Why, I m looking forward to going home now, but I don t want to go home, why is it so conflicted?

If you want to go back, you can go back, haven't you heard: parents don't need their children to contribute much, they will be happy if you are happy, and they will make you happy if you are not happy. Negative thoughts are all added to yourself, your parents just want you to be happy, the idea is very simple.

Life outside is tiring, and it's good to go home and take a break once in a while.

Most young people don't come out ...... to start a careerEven if he is new to his business, his parents and friends will not pay much attention to his achievements.

In fact, they just want to come out to see the outside world, to see what they know, and more importantly, to learn to behave and grow up.

If you're homesick, please hurry up. Because your family must miss you very much, and ...... for your careerIf it's really okay, then at least you should go back and surprise them.

Nothing now does not mean nothing in the future, and many people give up when they are about to succeed.

Because we don't know exactly when we will succeed, maybe when you insist on it anymore is when you are about to succeed, and we give up because we don't know, why wait for the future to regret it, maybe just hold on for a little more time.

Maybe you go home and it seems that you can't get out, so you're conflicted and you're struggling. Even if you finally come out, you should continue to work hard outside. If you don't achieve anything, then going home will be meaningless for you in the rest of your life.

1. Lack of belonging: Feeling that you are not needed will cause a loss of belonging, in this case, people do not feel the eager desire of their family and relatives for themselves, so they do not want to go home. The sense of belonging is the intrinsic connection between an individual and the family to which he belongs, and is the delineation, identification, and maintenance of a special group and its affiliation.

Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the connection with the family and improve the sense of belonging.

2. There is a generation gap with parents: there is a psychological distance or psychological gap between the younger generation and the older generation in terms of ideological methods, values, life attitudes, hobbies, and in the era of changing values, both sides should learn together to reduce the generation gap.

3. Going home at a loss: I don't know what I'm going to do when I go home, I can't be interested, and I have to face my various relatives, and I am at a loss in many people who are not familiar with and have different values, so I should communicate with my parents to adjust.

The family can't give you what you want, so you are less and less willing to go home. But that's not how family members get along, all you have to do is be as honest as possible about why you don't want to go home. Because only true expression can make parents realize that they are wrong, and they will find ways to correct it.

If you don't express it, your parents will still treat you the way they used to, and you will not want to go home more and more.

All in all, people who don't want to go home do so because they can't get their own needs from the family. The key to improving the relationship between family members is to return the feeling of warmth to the family and find the original intention of building a family.

The child is obviously at home, and said that he wants to go home, and said this more than once, this situation is noteworthy, this is not a child's slip of the tongue, the child can clearly explain the thoughts in his heart, and he should definitely be clear, he himself is at home, and he is still by his parents' side. In particular, remember not to let children play dangerous things, and don't let children play, dangerous games, and abnormal things in life, you must also pay attention to and analyze, don't be careless, don't think that children say abnormal things, just a coincidence. Some children, in the process of growing up, will encounter a lot of things, parents take care of it more carefully, it is enough, the responsibility of parents is to escort their children.

I've been in a similar situation. When my son was younger, about two years old, he cried for a few days and said, "I'm not at your house, I'm leaving."

Obviously, we have never lived in a place other than our own home, including his grandmother's house, since we were young. It was nice to play outside. When he goes home, he can't go home, and he cries when he enters the community, saying that he won't go to your house.

It's not a child's playfulness either. Because at night, when he fell asleep, he slept very soundly, and as soon as he walked home into the community, Kai Oak woke up, and then cried, repeating the sentence of not going to your house. Grandma asked him, who scared you?

The child points to nothingness.

First of all, I'm not a professional, you just have to communicate. Judging from your description, you think that it was a car accident as a child that made a major change in your life, or at least you thought in your heart that the car accident had a significant meaning. 1. Is it the car accident that makes you afraid of the outside world?

2. What is the attitude of your relatives and friends (to the father you have not mentioned) towards you after the car accident? As a child, are you positive about the injuries caused by car accidents? 3. If you were 25 years old today, how would you face that disaster?

Hopefully LZ will think about these issues. In addition, you think that you seem to have a problem with interpersonal relationships. 1. When you get along with your family, you seem to have a sense of alienation from other relatives except for your mother.

You say it's a sense of loneliness. Can you understand that when you get along with your relatives and friends, you want to find a support, a gentle and strong support like a mother, otherwise you will feel uncomfortable with Sun Datuan? This is a sign that your mind may not be very mature.

You are 25 years old and need to develop self-dignity, self-confidence, and self-confidence to live for yourself. 2. You feel like you can't get along with people in depth. In fact, many people don't have the desire to communicate with people in depth, the first time they meet and chat, the second time they laugh, this is a natural thing, you don't need to think about what others think, touch.

Because your subconscious can't find the feeling of home in Qingzi, and you also hold off Yu Xu Duanyan because you have grown up, you often remember the feeling of home in your childhood. Yu Ji always felt that his home was very warm when he was a child, but as he grew older, he may have some changes in his thoughts in front of the sedan car.

Gradually, you will find that "going home" is becoming more and more a terrible thing, and that your parents, who were originally reasonable, will not listen to you saying that "I can live happily alone", but will turn into demons with maces and forced marriage. Once the home was a refuge, since he reached the marriageable age, he was still single, and his father's urging to marry began, urging him to make himself afraid to go home. As long as parents can laugh and laugh without mentioning this topic, it has become a constant quarrel, and it is impossible to communicate properly when it is only mentioned on this topic.

My parents don't understand or accept it, even if you don't like it, you can leave in the end, but I don't want to decide my life because of my understanding of you. I think that's moral kidnapping. I have my own selfishness, and I don't want to fulfill their wishes.

My own defense has always been very heavy, I have never opened it completely, and it is difficult to open it, and outsiders think that I am so cold, so it is difficult for me to have a boyfriend, and of course I also want someone to be there for me in times of difficulty, except for my parents. But it's hard for me to be tempted by myself, and I'm not so rational that I can't do it. Some people told me that it was not good to be too sensible, but it was hard for me to change this kind of skeletal structure.

I want to be confused, but I can't really make a tree at the moment.

But no one cares what you think, and you can't escape or refuse those interferences under the pretext of caring for your own good.