate with their parents in person.

I think the most important thing is that parents should treat their daughters as their friends and not look at their daughters with a condescending attitude.

The daughter is the father's little padded jacket, and the relationship between the daughter and the father in the average family is closer than that with the mother. So it's very abnormal for a daughter to be inexplicably hostile and disgusted with her father. Fathers must ask themselves whether they are doing what they are doing is a good father who deserves the admiration and love of his daughters.

You can discipline your daughter's study and life, but you can't be too strict. Give him some freedom. Let him feel both your warmth and your love for her. Treat her like a friend so that your daughter can be intimate with you.

It is important to distinguish why the child has a bad relationship with the father. Then, depending on the specific cause, we solve it specifically. For example, if the parents are divorced, and the child has been living with the mother, and has not seen the father a few times throughout the year, it is normal to be cold to the father.

The relationship between father and son is weak due to this reason, and it is necessary for the mother to help. Mother must hold back her temper and don't say in front of the child that the father is not a thing because she divorced the child's father. Mom don't speak ill of dad in front of her children.

No matter how much you hate your child's father, you can't say bad things in front of your child. Hate education can make children lose their mental health and even cause them to be psychologically distorted. At the same time, the mother should also allow the father to visit the child, so that the father and son have space to be alone.

In this way, the child will slowly accept his father and gradually improve his relationship with his father.

If the parents are not divorced, but the father is too busy with work or usually does not take care of the children, resulting in a weak father-son relationship, then the father needs to be able to put down the work at hand, take time to spend more time with the children, and communicate more with the children. Maybe at the beginning, the child will reject the father, but please remember that blood is thicker than water. There is a natural affinity between father and son.

You must not simply ignore the child just because the child is cold to him, this can only break the jar, it is also stupid, and it is not beneficial to the father-son relationship.

As the saying goes, raising children knows the kindness of their parents! He is the father who gave birth to you and is the most important man in your life. If the cultural level is not high, you will be poisoned by patriarchal thinking, so choose to forgive your father.

No need to break it, the daughter must have discovered something bad about this father. Maybe one day you'll know, maybe your daughter will rot it in her heart and won't tell you.

I am also a father, and in my impression, there has never been a big disagreement with my father. It's not easy to be a father, and it's even harder to be a good father for life.

It's not that the relationship is weak, it can only be said that many children are not easy to communicate with their fathers, and their father's love is like a mountain, not hot, but extremely reliable!

There are many reasons why the child has a weak relationship with the father, firstly, whether the father was with the child when he was growing up? Second, in the process of children's growth, can the father have a good empathy and interaction with the child?

Judging by your statement, it's bad. It's hard to change that. I'm not a kid in my third year of high school. Hostility towards you is deeply ingrained.

When the daughter is older, don't quarrel. Or take advantage of the situation. In anger, everyone will say something excessive, and it is better to find someone to talk to, and my father is going to come forward.

As a parent, we should actively and patiently guide our daughter to have a correct psychological outlook, do not count down the daughter with extreme language, give the daughter warmth, and slowly the daughter will be sensible and respect her parents and no longer quarrel with her parents.

First of all, there is a reason, it is her mother who is verbally aggressive, too strong, and everyone has a process of growth.

If her mother grows up and can let go of everything, she will naturally not have any conflicts with her daughter.

This child belongs to the always thinking that his parents are not well educated. It should have been pampered and raised. So even if you are an adult, you have received higher education. I don't know how to respect others. Therefore, the education of children should be grasped from an early age.

Your daughter is an adult, and her marriage is up to her.

A good marriage is waiting for you.

Communicate more, swear less.

It's the bad habits that parents are used to their children and have developed since childhood, and now they can't be changed all at once

The daughter is 30 years old and often argues with her parents, but now it has developed to scold her mother. Personally, I think that my daughter is older, and she is also her own child, and she often fights with her child, and she is used to fighting, and she is casual in her daughter's heart, so this happened, the mother was very uncomfortable, and she was still thinking about her daughter, find a good friend with her daughter, and persuade her in the middle, and her daughter will understand, no matter what, she is 30 years old, a college graduate, logically speaking, she should be sensible, and it is not right to scold her mother, and after she wakes up, she should apologize to her mother.

This woman is so immoral, so rude to her biological parents who raised her, she is simply not human!

The best thing to do is to talk to your parents often, don't exclude your parents, you can often talk to them about your work, and then express your own opinions, and tell them more about the normal state of society now. Find a way to let them know her basic demands, her parents love her, but she is very stubborn to use her old Huang calendar decades ago to ask her children, those things may no longer adapt to society, and too strict and meticulous control has a bad impact on the cultivation of children's independence.

Don't expect a few or a few months to solve this problem, if you want to communicate with your parents thoroughly, you have to take your time.

If you feel that you really can't communicate, and you can't stand this particularly depressing living state, then it's best to move out and be independent, because she is also working and financially independent, then it's best to take care of herself from now on, you can often go home to see, or call your parents to communicate, tell them about your situation, and let them know that your friend can actually be self-reliant and can handle his life well.

In addition, it is necessary to be mentally prepared to a certain extent, many parents who are too controlling and particularly stubborn will impose their ideal life model on their children, if they cannot change their minds, then there is a possibility that "they do not agree with the child's lifestyle" and are too critical of their daughter's boyfriend.

In fact, I think your friends should change their mentality, don't always look at their parents to restrain themselves or do very outrageous details, first of all, they love themselves, and express their recognition and gratitude for their constructive suggestions, just complaining and dissatisfied, and there is no help to the communication of family members.