Which do you think is more terrible, a lonely old age after divorce or a marriage that will have no

Many marriages in China are improvised, and the bargaining chips for divorce are too big, and it is a day by day. The pros and cons of a lonely old age and a future marriage depend on the individual. There is no happiness at all, depression and no quality of life, it is really better to be lonely and old.

Loneliness is not, how many people surround you, how many children and grandchildren you have, how many friends, but your soul, where you have nowhere to place, who can't find resonance, and who doesn't have a heart that is imprinted with your heart. A person who can be single for life either has something in his heart, or his spiritual strength is by no means beyond the reach of ordinary people. For him, loneliness may be a kind of enjoyment.

The marriage that is about to be settled is a very terrible thing, and it is better to live a good life by yourself if you are unhappy.

If a person enjoys solitude and remains single until he is old, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But if a lonely person is just trying to escape, or because he is hurt in love or marriage, he does not dare to face it, so the happiness of the lonely person will not be high. Especially people who need love and marriage will be more unhappy when they are lonely and old.

Will be the most terrible, will be done, that is, there is no happiness at all, there is no happiness, what do you insist on? The key is not just that there is no happiness, there must be all kinds of conflicts and contradictions in life, so life should be worse and not worth nostalgia.

If it is said according to the ideal idea, it is better to be lonely than to get married, why then? First of all, let's talk about marriage, this kind of marriage is generally under the pressure of the family, make concessions, just find a random person, he doesn't know the other party's real preferences at all, and the other party doesn't understand his preferences, and then under the mediation of the two families, he walks into the grave of marriage. What they want is to be able to ask their parents for pressure as soon as possible.

But they really didn't expect that the road ahead was still long, and there would be a lot of anger in the future, which was to escape the small section and enter a long hardship. Now, with the progress and openness of society and the freedom of marriage, more and more people have turned their marriages into parting ways to find true love. So the number of divorces is increasing now.

The twisted melon is not sweet, but if you can do it, you will be on it. Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son, even if it is about to come, it is better than growing old alone. It's a terrible thing to die alone.

If I had to choose, I would choose to die alone. Once you fall into a marriage that is about to be compromised because of your parents, for the sake of inheritance, or for material conditions, you will always feel indebted in your heart. You feel like it's not what you want but you have to make compromises, so you can't fully commit to the family relationship.

You feel that you have been forced to make a choice about your family. At first, Miss H didn't like her boyfriend at the time, but she thought he was a good person, so she stayed with him, thinking that getting along might become the person she liked. Three years have passed, and they have lived without shock, Miss H does not like her boyfriend, but she is familiar with this feeling.

Miss H felt distressed, not only letting go of the familiar feeling in this relationship, but also unable to take the relationship seriously. Whenever she sees her boyfriend's face, she feels uncomfortable, as if she has always wanted to buy a MK bag, but she can only pay for MK's imitation. On the surface you know that you have a big brand bag, but deep down you know that yours is a fake.

That's not what you want. You have lived a better life than many people, you know what you want, but you choose what you don't want when you know what you want. This choice will make you regret it.

It's not terrible to be alone, and each of us is born lonely. And the word loneliness is not accurate, let's change it to single. In this single process, you will find many partners, such as your book friends, your travel friends, and many more of your friends.

I once saw a question: "Which is better, the lonely old age or the marriage that is about to end"? Accounts differ and opinions vary. But if you want me to say something:

Compared with "lonely old age", it is better to have a marriage (except for domestic violence) People will always make do with each other in the end: because they have a common idea, for the sake of children. As time goes by, there is an extremely real problem in front of you, and that is - aging.

When you're healthy, you don't know what debilitation is. There is nothing more terrible than dying alone and no one cares.

Believing in "not compromising" is a mistake in itself, although you can't let your life be too sloppy, but you can't be too extreme in cleanliness, and even the grains are taboo!! You are a creature, alas, and you will be born, old, sick and die.

Of course, you should also make a good choice at the beginning of marriage, because you will live a lifetime. After you get married and start a family, then you choose to ignore some of them, because the days always have to go back.

When two people live together for a long time, then everything will become dull. Life will tear apart all the beautiful imaginations! In life, you always have to dress and eat, and only by being less hypocritical (except for the safety of your life) can you be happy.

So our choice is to put the family first and raise the children well. It is really responsible to keep yourself from having any health problems with lead.

It's all more terrible, but I feel that the love that will be about to be is still more terribleThere are also many benefits of being single, when you are alone, you must be very lonely, there are happy things, no one to share, no one to confide in when you are in pain, over time, you will feel helpless and stressed, then on the contrary, the free space of being single will be much greater than that of marriage, when you want to do something, you can not worry too much, for example, to take a trip that says go.

Another advantage of being single is that you don't think about much and can be very comfortable. It is not necessary to consider the factors of the family, and there is no bad intervention of the other party, relatively free, so it is said that being single will be a little helpless, but relatively free, then I will talk about the bitterness and sweetness of marriage, after people enter marriage, it is necessary to get along with another person for a long time, and there will inevitably be contradictions and even disputes when there are many trivial matters, because people are different, and many points of view must be different.

But what about marriage, you are not so free, there are many things you need to consider, one more person, there is one more object to share and confide in, and it is the intimate relationship between husband and wife, when doing things and dealing with problems, a little more**, as the saying goes, there is one more helper. So what about marriage, there is no personal support, but relatively speaking, this needs to think more about the family, not the individual, so singleness and marriage are both bitter and sweet.

For many people, the end result is still going into marriage, which is an essential part. Most people are inevitably going to enter marriage, so instead of dwelling on these, learn more about how to manage marriage, such as marriage, we must keep an appropriate distance, don't feel too familiar, do things, ignore each other's feelings, what are the reasons for many problems in marriage? Too familiar, and losing respect for the other party, a contradiction arises.

I think the marriage that is going to be made is even more terrible, because no one in this marriage can understand you, and you will always be very depressed when you talk to yourself all the time.

Which is more terrible, single or "soon" marriage? The woman pointed straight to the second type.

The marriage that will be settled is even more terrifying, the end of life is just one person, it will be a very painful thing, it will be a lifetime of pain, if you can bear it, then go for it.

I think it must be that the marriage will be even more terrible, because you won't think so much about it when you're lonely, but if you have someone by your side, but you'll be unhappy.

I think that the marriage that will be in place will be even more terrible, because the marriage that will be in the future will be unhappy after all. There may also be a lot of sad and sad things.

I think loneliness is the scariest thing because I'm a person who is very afraid of loneliness, and I don't like to do everything by myself.

I think the marriage that will be compromised is even more terrible, two people are together and compromises each other. Life must be very unpleasant, and it is better to live alone.

I think the marriage that is going to happen is even more terrifying. Although you may feel lonely in your old age, you can do something you enjoy to alleviate it. But in the future, you will not be happy for the rest of your life.

I think it's a marriage that will be settled, because you have to face the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife and parent-child relationship after marriage, and it is not as happy as being alone and growing old.

I want to get married even more, because after all, there is someone with me, and I feel very sad if I grow old alone.

I still prefer to marry in the future, because I still have someone to accompany you for the rest of my life, and if I am lonely, I can't stand being too lonely.

I don't agree with this sentence, after getting married, as long as the husband and wife can support their lives, then in my opinion, there will never be such a thing as loneliness and old age, which is also the biggest purpose of marriage in my opinion！Of course, some people will say that loneliness is not the most terrible thing, the most terrible thing is that you have no money when you are old. If there is no love, then you are mentally independent, strong in heart, and can resist, and you can't live without money.

Moreover, people who are afraid of loneliness cannot grow old alone. The feeling of no one to talk to, no one to accompany and no one to be around will make this kind of person who is afraid of loneliness and boredom lose their moisture little by little, and finally be depressed and desolate and leave.

But in my opinion, in fact, there is a so-called future in marriage? I don't know exactly when this so-called marriage appeared, but I really want to say that there is no such thing as a willIf you really don't like each other, then it's absolutely impossible to marry each other, and people think this way just because of their own discontentment, and most of them are women

I want to be honest, it's not that I'm discriminating against women, it's just that the reality of today's society is that the status of women has been promoted too much in recent years, but then there is the so-called marriage problem! Maybe it's because most girls have watched too many so-called idol dramas now, and then they feel that their future marriage will be like this, and their future husbands will be like this, but wake up! That's a TV series, not reality!

In my opinion, once a man and a woman get married, then the two people are equivalent to being connected as a whole, and the husband and wife in the marriage need to consider each other with their hearts, not selfish, and cooperate with what I am happy to do, and hide from doing things that I am not interested in, or even do it against each other, which is unacceptable. Marriage is a matter of two people, not like when a person is single, you can act arbitrarily, just leave, disappear when you say you disappear, and you have to consider the other half of the marriage

Which is better, a lonely old age or a marriage that is about to end? To me, to be honest, everyone's marriage may look glamorous on the outside.

Loneliness is old and coming.

The marriage of the copy is definitely different, the former is always only bai, and the latter is married

However, not very happy, but.

DAO is at least still having children, at least there are children guarding when they are dying, not everyone will die alone, in today's society, children are filial to their parents or the majority, so many people are full of children and grandchildren, how can they die alone.

Yes, a marriage that is about to settle is more terrible than a lonely old age. So if you can't meet the right one, it's better to be lonely until you get old.

One is the literal loneliness of old age, and the other is the emotional loneliness of old age; Everyone is an independent individual, and they are all born, grown, old, and passed away as a person, which is the completion of their own individual;

Most of what we may talk about is emotional, psychological, someone is not lonely, but in fact, inner fulfillment is the real non-loneliness, someone is by your side, you yourself can not feel happy companionship is also lonely, inner loneliness is not full is the real loneliness to old age.

Perhaps, everyone has a dead child in their heart, and no one will always be with you.

Remembering Tu Lei's sentence, how many examples can you give of parting ways because of incompatible personalities, I can cite as many examples of incompatible personalities but working together because of understanding and tolerance.

Yes, because you can't decide your own life to die, one of the two people will die first, and the other will die alone.

I don't think that's the case, if you marry the right person, it won't happen.

People live a lot of life, they are blessed and rich, from marriage to old age, there will always be an old man who walks forward, and he and she die alone.