In case of divorce, which parent do you think the child should follow?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think children should follow their fathers, because if a woman has a child, it will be difficult to find a new marriage, while a man with a child does not affect anything, and the father will not be disliked. <>

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the minds of children, fathers usually have a much higher opinion of their mothers than they do of their fathers. If a mother wants to obtain custody, she must learn to affirm her ex-husband's personality in front of the child, so that she can win the right to have the child. Otherwise, she would only be able to affirm half of her children, thus hurting them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think we should follow my father's side, because mothers are generally very good and accustomed to their children, and they can't be ruthless, so they can be more sensible and mature when they are handed over to their fathers, and at the same time, women's income is not as high as men's, so they should be given to their fathers.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, for me, if there is a divorce, I think the child should follow the father, because in the process of growing up, although the child cannot be separated from the mother and the father, but the last resort should still live with the father.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think that after a family breaks down, children will not be happy with anyone, but if I have to make a choice, I think it is better to stay with my mother, because after all, it is my own birth.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the child has a certain ideology, then I feel that you should follow her ideas, because the child's opinion is really important, you don't follow her opinion, and force him to follow the party he doesn't like, then whether it is a parent or a child, life will be very difficult, if he does not have a certain ideology, then I recommend going to the rich side. Because you don't have the money, how can you take care of the children?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, divorce is very much in favor of it. Yes, if you want to get divorced, which parent should the child follow, I personally think that it is the one with good economic conditions. In this way, the child can be better cared for.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on how old the child is, if it is small, according to the financial point of view of the divorced parties, if this is still ten years old or above, you have to look at the child's own choice, he will choose the one he wants to follow, and he will make his own decision.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Following his mother to remarry, except for his mother, everyone else is an outsider, and with his father, except for his stepmother, everyone else is a relative, as well as grandparents, aunts, and uncles! Know the answer?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no good mother in the world, this is not empty words, most parents divorce, regardless of boys and girls, choose more mothers, and the judge will also favor the mother's side, of course, the child is older and chooses to choose independently. No one can replace a mother! It has nothing to do with matter.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The party in charge, the party who has not committed gross negligence, don't be too hasty in divorce, it will have too much impact on your children, and you will be irresponsible for your marriage!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on which parent is more responsible, has the ability to raise the child, and depends on which side of the father and mother can be better taken care of, but the most important thing is the child's own choice.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Children are not accessories, you can let children choose by themselves, of course, the premise is that when children have their own thoughts and judgments, let children choose by themselves, which parents should follow.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it varies from person to person, family, economy, and personality are all considered. And divorce is not necessarily bad for children, it depends on how you guide, and a bad family atmosphere has a great impact on children. And does a woman have to remarry if she gets divorced?

    Even if you remarry, you should know how to choose with the lessons of the past. After divorce, the parents' love for their children will not change, and the child support, visitation and companionship will not be less, and it is not a severance of relations.

    If it were me, I would let the child follow me, although it is certainly not easy for a woman to make money with a child, but as long as you work hard, life will always get better and better! At least I can grow up with them, and I won't denigrate his father, just a different way of getting along.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    should be good with his father, and his father's love is like a mountain.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The man gives priority to the woman's love and the needs of the real environment can give the child more room for growth, and there can be a better embodiment of the mother's role in the woman's continued life, without delaying the mother's role to continue to love, if the child belongs to the woman, the man can hardly get close to the child, because his responsibilities and obligations will also have a greater impact on the woman's continued life, and then affect the child's healthy growth ......

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If both of them love their children, it is right to be with their father, because if both parties form a new family after divorce, then those who are with their father are relatives except for their stepmother, and they are all outsiders except for their mother.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be with the noble party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The parents of that side are kind and sensible, and they are just like that side, so that they can educate their children well. The parents on that side are unreasonable, cautious, care a lot, and look down on people, are not generous, and are not generous, and follow such parents, they will also bring the child's character like this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    With the mother who asks for food, not with the father who is an official.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The child follows the father, except for the stepmother, everyone else is a relative.

    The child follows the mother, and everyone else is an outsider except the mother.

    Isn't that the reason? But in this world, only the mother loves the child the most, and the father is a man after all; Not as attentive as my mother.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is best to follow your father, at least there are more reliable relatives in the family. With my mother, there are too few relatives to rely on!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The most important thing in a family is harmony, as the saying goes, a good family and everything is prosperous, divorce is too harmful to children, or it is better to be with parents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the woman has the idea of remarrying, she will leave it to her father, because the father's side is all relatives, and if she remarries her mother, there will be only one relative.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Next door to my hometown, I gave birth to two girls and went to KTV to accompany the wine after the divorce, the two girls lived with their grandparents in their ex-husband's hometown, their mothers didn't give a penny of child support, and their stepmothers didn't want to see her, every time I saw her, she would say how much money she gave to her children, and the money was used by her own children and not given to others.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Look at the child, the child can follow whoever he wants, I don't have so many requirements. The child's own choice, the road of life is very long, and the road he chooses will go on by himself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether the parents divorce and the child has the right to choose who to go with depends on the age of the child. If the child is over the age of eight, the child has the right to choose which party to live with, but this choice is only taken into consideration. It's not that whoever you choose is necessarily with whom.

    Are children obligated to support their parents after divorce?

    Children are obligated to support their parents after a divorce. According to our law, adult children have the obligation to support their parents, which is indefinite and cannot be conditional, and is not eliminated by divorce. When a child fails to fulfill the obligation to provide support, the parent who is unable to work or who has difficulty in living has the right to demand maintenance from the child.

    The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

    [Legal basis].Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

    The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

    After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

    In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Legal analysis: If the parents are divorced, the children can go to school with one of the parents, and in accordance with the relevant laws and regulations, the children can go to school in the nearest place of household registration, or they can go to school in the nearest place where their parents or other filial guardians work or live. Where school-age children or adolescents receive compulsory education at the place where their parents or other legal guardians work or reside, the local people shall provide them with equal conditions for receiving compulsory education.

    Legal basis: Article 12 of the Compulsory Education Law of the People's Republic of China School-age children and teenagers are exempt from entrance examinations. Local people** at all levels shall ensure that school-age children and adolescents are enrolled in the nearest school for the area of their household registration.

    Where parents or other legal guardians work or reside in a place other than their household registration for school-age children or teenagers who receive compulsory education at the place where their parents or other legal guardians work or reside, the local people** shall provide them with equal conditions for receiving compulsory education. Specific measures shall be formulated by provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government. The people's education administrative departments at the county level shall ensure that the children of military personnel within their respective administrative areas receive compulsory education.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Legal analysis: both parties can negotiate to decide on child custody; If the negotiation fails, the court can be appealed to settle the matter, and the court will generally make a custody judgment that is conducive to the physical and mental health of the child. It will be comprehensively considered from the aspects of fertility, economic income, education level, nature of work, living habits, living environment, etc.

    However, children under the age of two years are generally awarded to the woman. For children over the age of 10, the court will give priority to the child's wishes.

    Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

    The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

    Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or the attendant directly initiates a divorce lawsuit in the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Lao Chuntan has been separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

    Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

    The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.

    Article 1087 In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

    The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    At the time of divorce, if the children have reached adulthood, the court only needs to grant the divorce and settle the division of property, and no longer solve the children's problems. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 8 over that a minor child over the age of 8 should be living with the father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into account. A child under the age of 2 years shall be awarded to the mother.

    Several Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by People's Courts"1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, and if the mother has any of the following circumstances, they may live with their fathers: (1) they suffer from infectious diseases or other serious diseases that have not been cured for a long time, and the children are not suitable to live with them; (2) The father requires the child to live with him/her; (3) For other reasons, the child is unable to live with the mother. 2. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

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