What does the real world look like and what is the real world?

You don't care if it's good on the outside, just try to make yourself better. As long as you live well, which outsider has a dime to do with you?! Even if you don't like it and want to change, don't you have to "start with me?"

Be yourself and all is well. The result of doing things is not the most important thing, as long as you know that what you are doing is good.

We all want to change the status quo of this society, but we don't have the ability, maybe we have, but there is no right, even if you are smarter than Einstein, you have no right to the current social facts are also invalid, this is helpless, do it in advance from yourself, do your best first, study hard, because you can't change the society if you don't study, maybe the landlord will be angry when he sees this, but there is no way, this is the fact, if you don't study hard, you can only be belittled by others, our Chinese society is not the United StatesEverybody is Bill Gates, all Newton, can't learn to be as famous as bad, the easiest solution is. Hiding from this society, although it is very cowardly, but this is the easiest solution, be honest when you encounter bad people, and hold back when you encounter thieves, otherwise what can we do? You've also been told by others to "what's in your business, what's in your way" or something like that, right?

Your world is your way, everything is real and everything is real, and happiness is the truth!

This feeling you describe may be a psychological experience, often referred to as a "sense of dissociation" or "sense of unreality." It is a natural defensive response of human beings to unusual, abnormal situations in life.

Several factors can contribute to this feeling:

1.Excessive stress: When we are in a state of extreme tension and anxiety, it can make us feel that things are not real.

2.Sleep deprivation: Lack of adequate depth and quality of sleep can also be one of the causes of "unrealism".

3.Substance abuse or alcohol abuse: Certain drugs and drugs can alter the way the nervous system works, leading to a "sense of unreality."

4.Mental problems: Some mental problems such as depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, etc., can cause a sense of unreality.

If you often experience this feeling and cannot control or eliminate it, it is recommended to consult a doctor or psychologist for evaluation and diagnosis as soon as possible to find the best solution. At the same time, increasing the amount of time spent exercising, maintaining a good social circle, and having a regular daily routine can also help improve the feeling.

Because you are slapping the stool to understand the world based on your experience of the world, and you can't explain some of the things you encounter, then you must feel that the world is not real.

Society is very real, people are a little unreal, it seems that society is not real.

How to take the bus, how to take the subway, how to eat McDonald's, how to go to the hospital alone, ......Recently, the short ** blogger "Wage Earner Xiao Zhang" filmed some common sense of life that most people seem to be familiar with into popular science**, which became popular and gained millions of fans within a month.

Teaching people how to take high-speed rail, take planes, and buy coffee is actually popular. This scene may come as a surprise to many. But the subtext of this "accident" may itself be a false illusion.

Because in reality, there may be many more people who have never taken a plane and drunk Starbucks than everyone thinks. A few years ago, there was a very widespread saying: in China, "one billion people have not yet taken a plane, and 500 million people have not taken a toilet".

There may still be room for accuracy in this data, but it should be enough to remind everyone that some groups are susceptible to the contrast with the real world.

For today's vocal crowd, taking high-speed rail, planes, subways, and buying coffee seems to be self-evident common sense, and it is the default standard of life. But in fact, for many people who have never left their hometown, because they don't have the opportunity to take the high-speed rail, subway, and Starbucks in their hometown, these sparse and ordinary things can pose a challenge for them who try it for the first time. In other words, although Xiao Zhang's popularity has an accidental factor, the audience size of this part of the ** content cannot be underestimated.

The reason why this kind of popular science of life looks unusual, and even Xiao Zhang's popularity has surprised many people, is because today's information dissemination is accustomed to the perspective of "big city" and "modernization". There is a kind of ridicule that is quite representative - today's short ** is full of "one million per capita, three suites per capita, and Porsche per capita". Under such a common "shoot the head high", teaching people to buy coffee, take high-speed rail, and take a plane naturally shows a rare real texture.

I think it's better to borrow a Western philosophical point of view to explain this sentence: unknowable. Kant believed that the ontology of the world is unknowable, and that what we see and hear is known within the framework prescribed by categories, including time, space, causality, and so on.

In other words, the real world does not necessarily have concepts such as time, space, causality, etc., and it may not be what we see now. Let's put it this way, we have been looking at the world through colored glasses, and no one knows what the real world is like. Therefore, all the "appearances" in the world are the result of our observation through colored glasses, not the "appearances" of the things themselves, and we cannot see the true appearance of things.

Therefore, everything that appears is vain. Plato told the "cave metaphor", we are all people trapped in a cave, and we can only face the cave wall every day**, and all we see is a projection of the real world outside. When we see a bird, it is not actually a bird, but the shadow left by a real bird on the cave wall, and we see a tree, which is not a tree, but also a shadow.

If one day we can see through this, break free from the shackles, get up and go outside the cave, we can see what the real world is like, and then we will also realize, oh, all the "appearances" that we have seen before are not real things, they are all false, and now we can see that all the aspects are not the same, and we will see the same. So what the real world is like, we can't guess this, we can only say that the mysteries are prepared and mysterious. In fact, if it is not visible, God is not visible, and the way of heaven is not visible, what we see, maybe it is the realm of the Buddha, maybe it is something else, this is not something that mortals like us can describe.

After all, the Tao is very Tao, and it is very Tao.

1. There are roughly two kinds of people in the world, one who feels (relatively) happy and the other who feels (relatively) miserable. Happiness is because circumstances meet one's expectations, while pain is the opposite.

2. Based on the principle of self-interest, happy people prefer that the world is real (happiness is real), while painful people hope that the world is illusory (pain is illusory).

3. Theoretically, happy people (when they are happy) don't think about "Is the world real?" "This kind of thinking about the Li problem, because people are self-interested, people will not take the initiative to tear down the stage for themselves and make themselves miserable. The people who ask this question are people who are in pain (people who are in the stage of suffering from pain).

4. So, the first part of the answer, for happy people, the answer is: the world is real, and because of this, they can rest assured that they can enjoy rare luxury pleasures.

5. In the face of the magnificent world and circumstances, most people are small and incapable of striving for it.

6. Therefore, the second part of the answer, for the person who suffers, that is, the majority of people (or most of the people's circumstances), if he has to think that the world is "real", and therefore pays special attention to everything that happens "real", there is a high probability that he will live a miserable life. If he thinks that the world is illusory, then a lot of unsatisfactory suffering can be resolved because of "vanity", and it will not bring him deeper pain and more harm.

7. At this point, you are quite skeptical and begin to ask: Is it just a wishful thinking to determine the "vanity of the outer world" because of the "suffering of the inner subject"?

8. Add another factual condition: "Seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages" is the instinct of life. For example, if a person is sick and in pain, should he take medicine to relieve the pain? The answer, of course, is yes.

It must be, it's not illusory.

How to see the real world requires seeing the essence through things.

Through the "phenomena" that manifest things on the outside, we understand their essence, which is simply to look at things not only on the surface, but also on the inside.

A short story about the essence of seeing through the phenomenon:

There was a little boy, one day his mother took him to the grocery store to buy something, and the owner saw this cute child, so he opened a jar of candy and asked the little boy to take a handful of candy himself. But the boy didn't make any moves. After several invitations, the boss personally grabbed a large handful of candy and put it in his pocket.

When she returned home, her mother curiously asked the boy why he didn't go to catch the candy himself and asked the boss to catch it. The little boy was wonderful: "Because my hands are smaller!" And the boss has a bigger hand, so he must have taken a lot more than I did. ”

Revelation: This is a smart child who knows his limitations, and more importantly, he also knows that others are better than himself. Learning to rely on others at the right time is a kind of humility and a kind of wisdom.

It's not a real world, but it's not a false world either, it's an illusory world, a world as it is.

We have many angles to understand this matter, we can lay out the facts, reason, and follow the guidance of the methods, experiences, and scriptures given by our ancestors, and directly transcend the level of consciousness to understand.

If we affirm that this world is illusory, it is just a projection. Then the problem is solved.

However, we are too persistent.

Attachment is a functional characteristic of consciousness, just like admitting death, it is like a trap, falling into it, it will always be like that, and it is a difficult thing to change.

The meaning of the dilemma is that when we learn a truth, we will determine that it is difficult to understand it from a different perspective. For example, in the past, it was believed that wood could float on the surface of the water and iron would sink, and it was difficult to imagine that a ship could be made of iron.

We think that with a me, it is difficult to understand and understand this illusory world without me, which has no inside and outside, and no one else.

We think that the world either has it or it doesn't.

It is impossible to realize that this world cannot be said to exist or not, it is an interdependent coexistence, without subject and object, or the existence of subject and object at the same time.